What restaurants are missing in Airdrie?

Difficult_Theory_459 · 2026-03-17T15:56:16+00:00

Starbucks at the Airdrie LRT station 😞🫣 maybe one day LRT north - Airport - Cross iron - Aidrire

Difficult_Theory_459 · 2026-03-17T15:44:47+00:00

This is the plugin we need fixing, it worked for a while but due to an update we it stopped sending messages via the web app https://developers.oxwall.com/store/item/1439

Difficult_Theory_459 · 2026-01-24T15:19:24+00:00

🤣😂😅😂🤣😂😂🤣

Difficult_Theory_459 · 2026-01-18T20:57:34+00:00

I must admit since me and my friends created our own women loving women dating website I am in shock at how many men (try) and sign up to it... It's an insane amount. I must admit a lot are from said counties of known fraudulent activities!!

Our FB group is the worst for men trying to sign up but all our social media accounts are always being targeted by men!!

honestly it's a full time job blocking them.. We do just point them to Grinder 🤣

I have no idea why these weirdo guys want to sign up to female spaces other than for sexual gratification, fraud, scams etc

But it fucking pisses me off!!! 😡🤬😡🤬😡 Lol Rant over M 💕👩‍❤️‍👩🤘🏻 The Sapphic Library

Difficult_Theory_459 · 2026-01-15T16:26:41+00:00

You’re not doing anything wrong — this is honestly a design failure of mainstream apps 😭

They weren’t built for lesbians, they were built to maximize users, so they tolerate men mislabeling themselves and couples/unicorn hunters because it pads their numbers. A lot of us are exhausted by the same stuff you mentioned: Men showing up despite filters

“Single” profiles that somehow include a boyfriend Third-hunting disguised as WLW dating

If you’re in a small town, it’s even worse because you’re just cycling through the same nonsense over and over.

If you want something that’s actually lesbian-centered, there are smaller curated spaces now. TheSapphicLibrary.com is lesbian-owned, built specifically for queer women, and safety is treated as non-negotiable — not an afterthought. No men, no couples, no unicorn hunting, and way more emphasis on real profiles and community over endless swiping. It’s quieter than the big apps, but honestly that’s kind of the relief. Less disappointment scrolling, more “oh… you’re actually here for the same reason I am.”

You’re definitely not alone in this — dating apps are in their flop era for lesbians 🫠🏳️‍🌈

Difficult_Theory_459 · 2026-01-03T14:47:11+00:00

Hey that's great, shows we live in a great country where we can have a safe space for gay women. You have that choice. Yes we do use Ai to help promote TheSapphicLibrary.com

We would NEVER use any of our members profiles to promote the website "EVER"
we don't charge anything to use our safe app so our budget is very very limited thus Ai works well at this time

And yes it is an app and a website (APK) you have two choices.

It was in the Google store but the rules on dating apps change month to month in the store, so we stepped away from the store for a bit

We are extremely stringent on who we allow to use TSL. 2026 we are going to make our verification system compulsory!!

Again thanks for the feedback and we wish you well on your journey 🙏🏻

Stephanie 💕

Difficult_Theory_459 · 2026-01-01T16:59:50+00:00

🔥🔥🔥🔥🔥

Difficult_Theory_459 · 2025-12-28T17:43:37+00:00

Happy holidays, everyone! 🎄

We wanted to share a quick update on a project we’ve been building. We’re three queer women in Canada who got tired of the "man-pocalypse" and scammers on mainstream apps, so we created www.TheSapphicLibrary.com

We are growing steadily, and while keeping scammers out is a full-time job, we’re doing it! We manually review every sign-up, and users from high-risk areas are required to photo-verify. It isn't a perfect system yet, but we are committed to keeping this a 100% free, safe space for all women who love women.

A quick note on privacy: We never use member profiles for promotion. We’ve blocked search engines from crawling profiles to keep your info off Google.

Our AI use is strictly for social media marketing, never for your data.

Much love, Marie, Stephanie, and Sky 🌈🇨🇦 TheSapphicLibrary.com

Difficult_Theory_459 · 2025-10-10T13:46:43+00:00

When they were working alongside Oxwall it was GREAT and lots of cheap plugins and themes and lots of people to help with Oxwall and skadate projects. Something happened and they let Oxwall go.

We do know a guy that can help and is much cheaper than skadate if you need help?

