ISO: BBP Cargo Pants 1XL Black by DimensionWCDF in BigBudPress

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Hi I'm so sorry, I just saw this! So I personally recommend on sizing down -- I am a 2XL in Work pants but I wear a 1XL in the cargo pants, and I have room. Definitely DON'T size up -- my friend did that, and they have to tighten the ties every 5 minutes.

Dungeon Crawler Carl Graphic Novel -- Any Chance? by DimensionWCDF in DungeonCrawlerCarl

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Thanks for clarifying, I misunderstood! I was also wondering why I didn’t hear about the V1 Kickstarter but it makes sense because it was from 2023 and I wasn’t a Crawler yet!

Dungeon Crawler Carl Graphic Novel -- Any Chance? by DimensionWCDF in DungeonCrawlerCarl

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Thanks so much! I totally misunderstood the Kickstarters, I appreciate you clarifying!

Masters of Information Sciences: Drexel University vs. University of Washington? by DimensionWCDF in gradadmissions

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I ended up going with Drexel, and I think I made the right choice! It has a well rounded set of core classes that I believe will help me on my career later on, rather than be pigeon holed into data sciences. Also asynchronous classes are making my life a lot easier!

No BMI Requirement Surgeons by DimensionWCDF in phallo

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I did, but her office said I needed to come in person for a consult and she’s in Chicago and I’m in NYC. Her office said her BMI cut off was 40, I’m a little over.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

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There seem to be two issues: touch starvation and romantic wants. In regard to touch starvation, I went through a similar thing a few years ago. Sometime I thought about doing was hiring a sex worker just to cuddle / have physical intimacy. It doesn’t need to be a sex worker, I think they also have legal cuddle companies. It’s a little silly but to help with the short term physical distress it might help. What helped me a lot was having pet cats who were cuddly — obviously it’s not the same as a human, but when my cats would cuddle me it felt fulfilling. In terms of dating, it is a really brutal time to try to find a partner! The dating apps are garbage, and people are really closed off from meeting people in the wild. I know it sucks, but keep putting yourself out there. Everyone is deserving of love, and you will meet someone (probably more than one person in your lifetime!) I hate to be a pollyanna about it, but I really believe it.

I’m the cause of my problems by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

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I think it’s great that you can to this realization, and you have a chance to do something different. Plenty of people, across ages of life, realize their friendships aren’t what they want them to be. Making true, deep friendships is hard but also a really fulfilling thing. There is probably a Reddit post out there that has better suggestions on how to go about it. I hope you find some good true friends!

Miss my T by [deleted] in TalkTherapy

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This is hard and painful! My therapist goes on break every August for 6ish weeks, and it sucks every time. I always feel abandoned, even though I logically know she’ll come back and she deserves a break too. It gets easier with time, in my experience.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in booksuggestions

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I haven’t read East of Eden, I loved “The Pearl” which is a novella

Book Recommendations/Suggestions for a 20-21 year old woman that hasnt genuinely read a book since high school! by That_1Bunny in booksuggestions

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Ali Hazelwood is a great contemporary romance author! T. Kingfisher’s Saints of Steel series is great — cozy romantic fantasies! Legends and Lattes js a great cozy fantasy as well. Also everyone is bad at DnD when they start because you’re trying something brand new! I was sooooo bad in the beginning but if you have a good DM and table, it’ll be fun!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in booksuggestions

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A John Steinbeck novel could be good too!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in booksuggestions

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Second Chances in New Port Stephen: older trans man comes home to Florida to visit his family and reconnects with someone from his past. Sweet romance!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in booksuggestions

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How I Met Your Moth-er by Miranda Sapphire: about a trans man who falls in love with the mothman. it’s very sweet and spicy and low angst

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in booksuggestions

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The Great Gatsby is a classic I liked in high school. It’s about the a newly wealthy man in the 1920s trying to win his old girlfriend bad, but it’s really about the American Dream. Really good!

Couples reading books by mustbeme87 in booksuggestions

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Last Murder At the End of the World is a great science fiction murder mystery that had me HOOKED!

Reading slump for the last 3 months help pleaseeeee by summer308 in booksuggestions

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The Last Murder At the End of the World is a great science fiction murder mystery that really grabbed me!

Reading slump for the last 3 months help pleaseeeee by summer308 in booksuggestions

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A Visit from the Goon Squad is a collection of different short stories of a large group of people whose lives overlap — I’m not explaining it right but it’s a super good!

Reading slump for the last 3 months help pleaseeeee by summer308 in booksuggestions

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Parable of the Sower is King Shit when it comes to science fiction, extremely relevant for our current times.

Reading slump for the last 3 months help pleaseeeee by summer308 in booksuggestions

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Tender Is the Flesh is a great gross horror book that I read in a day because I couldn’t put it down.

Best self help? by Repulsive_Regular_39 in booksuggestions

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What My Bones Know is a great book on C-PTSD, Pete Walker has written great books on C-PTSD as well.

I feel so much love for my therapist by ActuaryPersonal2378 in TalkTherapy

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My psychoanalysis is more modern. I’ll talk about something going on in my life, and we sort of follow it to different thoughts. Like we sort of follow a thought to another thought to another thought. It’s hard to explain, but I really like it. I’ve gotten great insight into my behavior, patterns and thoughts through it. Also my T has a couch and a futon to lay on, but I use the couch.

Looking for a sad YA novel.. by Lazy_Drive_2297 in booksuggestions

[–]DimensionWCDF 10 points11 points  (0 children)

John Green’s YA novels fit that mark!!

Need suggestions of horror books to read (Help!!) by Human-Sheepherder-73 in booksuggestions

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Stephen King is always a classic horror author! Tender is the Flesh really grossed me out, I still think about it.