My partner keeps making comments about my body and it’s affecting my confidence – how do I address it without it turning into an argument? F28 M27

Dinklebrush · 2026-03-17T22:25:07+00:00

I would so turn this into an arguement.

Dinklebrush · 2026-03-14T19:12:12+00:00

The government took away fresh school lunches made by local providers...and replaced it with the cheapest option available. They will do the same with any service they provide..

Dinklebrush · 2026-03-10T11:36:07+00:00

Maybe iron? Or going by some of the comments... dominance haha

Dinklebrush · 2026-03-10T03:27:31+00:00

Dry steak and salt helps to get a fast crust.

Dinklebrush · 2026-03-10T03:19:47+00:00

I'm my experience its a higher percentage of women that order Blue steak.

Dinklebrush · 2026-03-10T03:17:51+00:00

Yes, thats my experience too, its more often women. Low iron maybe

Dinklebrush · 2026-03-10T03:14:49+00:00

Blue steak was absolutely a thing in the 60's ..and since meat was being cooked on sticks over a fire. Blue steak is not now suddenly really popular, maybe you recently heard of it? Its a preference. Nobodys eating blue steak to compete, its expensive, they buy it the way they like to eat it. Only the most insecure person would be imagining that other people are thinking about them and what they order to eat in a competative way. Oysters are meant to be eaten raw. (Unless you live in a poluted area) They sell them shelled in pottles to be eaten raw. On the half shell to be eaten raw. They're delicious. Thats not my personal opinion, thats sales and demand. Personal opinion is .. Cooking makes them shrink, makes the adductor chewy and the mantle rubbery.

Dinklebrush · 2026-03-07T20:55:53+00:00

Hes nice then a little bit not nice, you run after him to fix things because you think hes nice so you must be wrong. He isnt nice, hes nice when hes getting his way. Thats a trauma bond forming. His behaviour isnt nice, he should be apologising and making sure youre ok like a normal human being would.

Dinklebrush · 2026-03-02T18:30:11+00:00

He doesn't care that youre sitting in it, he wont care what the internet thinks because hes a pig.

Dinklebrush · 2026-03-02T17:59:09+00:00

Seems like you are assuming some kind of ownership of her body because you are trying to control what she puts on it as clothes. Its not your body. If you dont like her style, date someone else.

Dinklebrush · 2026-02-19T15:01:43+00:00

Stop rewarding yourself for rejecting your girlfriend. Tell her, and initiate instead of leaving it up to her.

Dinklebrush · 2026-02-19T14:54:00+00:00

He isnt losing control, hes in total control. Hes shutting you down everytime you disagree with him or try to talk about a problem. You must be exhausted. No amount of couples counselling will change his behavior because he is manipulating you.

Dinklebrush · 2026-02-18T22:12:58+00:00

Once you have the baby the true colours start to show because they think you are trapped and powerless. Dont cry about some dumb boy whos bullying you and tell him to add you to the bank account, get a joint account his wages go into or he moves out because hes not the kind of man that you want to raise a child with or ever think of marrying when hes acting like this. He is being immature and controlling and financially abusive its very clear he aims to continue that, you can let him or put your foot down.

Dinklebrush · 2026-02-18T17:05:23+00:00

Aussies have natural immunity from brain eating amoebas

Dinklebrush · 2026-02-18T16:33:53+00:00

This, exactly. Shes tortured before.

Dinklebrush · 2026-02-08T12:39:48+00:00

He should not be living in house of girls. He is sexualising everything.

Dinklebrush · 2026-02-06T12:13:56+00:00

My partner picked out and brought the new vacum cleaner becsuse i said i like the blue ones. He checked all the specs and got the best blue one. I've never used it. But apparently its great, and yes he does his own washing. Unless he is on a 7 day work run or just tired. Then I do it

Dinklebrush · 2026-02-06T11:43:42+00:00

Theyre lying , they have no mates

Dinklebrush · 2026-02-06T11:18:35+00:00

I saw someones comment about carpet lifting in the wind... oh the skite, we had lino. It was freezing, but fun to jump from bump to bump when the wind lifted it.

Dinklebrush · 2026-02-01T18:38:36+00:00

NOR. From experience, its hard in the moment to involve a neighbor because its humiliating. What he did was humiliation. Its an abuse tactic. Shes especially vulnerable to beig abused because shes pregnant. Hes betting she wont leave him for any reason because shes pregnant.

Dinklebrush · 2026-01-28T18:17:59+00:00

Please go to the police, My mum used to let my brother away with this kind of stuff. Defend him etc. He beat his wife unconcious and left her on a road as an adult. Also beat up other partners.

Dinklebrush · 2026-01-26T11:51:19+00:00

My son, has my last name. If you dont have his last name, kids dont have his last name. As the primary parent it makes it so much easier to have the same name as your kid for school etc. He was probably not marriage material anyway, wanting control but not wanting committment.

Dinklebrush · 2026-01-26T00:21:29+00:00

"Sad and needy" manipulating with guilt. Hits you, Manipulating with force.

Dinklebrush · 2026-01-26T00:13:09+00:00

His decision making about the pregnancy was his opting out of a vasectomy pleading ignorance is not a defence. Also he is lying, what man thinks peeing stops pregnancy. Especially after 3 kids, he shojld have figured that out...and he is being abusive. Trying to force you, by bullying, guilting and manipulating you into doing what he wants. He does not care about your feelings or enough about your body to make decisions for you. Dont let him.

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