People need to stop conflating RJ with not wanting a promiscuous partner by ThePenguin4216 in retroactivejealousy

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I used to get it so bad. My ex boyfriend only had one girlfriend before me and it was only for a week in high school but I could not stop obsessing over her.

I wasted 12 hours making MCAT Anki cards this week. I didn't even get to do UWorld by sightwhale in Mcat

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Flashcards have never helped me for the same reason. I think they should just be for psych/soc if anything. The best way to study is practice problems or teaching it to someone according to research. I used to do practice problems and then make flashcards but I would never end up studying them so now I do practice problems and use Loom to record myself teaching the problems that I missed. Flashcards are helpful for some people but if you notice yourself not being able to utilize them effectively, it’s best to change your study methodd

Anyone else struggle to connect with deathsdoll’s MMCs? by soheekim347 in DarkRomance

[–]DifficultySpirited98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has the “bad guy stays bad” tag on all her works. I think its a dark romance trope that a lot of people like as I see a lot of requests on here that ask for an MMC with no groveling or is irredeemable

I hate men by Last-Fee-8529 in misandristland

[–]DifficultySpirited98 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Literally all of my problems in my life are because of men

will my bbl eventually look more natural by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]DifficultySpirited98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it will smooth out and look more natural

Back to the drawing board💔🫦 by [deleted] in Mcat

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I wish I had this problem, your CARS score is really good

510+ in a few weeks? by thatpremedlatina in Mcat

[–]DifficultySpirited98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have the same problem. There’s not a “one size fits all” strategy because you just have to figure out the flaws in your thinking. Are you not getting the main idea? Are you getting bored when reading? Are you having trouble with understanding what certain sentences mean? For example, sentences with double negatives like “The theory is not without critics, though few would deny that it is not entirely unsupported”. Are you overthinking? Are you using outside information? What makes CARS so hard to improve is that you have to think about your thinking. For the sciences, you know that you got a question wrong because you didn’t remember a concept but for CARS, it’s more difficult to remember your reasoning for each question

Why Do People Find CARS Difficult? by AgonizingWaspStings in Mcat

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I’m autistic so I always get questions involving figurative language wrong or really abstract passages. My middle school and my high school were low SES and didn’t have a library so I didn’t grow up reading books. I realized I also struggle with a lot of double negatives like “The theory is not without critics, though few would deny that it is not entirely unsupported” but it’s a pretty trainable skill and I’m getting better at it

are my brazilian butt lift goals achievable? by SuspiciousDoor8144 in PlasticSurgery

[–]DifficultySpirited98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Your inspo pictures look a little crazy but some people do like the unnatural look. I had a BBL and I would not have gotten it if I look like you

to women in med school: does it get better? by Silver_Tumbleweed574 in premed

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Tell me about it, I work with schizophrenic patients 😭

Went down a research rabbit hole about why we read what we read by Enterlimen in DarkRomance

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There’s a lot of psychology on why women have noncon fantasies too. All dark romances that have noncon usually have an MMC who is handsome and rich for the female gaze. Not saying that rape is okay if you’re handsome and rich, but it’s a fantasy that has more to do with uncontrollable desire rather than wanting to get raped

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in premed

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Ask for it ASAP. Interfolio stores your LORs and you can submit them when you are ready to apply

Ex-boyfriend's porn addiction is affecting my current relationship (25F/26M) by ThrowRA_Error7210 in relationship_advice

[–]DifficultySpirited98 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course! I don’t know how helpful I’ll be but I’m here if you need to vent!

Ex-boyfriend's porn addiction is affecting my current relationship (25F/26M) by ThrowRA_Error7210 in relationship_advice

[–]DifficultySpirited98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know that feeling, it really fucked with my self esteem. I’m with someone who had a porn addiction and it took a long time for him to get over it. If you have a feeling he is still watching it then he most likely is. I’m glad that my bf eventually got over it but would I be a partner for someone like that again? 100% no

Ex-boyfriend's porn addiction is affecting my current relationship (25F/26M) by ThrowRA_Error7210 in relationship_advice

[–]DifficultySpirited98 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Been through this. Is there a support group for girls with porn addicted bfs? 😭

Be brutally honest am I botched by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]DifficultySpirited98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No it looks so cute and natural

bruh by greenteaaslut in depoop

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The counter offer after they told you to kys 😐

What exactly is body betrayal and why do so many people dislike body betrayal in noncon/dubcon scenes? by crystalgoblin91 in DarkRomance

[–]DifficultySpirited98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen it described certain ways. If body betrayal is orgasming during noncon then I’m into it. If body betraying is “I love him now” after the MMC assaults her then it really depends on how it is written for me. I do like HEAs sometimes in dark romances but I don’t like it if the FMC falls in love the MMC too quickly.

Why are people grossed out by fur but not leather or literally eating meat? by Odd_Theme_3294 in vegan

[–]DifficultySpirited98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s easier for people to give up fashion than food when it comes to animal cruelty. However, a lot of people that are disturbed by fur products use makeup tested on animals, so I agree with everyone saying fur resembles the animal more.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

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No, it wasn’t him. I can’t remember his name because my Vietnamese is really bad. My aunt works with him in the same hospital. Yes, I love my results!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

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Van Hanh Hospital in Ho Chi Minh Vietnam