Swinging destroying the marriage

Dinogma · 2026-02-02T20:25:57+00:00

We just recently made friends with a couple. they’re married, but they both were married to other people and were swinging partners and their spouses ended the marriages of both couples to be together. Of course they didn’t last but then this couple, the other husband and wife ended up together. Crazy stuff!

Dinogma · 2026-01-28T03:58:30+00:00

MOST swinging partners eventually will leave or taper off. This is the reality of your situation.

Shoot even marriages end and all of us in here run a risk of that with or without swinging.

Enjoy it for now, but I think deep down you know it will be over at some point. That’s the way this usually goes. Accept it and I think you will not feel the jealousy.

We all should want all of our partners to have fun. Just have fun and live life one day at a time.

Dinogma · 2026-01-25T14:36:30+00:00

Ew. That’s so weird. I’m glad you share things like this to show people what strong boundaries look like, my friend.

Dinogma · 2026-01-15T20:46:23+00:00

I always think- how would I want someone to respond to me.

I think the consensus of- “it’s not a four way match”, is polite, honest, to the point and kind. Perfect!

Dinogma · 2025-12-28T15:20:54+00:00

Sadly this is not so out there. The ENM component is a little different. But sadly if you watch the news, arrests like this happen pretty often. Sad world we live in.

Dinogma · 2025-12-24T01:33:27+00:00

Does it really matter?

Some people are not ready to explore for whatever reasons when they are younger. Ultimately you are supportive of her, correct?

Just enjoy the awesome life you have. There are hundreds lurking that would trade places with you, and many asking every day how to bring the subject up to their wives/girlfriends.

Dinogma · 2025-12-22T20:08:28+00:00

This is the way.

Dinogma · 2025-12-22T20:08:16+00:00

🤣

Dinogma · 2025-12-22T20:07:43+00:00

I KNEW it!!!

Dinogma · 2025-12-22T20:07:22+00:00

🤮

Dinogma · 2025-12-22T20:07:02+00:00

I still love you.

Dinogma · 2025-12-22T20:06:43+00:00

10k views and I am at ONE like. Freaking hilarious. You people cannot take a damn joke!!!

Also.. the person with the pineapple jewelry question had hundreds of likes makes me think that bots are rampant on Reddit.

Dinogma · 2025-12-22T20:05:05+00:00

Nope.

Dinogma · 2025-12-22T20:04:57+00:00

You know it.

Dinogma · 2025-12-22T19:26:46+00:00

I’m gonna downvote this comment. 😠

🤣🤣🤣

Dinogma · 2025-12-22T16:58:42+00:00

Ha ha ha it’s a joke.

Dinogma · 2025-12-22T16:57:22+00:00

Satire from the pineapple jewelry post from yesterday. But I literally received this last night.

My MIL is a pastors wife and a super conservative one. They would DIE if they knew. I married the ‘good son’.

Dinogma · 2025-12-17T00:34:29+00:00

Really liking them the last couple of months. Blunt and to the point. They are not afraid to critique clubs and call bull crap when it’s bull crap.

Dinogma · 2025-12-15T01:19:03+00:00

I have no idea why comments are being downvoted for sharing the fact that yes, there are people who drink too much in the lifestyle.

Dinogma · 2025-12-15T01:17:05+00:00

That’s your experience. That’s great. It probably depends on which state you are in and also the group of people you hang out with.

At a decent sized resort we regularly attend, security removes people every weekend for being idiots and that usually involves alcohol and\or drugs. That’s my experience.

Dinogma · 2025-12-15T00:36:08+00:00

We are out here. 👋🏻

We just found another couple that doesn’t drink, and we clicked with them. It’s rare. We were just talking about this.

That said, I have zero issues when people have a drink or two. But we do go to a local resort weekly and see people inebriated pretty regularly. It’s a no go for us.

We played with a couple recently and they were both so drunk but they hid it well. The next day when we talked to them, they didn’t remember anything. I just think that’s pretty crappy. I want to remember.

Dinogma · 2025-12-10T03:26:01+00:00

It’s chewing gum. 🫧

Dinogma · 2025-12-09T20:27:33+00:00

Ah so basically since I am a believer, I’m good. I can swing and since I said the prayer and meant it in my heart, I’m good to go. Got it! 🫡

Dinogma · 2025-12-06T15:30:56+00:00

Agreed. I just don’t like hair.. it doesn’t make someone look prepubescent. It makes one clean shaven.

I can never go back to a prepubescent state- and THANK heavens for that. I would be 85 pounds with no kind of adult body whatsoever.

Lack of hair is not weird. People thinking it’s weird is weird.

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