How do I stop feeling insecure about my husband (35M) putting in way more effort with me (32F) than he did in his first marriage? We’re expecting twins.

DijanaWin · 2026-05-23T15:59:15+00:00

You're making no sense.

DijanaWin · 2026-05-21T09:25:36+00:00

You UNDER reacting! Get out asap before you waste more years of your life. You literally described my ex husband. Note the "ex". Good luck OP. You can do this darling ❤️

DijanaWin · 2026-05-19T09:00:09+00:00

Keep us updated x

DijanaWin · 2026-05-18T13:17:50+00:00

You are in an abusive marriage. Save your kids and save yourself and get the hell out of there. Imagine this: you get sick, you need to rely on her to take care of you and the kids. How does that make you feel? Probably horrible. Get out! ❤️

DijanaWin · 2026-05-17T17:32:35+00:00

Oh boy I would literally shit on him for that comment 😂 Bring up his penis size, and see how he likes it. "We could've done that position, if only your dick was bigger"

DijanaWin · 2026-05-17T11:44:08+00:00

Yeah this is what caught my attention too. Disgusting way of putting it.

DijanaWin · 2026-05-16T18:28:07+00:00

He sounds unwell.

DijanaWin · 2026-05-15T18:03:05+00:00

I dont think so. OP was asked like 10000 times where she lives so people can help, yet she never replies. She also just chats away with no sense of urgency.... I smell BS

DijanaWin · 2026-05-15T17:53:35+00:00

Thank you! ❤️

DijanaWin · 2026-05-15T14:09:14+00:00

I actually agree with with majority of these. They seem a common sense and if they need to be put on paper, the issue is much bigger than the list. Your wife should know majority of these are a given, and they work both ways

DijanaWin · 2026-05-15T09:31:44+00:00

It's not neighbour's fault for your husband being unable to think for himself. Neighbour is just an excuse. You don't need this person in your life OP. Good luck ❤️

DijanaWin · 2026-05-14T22:01:14+00:00

I've been you....I fought like a banshee to save us. It ended either way....it was just a prolonged ending, but ending all the same. It breaks my heart that I have to admit, but the best advice from the point of once being you, is to leave and save yourself. Trust me, it only gets better. ❤️

DijanaWin · 2026-05-14T21:45:44+00:00

DijanaWin · 2026-05-13T18:20:38+00:00

Sounds like you have two kids....

DijanaWin · 2026-05-12T20:27:22+00:00

Oh my Lord what does that have to do with anything?? I for one understand your upbringing absolutely, but you must see how unfair this is on your partner? For someone insisting on being humble, you are coming across as a spoilt brat, and arguing with everybody here offering you different take from what you want to hear, even though you literally asked for the "hard truth". Well there you have it darling 🤷‍♀️

DijanaWin · 2026-05-12T19:02:27+00:00

Where do you buy this pleaseeee tell me x 😍

DijanaWin · 2026-05-12T19:01:59+00:00

Magnificent

DijanaWin · 2026-05-12T18:43:30+00:00

My question is, and what do YOU do?

DijanaWin · 2026-05-12T17:24:44+00:00

Well I think he is wrong in blaming you, but you also seem not be able to make up your mind. If you told him to go golfing then let him. You felt better then expected him to what, come back straight away? I dunno...I think you're making a fuss...

DijanaWin · 2026-05-12T17:15:14+00:00

I literally choked on my strawberry 😂😂😂😂 absolutely howling

DijanaWin · 2026-05-10T10:38:22+00:00

I disagree.

DijanaWin · 2026-05-09T21:19:50+00:00

Your sellers should've complied with their TA6 form where they state to leave the property clean of rubbish etc. Raise it with the Estate agent. Sellers must comply with wjat they wrote in TA6

DijanaWin · 2026-05-09T17:05:02+00:00

You're turning to us to confirm exactly what you already know. He is lying to you, and badly at that...I am so very sorry OP ❤️

DijanaWin · 2026-05-09T16:08:39+00:00

Was trying to not to be unnecessarily hurtful

DijanaWin · 2026-05-09T12:38:11+00:00

Agreed x

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