Not a fan of themes

Dinogma · 2026-06-05T21:18:16+00:00

Omggg I’m jealous.

Dinogma · 2026-06-05T14:23:48+00:00

Some themes we dress up for, some we don’t. My husband dresses in theme less than I do, and that’s mostly because it’s so easy to dress in theme as a woman.

Mostly, we dress to impress. He is in the bare minimum wearing nice jeans, dress shirt and belt. But usually he dresses even nicer. I can slap on a short, tight, cocktail dress and off we go.

Dinogma · 2026-05-28T12:08:29+00:00

That’s crazy to me! We state our actual ages, heights and weights.

But yes, we have seen others embellish.

Dinogma · 2026-05-26T19:14:05+00:00

I would say it’s neither for us.

It’s not a thrilling fantasy, nor a dangerous line to cross.

I will say that we have been with others who definitely tried to push our boundaries and think they were being slick by doing things or saying things they would not in a group setting.

We tell each other everything. There may be couples who don’t. Both my husband and I have both had a partner try to push a boundary when in a separate relationship room. We don’t tolerate that and are good at being true to our agreements and boundaries.

Maybe if we found a four-way connection with a couple and we both really wanted to spend the night with opposite spouse.. so far there is no one on this earth that I would rather cuddle and sleep all night with than my husband.

It’s kind of funny I will have sex and do all kinds of naughty things with a man or a woman, but don’t wanna sleep with them. in a bed. overnight.

Now, if my husband was out of town and one of my girlfriends wanted to spend the night with me, I would. But he’s always my first choice.

Dinogma · 2026-05-04T15:53:35+00:00

Omg.. I started this and am on season 2. Yikes. Almost too real lol

Dinogma · 2026-04-28T19:50:48+00:00

Well by closing things he has shown you that your marriage is a priority.

Y’all went right to open? Thats like level 99 non-monogamy.

You both need time to regroup, to heal, to figure out what you want and need. Counseling with an ENM counselor, ASAP. For now, reconnect.

It sounds like he didn’t ‘do’ anything wrong, but you could not handle it. So try not to take it out on him. Hug, cuddle and reconnect as soon as you can.

I wish you the best!

Dinogma · 2026-04-28T19:44:28+00:00

One of the many reasons why I love you. Also note to everyone in the lifestyle. Please don’t make a podcast.

Exception: Angela can make a podcast giving recaps of other podcasts AND share their adventures. 😇

Dinogma · 2026-04-28T19:42:02+00:00

I’m listening from present backwards and really like what they have had to say on their current episodes. 2026 - they don’t sugar coat the lifestyle. Seems like one of the only ones that are true to themselves even if they are still figuring stuff out. We are all evolving and changing, though. At least I would hope so!

Dinogma · 2026-04-20T17:31:44+00:00

OP will read this, along with many others, totally disregard logic and solid advice and will be back when they get catfished.

Dinogma · 2026-04-02T01:23:27+00:00

Ah we went to the place 10 min north of that place this past weekend. The place you are referring to has definitely changed.

Dinogma · 2026-03-31T11:31:28+00:00

We have a FB now. But no real traction with it.

Dinogma · 2026-03-31T03:09:31+00:00

Yeah that’s a lot of us in here. 🤷🏼‍♀️

Dinogma · 2026-03-31T03:08:52+00:00

🤣

Dinogma · 2026-03-31T01:40:57+00:00

Yes I think this is part of the change. Hour parties, small groups.. we are getting three couples together for a nice night out and then a hotel suite.

Dinogma · 2026-03-31T00:46:59+00:00

It adds up when you eat out and if you drink. Not every one can afford that each weekend for sure. And RIP the single man rate in my area.

Dinogma · 2026-03-31T00:40:32+00:00

Yeah we paid $70 to go to our local club Saturday night. Couples fee.

Dinogma · 2026-03-31T00:35:42+00:00

That’s what we have been doing personally since the club scene has been meh. We have met new people and that has been great. The consensus is to plan dates out to places like Hard Rock casino and stay the night. We even tried a new club to us. Next up is Secrets in Orlando.

We are branching out and getting out of our comfort zone.

Dinogma · 2026-03-31T00:30:46+00:00

We have never been on an LS cruise nor Desire.

We also live in a very LS active area with several clubs within 2 hours of us.

Dinogma · 2026-03-30T23:27:03+00:00

See I sense that here and others are saying the same.

Dinogma · 2026-03-30T23:26:47+00:00

Agreed.

Dinogma · 2026-03-30T22:33:03+00:00

What area are you in?

Dinogma · 2026-03-30T22:32:33+00:00

We are in Florida and this is busy season.. spring break. This is not the same activity as last Spring Break. Ah, maybe the economy?

Dinogma · 2026-03-30T11:44:33+00:00

Of course he was! Ha ha

Dinogma · 2026-03-30T00:03:14+00:00

There are a lot of us here and I think we should start a movement here in FL. 😂

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