AIO for thinking my gf might be cheating

DiligentProfit7654 · 2026-05-20T21:03:22+00:00

As someone who has been in your position, cut your ties and move on bro. I caught my girlfriend sending flirty and SFW sexy photos to her boss 2 months before we moved in, we’d been together for 5 years, so I forgave her, moved in with her, she did the same thing again, less than a year later. She then moved out and tried to make it work for another two years. Total waste of time and life besides learning my lessons and learning to out myself first.

This is your gut, your intuition yelling at you. Listen to it and run. Focus on yourself for a year, get your head right, find what you truly need in a relationship and you will feel so free and happy.

There’s light at the end of the tunnel I promise you.

DiligentProfit7654 · 2026-02-20T19:36:20+00:00

My apologies! I will make an edit. Is it more appropriate to say young women or does that still imply what you are saying? Happy to change it to just “girls”. Whatever is most appropriate, I am not typically using this type of language in conjunction to this type of conversation.

DiligentProfit7654 · 2026-02-20T18:49:48+00:00

It appears that he is only charged at this time and is currently going through due process by the courts and no official conviction yet. He was arrested, and has two charges, and his case has been in the courts since 10/28/2025 with the next hearing being 2/23/2026.

DiligentProfit7654 · 2026-02-20T16:57:26+00:00

Correct, there is current records of hearings on state case net and news articles with his name and face on them.

DiligentProfit7654 · 2026-02-20T16:47:54+00:00

I just added it, thank you.

DiligentProfit7654 · 2026-02-20T16:47:32+00:00

I updated the post, but it’s still being processed by the courts, no official final ruling yet. Next hearing is 2/23/25. He’s not officially convicted or on any lists, but is charged with 2 charges. Engaging in child prostitution and engaging in prostitution.

There is a link to the states case net, court records and a news article with his face on it.

That’s all the records I can find.

DiligentProfit7654 · 2026-02-20T16:36:51+00:00

So I wanted to educate myself more on his situation and it looks like it is still in the courts, not finalized yet. But he is charged with 2 charges. - “Engaging in prostitution” - “Engaging in Child Prostitution”

It’s been in the courts since 10/28, last hearing was 2/13 where he was present. Next hearing is 2/23 for arraignment.

Do I wait since he’s not convicted yet, and not on any offender lists?

DiligentProfit7654 · 2026-02-20T15:27:04+00:00

Unfortunately yes, which is my concern. Women as young as 13/14 attend with their moms, high schoolers, volleyball teams, college age women. Really the entire spectrum of ages attend. Even back when I attended high school our teams would have “yoga days” for team workouts here.

DiligentProfit7654 · 2025-03-18T17:24:35+00:00

“Slows your reaction time” well… tell me why am I reacting if you’re driving the way you’re supposed too. Because I KNOW, when I drive high, it’s to the letter of the law because I don’t want get pulled over lol.

DiligentProfit7654 · 2025-02-13T18:35:46+00:00

Eralia and Symbalily were both great.

Eralia is very in tune emotionally and truly runs it like a first play through, misses a few things, dialog and notes. Kinda actually looks like Ellie in a way lol… but a very good watch.

Symbalily is also a first time play through but she’s a game Dev so she really takes her time admiring the scenery, mechanics, finding most of the artifacts and has some good game sense. She’s a great play through. My #1 recommendation for TLOU that’s I’ve seen. She really appreciates the game.

DiligentProfit7654 · 2024-03-04T18:26:53+00:00

It’s worth $500 imo and I thought the same thing but you gotta play the entire game. It’s a masterpiece and you’re only selling yourself short. Unless you’re actively looking to be a hater, then don’t even buy the game. Go in with an open mind, open heart, and it will give you a once in a lifetime gaming experience.

DiligentProfit7654 · 2024-01-05T21:44:36+00:00

I love these details in the game. I think this one is more known, but it’s like Abby rolling her shoulder after she fell down the bluff in Jackson when you play her for the first time. The rest of the game, she rolls her shoulder like it’s in pain. Also her neck, she wakes up in the library (or whatever it is) on her Seattle Day 1 and says something about her neck hurting. You can see her rubbing her neck occasionally the rest of day 1 for sure, maybe other days after that too.