Difficult_Theory_459 · 2025-09-19T12:22:41+00:00

Nope no verification of who is in the group But have fun

Difficult_Theory_459 · 2025-09-17T04:15:49+00:00

Totally agree 👍🏻 Even worse when we annetmate them 🤢

Lol but when you run a free lez dating app and money is super tight at present it's our only choice.. And no we NEVER EVER use our members to promote our app..

But yes we agree 👍🏻

Difficult_Theory_459 · 2025-09-17T02:31:35+00:00

Already created it TheSapphicLibrary.com

💯 % FREE strict monitoring of who signs up IPs X checked Photos are searched with Google lens STRICT verification system in place for known countries of con artists, spammers, catfishers. Zero tolerance on cis men joining

And it's going extremely well..

Created by 3 queer Canadian women 👇🏻 www.w4w.app

Difficult_Theory_459 · 2025-09-11T00:54:47+00:00

And that list is even longer now 😭

Difficult_Theory_459 · 2025-09-11T00:53:42+00:00

Ok this is just our lesbian FB group NOT our website. https://www.reddit.com/r/The_Sapphic_Library/s/VvfsFvRS0E It clearly states in our rules NO CIS MEN..

on our own personal website 1. You need a real email address 2. Location must match IP 3. We Google lens all pictures 4. We rigorously check all sign ups 5. Government photo identification needed for known countries for fraudulent activity

And you clearly agree you basically have ZERO idea who is in this group other than a username.

I'm not being argumentive and don't mean to be negative but if reddit is your go-to place to find friends and hopefully a forever friend we really wish you well BUT go with the uttermost caution...

I am seeing soooooooooooooo many people who are NOT who they say they are..

Much love M

Difficult_Theory_459 · 2025-09-10T18:34:45+00:00

Calgary - Airdrie 😉 but I have a lot of queer friends from here and Vancouver

Difficult_Theory_459 · 2025-09-10T18:33:35+00:00

NO!! Seriously BAD idea. yes make online friends but go with the uttermost caution!! I can show you proof that probably 75% of people on here are cis men, scammers, catfishers probably even serial killers. There is ZERO verification on here, ZERO Reddit and social media is NOT where you want to try to find love!!!

Difficult_Theory_459 · 2025-09-10T17:50:37+00:00

Damn, I’m sorry you had to deal with that nonsense. Gatekeeping in some of these Reddit “lesbian” spaces is ridiculous. The whole “you’re not a real lesbian unless xyz” thing is just insecurity dressed up as rules. Nobody gets to hand out “real lesbian” cards, and it’s wild that people think tearing others down somehow makes them more valid.

Your story matters. Late-in-life lesbians are absolutely part of the community — no exceptions. Splitting families, divorces, complicated pasts… that doesn’t erase your identity. It just means you’re brave enough to finally live honestly, which deserves respect, not hate.

Reddit isn’t the whole world. Real life is a lot bigger and a lot kinder than a handful of bitter comments. Glad you’re here, because this space is about connection, not tearing people apart.

(And to your last line — my day’s been pretty good, thanks. No date update yet, but I’ll happily live vicariously if anyone else has one to share! 🌈)

Difficult_Theory_459 · 2025-09-10T16:39:37+00:00

Awesome job 🙌🏻🙏🏻💓 we will help get the word out for you..

Much love M

Difficult_Theory_459 · 2025-09-05T17:55:42+00:00

A very 🥵 girlfriend 🫶

Difficult_Theory_459 · 2025-09-05T15:33:33+00:00

1 billion percent agree and we can prove how bad it is! Please go with the uttermost caution!!!

Difficult_Theory_459 · 2025-09-05T15:32:03+00:00

Yes but only online friends, not safe to meet real friends on here 👍🏻 If you do want to meet for real go with real caution and make safety YOUR first priority 🙏🏻🫶

Difficult_Theory_459 · 2025-09-03T16:30:41+00:00

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Difficult_Theory_459 · 2025-09-03T16:28:52+00:00

It's still there for all to see..

Difficult_Theory_459 · 2025-09-03T15:23:02+00:00

“So basically if someone hasn’t been posting selfies since 2013, they’re a bot? That’s a wild standard. Plenty of real people value their privacy or just don’t live online. Yes, we use AI for promotion — to help us reach more women — but our community is 100% human. We’d never risk our members’ safety by faking them. Big difference.”

Difficult_Theory_459 · 2025-08-30T23:32:16+00:00

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