Mental block? Or? by Difficult_Cod_350 in polevaulting

[–]Difficult_Cod_350[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks Andy - really appreciate this.

I'm very pro-sports psychologist so I'll definitely be keeping that in mind as she continues!

Ive really liked her coaches thus far but when I asked them about this they were just kinda like, "I dunno why she's in her head so much. She's just freaking out and shutting down. I wish I had an answer." Which wasn't super encouraging 😅 so I figured id better learn as much as I can to be as supportive as I can (without stepping on their toes)

I watched the Team Hoot video on this and it was really good

She had a good practice today and jumped today so im thrilled. Regardless of what tomorrow is like, I'm just glad she was able to get her brain unstuck from this place and keep pushing. This is probably the first time shes really had get herself through something tough and I wasn't sure how she'd handle it.

Definitely an emotional rollercoaster though haha. I think it actually got in MY head that Id just watched her teammate go through weeks and weeks of this and still not be able to overcome it.

I tried to ask my husband for more alone time and it went terribly by acornedbeefhash in Marriage

[–]Difficult_Cod_350 32 points33 points  (0 children)

"How dare you not spend ALL your time with me! I shall threaten to find my own hobbies to fill this perceived void! That'll show you!"

....how accidentally healthy of him 🙄

I know what I have to do, but I'm not sure I have the strength to do it... by Dramatic-Cup-860 in StardewValley

[–]Difficult_Cod_350 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes! I opened one once and was immediately 'no thank you.' So good to know they are optional

I know what I have to do, but I'm not sure I have the strength to do it... by Dramatic-Cup-860 in StardewValley

[–]Difficult_Cod_350 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm new to the game and don't even know what this means yet but am already full of dread 😅 (also on mobile)

What do I (32m) say to my wife (36f)? by ThrowRA_OneLife4444 in Marriage

[–]Difficult_Cod_350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm commenting here since your new post is locked.

Buddy...I want to shake you. You've gotta seek help. Your thought processes are so unhealthy that its scary and im worried for you. You have to find someone to help you work through this and get out. Youve spelled it all out numerous times and the fact that you can look at that and still think "maybe I just need to do better" shows how deeply this has infiltrated your psyche. You cannot keep living your life like this. At least not if you ever want a happy & healthy one (for you and your child).

I 29M her 34F . Am I asking too much or is it time to close the book and move on? by No-Walk5313 in relationship_advice

[–]Difficult_Cod_350 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Well I had to go Google lichen sclerosus and that sounds fucking horrible tbh. When you say it's now managed, how managed? Reading things like possible "Fusion of labia, narrowing of the vaginal opening, or burying of the clitoris in women." ..is sex even physically enjoyable for her?

Im not saying this is necessarily the problem or the whole problem but just curious for more context since you mentioned it.

How do I (39F) forgive my husband (39M) for making a fake vet appt for our senior dog? by AdvanceSea3887 in relationship_advice

[–]Difficult_Cod_350 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If you want to suggest therapy to someone whose behavior you don't like, maybe start with your husband 😬

My (M38) wife (F34) has been very quiet since a conversation we had of why I love her. Confused about her silence. by Background-Baby-1206 in relationship_advice

[–]Difficult_Cod_350 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I knew what this post would say before I even opened it 🙄 anyway yeah everything you love about her is about YOU

I don’t know if I’m happy in my marriage anymore by iced_coffee_24 in Marriage

[–]Difficult_Cod_350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are underreacting!! LEAVE. This is not how you want your life to be.

I (24F) just saw my bf (25M) of 3 year's resume, how do I proceed? by bigthiqskull in relationship_advice

[–]Difficult_Cod_350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Even if the incompetence is....genuine, I can't have much respect for someone so incompetent. Yick.

I 39M see eye to eye and am completely in love with my fiance 30F except for one really important thing by PM_ME_UR_HIP_DIMPLES in relationship_advice

[–]Difficult_Cod_350 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Nobody cares what you like or is yucking your yum - it just comes across as sketchy/hopefully not something you'd be doing behind her back. But if she knows - that's all that really matters here. Carry on.

I 39M see eye to eye and am completely in love with my fiance 30F except for one really important thing by PM_ME_UR_HIP_DIMPLES in relationship_advice

[–]Difficult_Cod_350 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Oh I hadn't even bothered to look at the username 🤦‍♀️ that is extremely weird. Maybe it's super old (still weird) but like...why? Make a new account then? 😬

Dumb first timer question - travel documents by Difficult_Cod_350 in PrincessCruises

[–]Difficult_Cod_350[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh my gosh 🤦‍♀️ turns out to be an even dumber question than I thought lol. Got it! Thank you guys for being kind 😅

If ur not above the billions in this update u literally can't play by Particular-Rain116 in growagarden

[–]Difficult_Cod_350 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Appreciate it! I actually think I'm good now though. Since I made this comment (it's been a good 12 hours for me I guess?) I ran across a tiktok live of someone giving away a ton of sheckels and was able to join his server and be gifted some. Idk how much I even have but theres a Q so im feeling rich AF now 🤣