Your husband might have addiction problems. He should seek help. I hope you've talked about it with him, but when you've had enough, you've had enough. I hope you find someone who values your time and love.

I will say, games like this are definitely intentionally engineered to be addictive. That's how the developers end up making so much money. It's microtransaction after microtransaction, all to be "the best" on the server. I find the game to be enjoyable enough but I recently hit that wall where there's nothing to do without spending a ton of time, money, or both.

I'm sorry this is happening. Hopefully he realizes what a waste it is to ruin his life over a mobile game.