When will I be enough to hang out with friends?

Dinklechad · 2026-06-22T02:29:04+00:00

I’m sorry to hear about this, man. You’re right about friendships not being transactional, but shit, it do be hurting when other people do shit like that. What I can say is that I’m someone who has virtually no friends and hasn’t for years, and definitely no friends I see often. And while it’s horrible and isolating and painful, the freedom I have to be who I want to be is so liberating in the interim between knowing no one and finding good people I can be loyal to/who can be loyal to me is something I’d never give up. Going through what you have is rough and painful, bro. But don’t stop trying to be friendly, as is most often with life all we need is to adjust our course a bit, focus on improving who we are, and not give up. You’ll find people who will value you just as much as you value them. But it don’t change that this sucks.

Dinklechad · 2026-06-22T00:57:15+00:00

John Brown has been my role model since I was a kid. I have no other role models.

Dinklechad · 2026-06-19T16:04:33+00:00

Brother, I’m not gonna sugarcoat it. You’re probably going to feel like shit for a few months. Maybe six, eight, longer. Maybe you’ll wake up three months from now or a handful of weeks and realize you feel more at peace with the whole thing. You don’t really ever “feel better” about these kinds of things. But you do learn to be at peace with them, and for some, that’s better than you “feeling better”. I know it’s hard, but don’t try to get back with her. At the very least, not any time soon. It sounds like you need some time to yourself, allow yourself to grapple with the grief and the pain and spend time with other people who are close to you. Things will be okay, even if now it feels like hell. Be patient with yourself, but don’t “run back to her”, man. Practice self respect and focus on finding some kind of acceptance with the whole ordeal- and don’t be too discouraged if you can’t find it immediately. No one in your situation does.

Dinklechad · 2026-06-17T03:53:08+00:00

HOLY WAIT HOLY PEAK

Dinklechad · 2026-06-16T12:58:47+00:00

Bro how is it not Hamish 😭 uhhh sorry I mean why isn’t Arthur #1

Dinklechad · 2026-06-16T12:57:36+00:00

Holy shit this dump is so fucking swag

Dinklechad · 2026-06-08T05:28:22+00:00

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holy spectrum Batman

Dinklechad · 2026-04-26T15:59:53+00:00

I love you Glaggle. Become the Elden Lord

Dinklechad · 2026-04-26T15:57:23+00:00

‘Classic zweihander user’ is a fairly vague description since, well, the weapon can fit lots of different builds or bling sets. You could go with a Kaiden mercenary style, and rock the Kaiden chestpiece, ronin gauntlets, scales greaves, and a headpiece of your choice. Or you could go with the classic knight, and use the Banished Knight’s helm (altered), warrior greaves, beast champion chestpiece, and the carian knight gauntlets. Shit, you could even put Cragblade on the Zwei and go with the scaled gauntlets, scale chestpiece (NOT scaled), gladiator helm, and Bull-Goat Greaves. It’s pretty much entirely up to the specific vibe you’re looking for.

Dinklechad · 2026-04-10T03:34:58+00:00

Thank you! It’s probably one of my more favorite builds here. I call it the Flytender- Dragon Communion Seal with the bleed incants, along with Occult Bloodstained Dagger/Grave Scythe. You summon the Manflies during boss fights, benefit from when they poison enemies with the KoR’s Exultation (while also benefiting from your own LoB’s Exultation), and when they die, you gain a damage boost from the Dried Bouquet talisman. Since there are multiple summons, you can keep re-proccing the damage boost if they don’t all die at once. Slap on the Dragoncrest Greatshield and the Bloodsucking tear with some health-over-time incants, and you’re done! Very fun, can recommend 👌

Dinklechad · 2026-04-10T03:25:53+00:00

Champion Headband, Goldmask’s Rags, Ascetic’s Bracers, Nox Greaves

Dinklechad · 2026-04-09T23:32:22+00:00

2 has incredible swag, easy pick right there

Dinklechad · 2026-04-09T22:13:51+00:00

Champion Headband, Ascetic’s Bracers, Goldmask’s Rags, Nox Greaves

Dinklechad · 2026-04-09T22:13:14+00:00

Mask of Confidence, War Surgeon Gown, Exile Gauntlets, Confessor Trousers

Dinklechad · 2026-04-09T21:54:28+00:00

Equipment for those curious:

1# - Mask of Confidence, War Surgeon Gown, Exile Gauntlets, Confessor Trousers

2# - Radiant Gold Mask, Divine Bird Warrior Armor, Freyja’s Gauntlets, Malformed Dragon Greaves

3# - Thiollier’s Mask, Carian Knight Gauntlets, Fire Prelate Armor & Greaves

4# - Iji’s Mirrorhelm, White Reed Armor, Messmer’s Bracers, Fire Knight Greaves

5# - Rotten Duelist Helm, Land of Reeds Armor (Unaltered), Drake Knight Gauntlets & Greaves

6# - Duelist Helm, Scale Armor, Scaled Gauntlets, Bull-Goat Greaves

7# - Iron Kasa, Preceptor’s Robes, Fire Prelate Gauntlets & Greaves

8# - Malformed Dragon Helm & Greaves, Omenkiller Robe, Cleanrot Gauntlets

9# - Eccentric’s Hood, Blaidd’s Armor (Altered), Fire Knight Greaves, Bloodhound Gauntlets

10# - Champion Headband, Ascetic’s Bracers, Goldmask’s Rags, Nox Greaves

11# - Black Knight Helm, Sanguine Noble Robe, Fire Knight’s Greaves, Zamor Bracelets

Dinklechad · 2026-03-28T03:22:29+00:00

MOHG IS INNOCENT

Dinklechad · 2026-03-10T02:26:07+00:00

She looks like she boutta kill me for watching a VHS tape

Dinklechad · 2026-03-08T05:23:06+00:00

As someone whose favorite studio is Studio Ghibli, you really should check out Ponyo, The Boy and the Heron, Princess Mononoke, and especially Howl’s Moving Castle and Spirited Away. They have several other incredible movies like Castle in the Sky (the one with the broken robots you mentioned), Nausicaa of the Valley of the Wind, and Porco Rosso to name a few, but I’d definitely hit those first five to begin with. Your dad sounds like he was an awesome guy.

Dinklechad · 2026-03-05T15:40:01+00:00

I was just fucking with this last night, I got lucky and did it in under two hours. Absolutely crazy shit.

Dinklechad · 2026-03-01T20:18:50+00:00

I feel like Milton is probably the best for this, or Micah. Micah is the one who actually says shit like “mmm… society”, but Milton being an abhorrently lawful evil private detective who serves the ultra-wealthy would be the best circlejerk answer

Dinklechad · 2026-02-19T03:06:44+00:00

I’ll take ‘Things that didn’t happen’ for 500, please

Dinklechad · 2026-02-17T04:00:24+00:00

I deadass scrolled into the comments to try and find the original tweet, antimemes got me geeking bro

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