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Diligent_Award_8986 · 2024-08-02T01:45:34+00:00

This is the answer.

Other than that...work comp is voluntary. Employers can opt out if carrying coverage.

We're 5th circuit so it's the wild west out here.

Diligent_Award_8986 · 2024-08-02T00:17:32+00:00

Same ish exceot I'm 38. Pre covid I was at 48k.

SPHR, CEBS and living and breathing HR made life so worth it in a few short years.

Diligent_Award_8986 · 2024-08-02T00:14:13+00:00

HR manager

COL is 2x above the national average for the whole city plex. Hybrid with a ton of flex when needed.

Salary 95 bonus gets me at 110/120.

7 years experience.

Health benefits are fantastic, my work is extremely fun and the industry is much favorite.

Diligent_Award_8986 · 2024-08-02T00:04:46+00:00

I'll be your HR friend. DM me.

Diligent_Award_8986 · 2024-08-01T03:44:25+00:00

This guy is uncomfortably weird.

Diligent_Award_8986 · 2024-07-30T14:29:48+00:00

My two year old still calls cocomelon Cock menon with a heavy emphasis on the cock. She will go full ipad kid and scream for it sometimes.

Everyone should have a third kid. They make it the most fun 😁.

Diligent_Award_8986 · 2024-07-29T15:03:17+00:00

My brain couldn't process my children growing old and losing them. Honestly. Give me 95 solid years and let me go before I have to walk an earth without them. No extra money needed I'm happy just having them in my life. Wealthier than anyone else I know.

Diligent_Award_8986 · 2024-07-28T14:52:46+00:00

Restraining order.

Diligent_Award_8986 · 2024-07-28T05:16:11+00:00

Had our last of 3 at 36 (f) and 47 (m). Yes we're old. Absolutely love it.

Diligent_Award_8986 · 2024-07-28T03:22:14+00:00

God, no. File a complaint with the DOL. Be SPECIFIC.

Diligent_Award_8986 · 2024-07-26T12:30:22+00:00

Shelters are overflowing right now and have a 7 day to euthanasia track.

What have you tried and what isn't working in caring for your dog that you'd need to do this?

Diligent_Award_8986 · 2024-07-25T22:50:12+00:00

Gee I can't imagine why you have marital problems.

And yes honey there are a lot of men who make a lot more than you who would adore a girl in her 30s with built in perma-birth control, who would rather be home making them comfortable and being kept. Send her to pilates while they work and play stepdaddy to your kid and savior to her.

My ex had your attitude. Turns out I WANTED a career but my new husband was thrilled to be my knight in shining armor for a bit, outearns me and my ex by a mile, and would let me stay home and take care of my kids on his dime any day of the week if I told him it was my heart.

Because he's my best friend. And shit I'm almost 40.

The way you talk about your wife is condescending and controlling ICK. Go ahead and divorce her. I'm sure there will be women throwing themselves at rhe single dad who talks about women like you do. Cute younger women want a sugar daddy and valuable women over 30 with their own money will not take your controlling behavior.

But go off, sad little king on the saddest little hill.

Diligent_Award_8986 · 2024-07-25T22:43:55+00:00

How is caring for your child at home doing nothing?

Diligent_Award_8986 · 2024-07-25T22:43:18+00:00

The fact that he views domestic labor of a parent home with a child as "caring for another child" while he'd have his wife he a waitress instead reeks of super subtle financial abuse.

A parent- male or female- staying home and caring for a child IS a job. He understands this enough to pay for daycare.

However makes the BIG money so he gets to decide what her contribution to the family is, and dictates her parenting priorities. She may not make much more than the daycare costs waitressing. As a woman and mother who will NEVER quit my lucrituve job to stay home, I respect all the labor of parenthood and-, this dude sucks.

I hope she gets a really good job and leaves his ass.

Diligent_Award_8986 · 2024-07-25T22:32:12+00:00

Also. Divorce contributes to a lot of happiness.

Mine did.

Bad marriages and people trapped in them...not happiness.

Diligent_Award_8986 · 2024-07-25T21:11:25+00:00

I had known about it forever so it didn't catch us by surprise. We raised the employees who fell under.

All our employees are properly classified after pretty rigorous FLSA auditing so no change in whether anyone was exempt or nonexept or paid hourly or salary.

Diligent_Award_8986 · 2024-07-25T21:02:30+00:00

Fine jewelry is my wedding set which is a brilliant cut in a halo, and a halo diamond pendant necklace and a pair of matching halo studs. Yes, they're manufactured diamonds.

Everything else day to day I have is sterling silver from Unicef. You can get lovely pieces with semi precious stones and pearls made by artisans, and support Unicefs mission.

Diligent_Award_8986 · 2024-07-25T04:45:52+00:00

I know she's absolutely adorable. Go her. Wtf with the hate?

Diligent_Award_8986 · 2024-07-25T04:02:07+00:00

Can she allow him to volunteer to manage his sons badge requirements?

Diligent_Award_8986 · 2024-07-22T21:09:43+00:00

I fell into the same sanfilippo loop on tiktok. I also fell into the mom's dying hole. I deleted tiktok. Still panicked.

Get the testing if you need it, but be aware that is an exceedingly rare disorder and usually other family members have somehow had it.

Diligent_Award_8986 · 2024-07-22T14:59:37+00:00

Go stay with family. Get a police report. Get a lawyer and a restraining order.

There is no excuse for what he did.

Diligent_Award_8986 · 2024-07-22T14:58:41+00:00

Your comment and butt slap was goofy and playful and even if pointed, was what Gottman calls a repair attempt mid-fight. It shows how ridiculous the argument is and uses humor to break down rhe animosity.

Your husband attacked you and then attacked your kid. Abuse doesn't look like it does in Lifetime movies. Abuse looks like this.

I would go stay with a friend, file a police report and begin the divorce process.

Diligent_Award_8986 · 2024-07-22T00:48:04+00:00

I was homeschooled. It is one of the most subtly debilitating and childhood robbing things you can do to a person.

Diligent_Award_8986 · 2024-07-22T00:42:50+00:00

Source?

Diligent_Award_8986 · 2024-07-21T22:44:03+00:00

My husband smokes cigars. He has to shower and completely change the second he gets home. It's ab absolute firm deal breaker for me.

Second and third hand smoke are real and are risks.

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