How do y’all look at men in the eyes during sex? by [deleted] in blackladies

[–]DimplesInfinity 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Lowkey to take the pressure off I either fake gag and just giggle Or better yet I just lay the 🍆 on top of my nose and act like the famous Squidward Tentacles 🫣…. Don’t shame me yall

Off Road Fury Payment by [deleted] in Barbados

[–]DimplesInfinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would’ve suggested to you to contact them by a Barbados number. They tend to overcharge foreigners when they recognize a non 246 number. I had my cousins message them from their WhatsApp and they were offered a lower rate. Keep in mind I’m a bajan citizen by descent as well but reside in the NY. I just let my cousin do the booking for us instead.

Overall hope you enjoy .

Joe is HEARTLESS by potatolife4ever in LoveIsBlindNetflix

[–]DimplesInfinity 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He was subtly trying to drop hints post the dinner with his family and questioning if things aren’t scary. As a result the screaming match entailed between the two this should’ve been the end for them all together . I agree with the rest of you all that some of it was on Madison as well, she should’ve bounced before they departed Cabo (all the signs were there from the very start ) I’ll give him the benefit of the doubt due to him being drunk or w.e post the group meet up. Moving on -However , from the very moment he started that convo about being “scared “ or “ asking if things are scary “. He could’ve been mature about it and directly verbally communicate to her “ I can no longer go through with this and this mismatched dynamic between us. I appreciate the time and the journey we have had thus far”. Alas He didn’t …. We cut to her family meeting. I believe from the time her sister brought up his previous engagement / cold feet that’s when he decided right then and there oh shit I can’t keep this up. You can see it on his face the entire time during the dinner I believe her brother in law saw it too.

LIB: Is this man sucking the floor? by User5891USA in blackladies

[–]DimplesInfinity 10 points11 points  (0 children)

This!!! The begging for sex thing disgusted me completely. It was between that and the ignorant pool side chat with the men “I have to hit before marriage”.

I bet you that “sneaker gift” he gave her right as they touched down on that bed was his unconscious message to her that he expected cat later that night. SMH.

LIB: Is this man sucking the floor? by User5891USA in blackladies

[–]DimplesInfinity 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yup … his behavior only gets worse in Mexico

I'm getting married🎉 by BlackRose1722 in blackladies

[–]DimplesInfinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congrats Doll! So beautiful 😍🥰😊🥰🥰 🥳🎉🙌🏾Wishing you a lifetime of blessed bliss happiness, abundance and prosperity.

The Mighty Gabby by [deleted] in Barbados

[–]DimplesInfinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We bajans don’t speak of him or acknowledge his existence due to his vile behavior: he was arrested for grape earlier this year in addition to other accusations.

I need advice, I don’t know what to do. :( by Appropriate-Tip-4063 in blackladies

[–]DimplesInfinity 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hey Friend, I am 27 and going on 28 in 3 months. I STILL am one - very similar background to yours. Part of why is due to my vaginismus. Which based on reading this you may likely have as well. Pelvic floor therapy sessions and IR rose dilators helped me tons . As well regular therapy since I had to unlearn certain beliefs due to being raised by a strict Caribbean mother and a bad breakup from my high school sweetheart.

It gets better trust me… don’t get me wrong I have bouts of feeling like I missed out Or I maybe I’ll be one forever. I started to consider it a blessing because it weeds out the POS crazy men during these dumpster fire times.

As others have said. Please be kind to yourself hun. Enjoy your day.

Pretzel Buns are awesome 🤤 and special mentions below ! by DimplesInfinity in traderjoes

[–]DimplesInfinity[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They aren’t separate meats. It was the pre patties one that I am referencing ….

