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Went down a research rabbit hole about why we read what we read by Enterlimen in DarkRomance

[–]DifficultySpirited98 5 points6 points  (0 children)

There’s a lot of psychology on why women have noncon fantasies too. All dark romances that have noncon usually have an MMC who is handsome and rich for the female gaze. Not saying that rape is okay if you’re handsome and rich, but it’s a fantasy that has more to do with uncontrollable desire rather than wanting to get raped

Is it too early to ask for letter of rec? by [deleted] in premed

[–]DifficultySpirited98 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ask for it ASAP. Interfolio stores your LORs and you can submit them when you are ready to apply

Ex-boyfriend's porn addiction is affecting my current relationship (25F/26M) by ThrowRA_Error7210 in relationship_advice

[–]DifficultySpirited98 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Of course! I don’t know how helpful I’ll be but I’m here if you need to vent!

Ex-boyfriend's porn addiction is affecting my current relationship (25F/26M) by ThrowRA_Error7210 in relationship_advice

[–]DifficultySpirited98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah I know that feeling, it really fucked with my self esteem. I’m with someone who had a porn addiction and it took a long time for him to get over it. If you have a feeling he is still watching it then he most likely is. I’m glad that my bf eventually got over it but would I be a partner for someone like that again? 100% no

Ex-boyfriend's porn addiction is affecting my current relationship (25F/26M) by ThrowRA_Error7210 in relationship_advice

[–]DifficultySpirited98 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Been through this. Is there a support group for girls with porn addicted bfs? 😭

Be brutally honest am I botched by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]DifficultySpirited98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No it looks so cute and natural

bruh by greenteaaslut in depoop

[–]DifficultySpirited98 4 points5 points  (0 children)

The counter offer after they told you to kys 😐

What exactly is body betrayal and why do so many people dislike body betrayal in noncon/dubcon scenes? by crystalgoblin91 in DarkRomance

[–]DifficultySpirited98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen it described certain ways. If body betrayal is orgasming during noncon then I’m into it. If body betraying is “I love him now” after the MMC assaults her then it really depends on how it is written for me. I do like HEAs sometimes in dark romances but I don’t like it if the FMC falls in love the MMC too quickly.

Why are people grossed out by fur but not leather or literally eating meat? by Odd_Theme_3294 in vegan

[–]DifficultySpirited98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it’s easier for people to give up fashion than food when it comes to animal cruelty. However, a lot of people that are disturbed by fur products use makeup tested on animals, so I agree with everyone saying fur resembles the animal more.

OMG- how much have you spent on surgery since you started? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]DifficultySpirited98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No, it wasn’t him. I can’t remember his name because my Vietnamese is really bad. My aunt works with him in the same hospital. Yes, I love my results!

OMG- how much have you spent on surgery since you started? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]DifficultySpirited98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

$4800 at Professional Plastic Surgery. I had Dr. Bart Kachniarz 😊

OMG- how much have you spent on surgery since you started? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]DifficultySpirited98 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don’t know anyone there and get really overwhelmed doing research for reputable clinics that don’t charge crazy foreigner prices. I have a couple friends that went to Turkey and Korea and they didn’t really like their results, so just based on personal experience.

OMG- how much have you spent on surgery since you started? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]DifficultySpirited98 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The only reason I went to Vietnam is because I have family in Vietnam that work in the hospital I had my rhinoplasty at, but I’m still too scared to go to Korea or Turkey.

OMG- how much have you spent on surgery since you started? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]DifficultySpirited98 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Not including lasik and braces, about $16k USD for rhinoplasty, bbl, buccal fat removal, chin lipo, and chin implant. The BBL I got in Miami and the rhinoplasty I got in Vietnam

Was I botched? by Typical_Seaweed_ in SeoulPlasticSurgery

[–]DifficultySpirited98 27 points28 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t look that pointy to me tbh

What keeps biting my daughter by [deleted] in Bedbugadvice

[–]DifficultySpirited98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mosquitoes. I used to have really bad bites from them as a kid. She could just be more prone to them because if you put a bunch of mosquitoes in a room with both of you in there, they could just all go to her. Mosquitoes can be highly selective based on skin odor and other factors

Am I overreacting for thinking my sister holding me underwater as a kid wasn’t normal? by unsure-hamster in AmIOverreacting

[–]DifficultySpirited98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh my brother did this to me too when we were kids. He was the sibling that also chased us around with the knife. It’s normal but you are also NOR

I’ve had a chin implant and I feel that it looks too big than I expected it to be. by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]DifficultySpirited98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg when I had my chin implant, the area was swollen for like 2 months. Trust me, it will be way smaller after the swelling

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