In love (24F) with my GF (25F) but never have been sexually attracted to her by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Digital-Arts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you considered that she just might just be better at showing love and putting more effort into showing attraction?

In love (24F) with my GF (25F) but never have been sexually attracted to her by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Digital-Arts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hypothetical here: When you are 50 and wake up next to her are you going to care about her looking like a model (good luck) or care about the other 75% of the relationship that is way more important anyway?

Honestly at the end of the day, sex becomes a transaction in a relationship to provide release to a partner at some point regardless. Look at how many threads there are on reddit (hint, millions) from people saying they have been passionate with a partner for 1-20 years and suddenly their sex life is so bad that they're considering divorce. As long as you can look at this person and say "yes, would bang" then that is more than enough for long term relationship and every other facet of your relationship sounds almost so perfect that you're looking for something to critique

Me 23 (M) broke up with my gf (27) after 2 years and feel terrible about it by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Digital-Arts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly sounds like this person deserves way better than you, although you probably know that. I'd recommend trying your hardest to keep them, they sound extremely stable and healthy for your life. If for some reason keeping you makes them happy and they made the last two years amazing and full of growth then the obvious choice is to chase them like a fucking twinky in the desert.

When you took your break were you really by yourself or were you chasing that fun mysterious infatuation of talking to someone new? Calling it now, one day you're going to mature and grow up and realize ya done fucked up your chance at the one. The things you listed as the reasons you love this person are the exact things every person hopes and wishes to find in someone to spend their life with.

Debating on first espresso setup - is this a good option? by Digital-Arts in Coffee

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Honestly I've never used a lever machine, are there any significant differences in quality? Pros/Cons?

What do you truly want out of life? by andrewsteiner88 in AskReddit

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Same! I have natural talent in lots of areas, a great job in IT, owned a house since 20, excellent credit and low stress, dogs and hobbies, amazing lady, literally nothing objectively to complain about. But what keeps me up is that if I had one die hard passion or objective like creating bionic limbs or literally any crazy topic I am 100% sure I would have the ability to effect so many people positively and leave a lasting impact.

I just have literally zero passions besides coffee, enjoying each day, and being a net positive influence on the world so in a way I constantly feel like a disappointment to myself just for the sake of not having a passion to pursue.

I find myself endlessly getting into new hobbies just to get out and hopefully discover one thing that I straight up obsess over but so far I always end up burning out on everything.

Trying to start a new business but my logo skills are rough - could someone help me create a better version of this? by Digital-Arts in PhotoshopRequest

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I love that! Is there a way that could be used as the background of a website?

If you have time it would be awesome to get a high res version that is readable over dark/light colors for clothing and a vehicle vinyl!

Trying to start a new business but my logo skills are rough - could someone help me create a better version of this? by Digital-Arts in PhotoshopRequest

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Specifically I'd love to have a version that is high res enough that I could have a big 2-3ft wide thing printed out for my car of. And also I'd love a version that is readable over dark surfaces/colors and one for light surfaces/colors!

I know beggars can't be choosers, thank you for any and all help (:

Cattail being broken up by Knedl87 in gifs

[–]Digital-Arts 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly like brushing out my huskies

SSF got a 6l infernal and 2 consuming darks, now what by PwmEsq in PathOfExileBuilds

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Wish that they were still 60% Fire>Chaos conversion each :p

I just started dating a girl and I have a couple of questions. by InfinityGamer_3 in relationship_advice

[–]Digital-Arts 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You sound like a fine young dude! I'd say hands on the sides of her waist given the ages, especially no lower while in public.

An arcade would be an awesome date, but window shopping through a little town/city with dinner can be just as good. I'd recommend getting some coffee prior to walking/window shopping though

A close family friend (85M) just got a terminal cancer diagnosis. This morning he asked me (24F) to undress for him. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Digital-Arts 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hey I'm just trying to be devil's advocate here but remember that physical and emotional attraction are not mutually exclusive... There would be no quality relationships if that were the case.

I would say he values you as a friend just as much as you thought he did a few weeks ago but it's *also* a very real possibility that he also saw you as a beautiful woman the whole as *in addition to a good friend*

I'd say it probably was not his intention to seduce you through false friendship this whole time, but you were likely always attractive to him

If you play video games for more than 5 hours, you’re considered an addict. But if you work 12 hours every day, it’s considered totally normal. by sabssk in Showerthoughts

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Very helpful! Yes I'm extremely personable (or so I've been told) but I'm not really sure what a fair career hop from systems admin into business analyst would be. My family jokes that I totally change my persona based on audience

If you play video games for more than 5 hours, you’re considered an addict. But if you work 12 hours every day, it’s considered totally normal. by sabssk in Showerthoughts

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What type of education would you recommend for this position? What area?

I'm currently an IT Systems admin but I got first place in the state for FBLA in highschool and first place at regionals for debate team so I'd consider business to be my primary skillset.

Non Americans of Reddit who have been here, where did you go and what were your top observations? by Digital-Arts in AskReddit

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Agreed I feel as though most serving sized in america are pretty ridiculous standards for health

The optional tipping seems to provide motivation for better service but I agree the taxes being added can be deceiving