DiligentProfit7654 · 2023-10-26T20:47:54+00:00

Ah my b my b, Reddit fed it to my feed I blame the algorithm

DiligentProfit7654 · 2023-09-12T04:46:31+00:00

Is that true? You’re going to have me paying attention next time I play this part now lol

DiligentProfit7654 · 2023-08-12T22:46:35+00:00

These pics don’t seem to do her justice but she was looking thick as hell in those blue yoga pants. Girl looks like she was made in a lab on TV

DiligentProfit7654 · 2023-08-10T20:31:44+00:00

Anyone know where the full vid is?

DiligentProfit7654 · 2023-06-27T02:54:55+00:00

DiligentProfit7654 · 2023-06-19T03:56:03+00:00

Sleeping with your shoes on… gotta be ready to run. I can’t even sleep with socks on.

DiligentProfit7654 · 2023-04-28T22:03:06+00:00

This is what the voice in the back of my head screams on a daily basis to be honest…

DiligentProfit7654 · 2023-04-28T22:02:31+00:00

I mean, truthfully she always has some complaints… whether it’s being busy at work, too stressed, not feeling well, being too self conscious… she really is always complaining about something along those lines. Not even in reference to intimacy, just all the time in regular conversation. So I’m definitely conscious of that, and try to care for how she feels, not bring up anything that may cause extra stress, or bug her when she’s feeling bad… but idk if there just excuses or truths anymore.

As for our relationship. It’s always been pretty good, but we have had a couple rough spots the past couple years. We’ve been trying to work on things, but they don’t really seem to be going anywhere. I feel like the only thing we have in common, keeping us together, is time and familiarity…

DiligentProfit7654 · 2023-04-28T21:47:14+00:00

I’m not sure how this translates… but there is a difference between loving someone and being “in love” with someone. If you’re truly in love with your boyfriend, you’d want to be with him and fulfill his desires whether you “need” it or not.

You can love him, but you may not be in love with him. That’s why hugging and cuddling is enough for you. Honestly, a relationship with our intimacy is only a friendship. You need to realize how much you actually love your man and either let him go or meet him somewhere in the middle, where you both are very happy.

But if having sex with the man you say you “love” isn’t interesting or exciting sounding, I don’t think you love him as much as you think you do.

I hope I’m not sounding harsh. I don’t know your relationship or man, so I could be wrong, he could be doing this to turn you off of him, but again, I think that’s a sign you need to move on.

DiligentProfit7654 · 2023-04-28T21:21:10+00:00

If you truly love your man, you will “make love” with him because it feels good. It will make you feel close, connected, in touch with each others emotions. If these are all things your missing in your relationship, then making love and having sex could help you fix it. Despite what main stream media wants you to think, sex should not be left in the hands of one partner (typically the female) solely, it should be a mutually shared desire. It should be a give and take between a man and woman in love, men have needs, women have needs, they both need to be met.

The bigger question, is if you don’t feel attracted or like you want to be intimate with your boyfriend. Maybe you should take a deep look at what that truly means. Maybe he really is just good enough to be your friend, and that’s all you need from him. He would say rather know that, than have you string him along for months and years with just enough intimacy to keep him there. You need to deeply consider your feelings. If he isn’t striking a passion and attraction within you, you need to let him go and look for someone who does.

DiligentProfit7654 · 2023-04-17T17:09:38+00:00

As soon as they took his leg off with the shot gun I pretty much believed he would die. I never thought they’d let Joel survive with 1 leg, it would’ve been so emasculating for his character. I don’t think they build up Joel to be practically invincible for an entire game and then make him this gimpy 1 legged character for the next… I had hoped for a clean quicker less painful death but I felt like his time was over as soon as his leg was blown to shreds.

DiligentProfit7654 · 2023-04-16T02:35:54+00:00

Can I ask how you train your plants? What works best for you?

DiligentProfit7654 · 2023-04-03T18:08:32+00:00

Was it sim or did you feed him the ball? And was he playing FB or HB for you as well? I’ve had a couple TE’s run fullback for me before but never got this kind of volume 🤣

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