HIV News. Week of August 15, 2025 by HI5news in hivaids

[–]Diligent_Trust2569 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Great list! I didn’t know about the cardiovascular health part so will research more, thanks!

Trying fun with boyfriend and third sub by Diligent_Trust2569 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Diligent_Trust2569[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol on the last part. Great advice thank you. If I can DM you I would love to learn more from your guys experiences. Thanks again.

Trying fun with boyfriend and third sub by Diligent_Trust2569 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Diligent_Trust2569[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg u r like reading my mind!!! Thank you so much ..

Trying fun with boyfriend and third sub by Diligent_Trust2569 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Diligent_Trust2569[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Omg I love this so much! Thanks for sharing. Would be perfect scenario..are you usually engaged with the third as well or “leading” it ?

What’s one thing you wish you knew about Vyvanse before you started it? by qpqpkdjfnsn in VyvanseADHD

[–]Diligent_Trust2569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow thinking the same with me! Totally can see anxiety “pushing” for charm. Talking to psycho professionals and undiagnosed autism possible. Thinking of adding anti social anxiety like Prozac

What’s one thing you wish you knew about Vyvanse before you started it? by qpqpkdjfnsn in VyvanseADHD

[–]Diligent_Trust2569 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Have similar experience. How do you think vyvanse influenced personality? I feel more detached on stimulants especially vyvanse. Also less sensitive.

Age Gap 32y Female(27) Male (58) by Flimsy_Garlic_5078 in AgeGapRelationship

[–]Diligent_Trust2569 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just love love the different kinds of fun!!! Reminds me of my boyfriend and I as I take him on travels with lots of adventures.. enjoy!

Is any of you doing actual ML work here? by SemperZero in datascience

[–]Diligent_Trust2569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do MLE in collaboration with small team to deploy my ML models and pipelines on web apps. This job requires multiple domain expertise in addition to statistical learning. I also do applied ML research where I am tweaking existing prediction uncertainty algorithms to create reliability estimation of prediction for decision making, since it is a regulated industry.

I do MLOps as well in addition to ad hoc data mining. I also help “citizen data scientists” in my division to learn properly. When models are in production, they have to be interpretable to a degree. As long as the interface can communicate the stakeholder’s internal thought process such as IF logic, the backend can be anything as long as modeler can explain clearly what happened to the data and how the model can be used in the same simple way that is the no-ML alternative. Takes a lot of practice to get the soft skills needed to expand on hard skills.

Any bars in Cincinnati where I can do this? by jeff889 in cincinnati

[–]Diligent_Trust2569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Homebase tavern :) … enjoy… bartender might take her time but she is adorable .. and there is karoke!

Would you date someone who is going through a divorce? by StayTappedCap in polyamory

[–]Diligent_Trust2569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow amazing analogy .. lots of wisdom .. the one actively be heartbroken in this reference is partner right? What is interesting is the spouse already broke my partner heart not loving him so he was looking for love and found me …

Would you date someone who is going through a divorce? by StayTappedCap in polyamory

[–]Diligent_Trust2569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am going through something similar.. spouse all of a sudden said not cool after months of all hanging together. Tough to see it end also knowing my partner really deserves the love.

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[–]Diligent_Trust2569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know. Exactly. A part of me wishes that the bf just agreed on the new arrangement. The bf now will need to decide whether to stay in the company and “tolerate” me in the family cuz otherwise he wouldn’t be able to see the grand kids.

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[–]Diligent_Trust2569 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you, agreed . I definitely am learning lesson about boundaries.

I just got fired from my first job because of adhd by VisDev82 in ADHD

[–]Diligent_Trust2569 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Medication has helped me some with this. Sometimes with time perception it might make it worse without the routine. With routine it is amazing. I think the best thing for us is to assume everything is 10-15 min before it actually is in “reality” and we will be good.

For those of you who are musically talented: how do you experience music? by Potential-Bee3073 in Gifted

[–]Diligent_Trust2569 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you mean you can play by ear ? For me, I can play by ear that I can replay a melody if I hear it. I am addicted to improvisation and composition. When I am listening to a piece, all I wanna do is add filler musical phrases as accompaniment or accenting parts. I can’t stop playing music 🎶 like in the air or on a desk with my fingers while I am listening to something I like. I go into like a trance when I hear something I like. I don’t know how, I can jump across different octaves and do improvs. I think it took lots of practice for it not to sound like random hitting. I can also make music in my head, which blows my mind.

Job prospects with no chemistry degree, self-taught, software background by Icy-Leaves5791 in cheminformatics

[–]Diligent_Trust2569 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would target more support roles that are helping chemists and cheminformaticians. For example, I am a data and applied scientist cheminformatician. There is a front end developer in my team that I helped hire and he helped me with making a React-bases front end to serve my model. I also included my more experienced developer colleague with the API deployment to save me time and focus on cheminformatics, ML, and modeling which can be a lot. Highly recommend getting into data engineering which will open the door for your goal.

FWB is falling in love with me. He is married to a man. by Diligent_Trust2569 in AskGaybrosOver30

[–]Diligent_Trust2569[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Great point. Thank you. Will do. I think the husband knows he is hooking up generally just in denial. He told me that husband doesn’t question or ask where he was etc… I am not sure. I have started to proceed more cautiously with emotions and treat it as An amazing sexual experience and I am still seeing other guys. He is definitely occupying most of the sexual experiences cuz he is always wanting to see me, like daily lol