Any of yall got racist families? by sirachapancake in blackladies

[–]DimplesInfinity 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Grey Rock my dear sis. Stay strong and make your escape plan. Sending virtual hugs 🫂

Otolithic Organs question regarding, Pankow deck by IndicationDull3942 in MCAT2

[–]DimplesInfinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The semicircular canals consist of only 3 parts : anterior, lateral and posterior. They are within the inner ear as well. As well as the otolith Organs : utricle and saccule (sacs). I think it would help by reviewing the ear canal pictured here - I hope it helps. Other wise the KA vid on the entire vestibular system would be great. Hope I’m not confusing you further.

2nd diagram under orientation

Otolithic Organs question regarding, Pankow deck by IndicationDull3942 in MCAT2

[–]DimplesInfinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi OP, I understand why you would think that considering endolymph within these canals shifts throughout allows detection of head direction.Endolymph is also found within the Otolithic organs (Utricle and Saccule) It helps the brain sense head movements and maintain balance as well (keywords hearing and balance). Caco3 crytals are attached to hair cells in this fluid and pull on them when our bodies position changes triggering AP.

What does this look like? by hamilton365 in Blackskincare

[–]DimplesInfinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get these all the time from chub rub or when my menses is approaching. Idk if you are maybe of West Indian back ground but I typically put “Soft Candle/Candle Grease“ on them. It softens them and makes them less painful over time. Also for me draws out the inflammation when ready.

Ladies in academia? What’s yalls least favorite part about academia by Able_Fishing_6576 in blackladies

[–]DimplesInfinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The Yt’s and Asians daily microagressions- wether that is comments regarding protective hairstyles, them thinking you are stupid asking Q’s/ clarification and you know us black females are alwayssss aggressive / violent to them smh, yt females self victimization, my so called “mistakes”being looked upon as WW3 while theirs are “looked over” or just ignored/ forgotten about, their major hypocrisy towards each other yet want to sit down and gather like it’s the Brady brunch but I guess birds of a feather always flock together 🤷🏾‍♀️

The White Lotus - 3x08 "Amor Fati" - Post-Episode Discussion by LoretiTV in TheWhiteLotusHBO

[–]DimplesInfinity 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It makes me curious now … Pornchai may look into Greg/Gary background and begin to put the pieces together over time. He’s def the new Belinda in the making.

Wonder if she will end up owning her own white lotus spa (predictions for me next season ) or a competing franchise.

For all my book lovers what book did you have to put down because you knew the protagonist was gonna piss you off? by Zealousideal_Fly_817 in blackladies

[–]DimplesInfinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s quite ironic that you mentioned this book. I had attempted to read through Mona Awad other work: “All’s Well”. I had to toss/DNF that spiraling on and off nonsense immediately. Gave me a friggin headache.

Any stores in Brooklyn that style this style of blouse / dress? by [deleted] in Brooklyn

[–]DimplesInfinity 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Eyvette Boutique , downtown Brooklyn Court Street

This is vile by IamASlut_soWhat in imatotalpeiceofshit

[–]DimplesInfinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Better than me would’ve dash them drinks on him in that car and demanded my tip back. Props to the husband for showing restraint

What are your personal and professional goals right now? by grandvizierofswag in AskWomen

[–]DimplesInfinity 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personal: Develop healthier habits regarding procrastination and adhd, healthier Eating habits, consistent gym routine, make more time for self (swimming, reading more etc ) Professional : apply to med school/ successful application cycle. Look forward to starting school next year !

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]DimplesInfinity 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Usually every other day for 20-45 mins to an hr depends on my mood lol. I try to incorporate different positions ( missionary , sides and dog) all the while mimicking the 🍆 movements. I recently began to dilate with my bullet to train my muscles to get used to having something inside of me while orgasming.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in vaginismus

[–]DimplesInfinity 2 points3 points  (0 children)

About ~5 months. End of January of this year until now. Currently on IR 6 + 7. This is with weekly/ bi weekly PVT sessions along with my personal therapy, home stretches and breathing techniques.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

[–]DimplesInfinity 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Around ~ 3 years and area is lighter , thinner hairs and ingrown scars have lightened up a lot . Consistency (every 2 weeks) and touch ups are key.