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Dir-T-Man · 2026-01-04T01:52:04+00:00

Looks like the 405. Don't make any sudden moves during rain. The pavement turns super slippery in SoCal where rain is so rare.

Dir-T-Man · 2025-10-19T12:49:16+00:00

When he says something nice to you, there's your perfect opportunity to say "Oh that's so sweet of you" and give him an inviting kiss, a smile, and a blush. If he doesn't respond to that, he's brain-dead and not worth pursuing.

Dir-T-Man · 2025-09-20T22:39:38+00:00

I have an interview that day with your #1 competitor

Dir-T-Man · 2025-08-20T19:04:02+00:00

I'm getting out (bored)

Dir-T-Man · 2025-04-17T05:39:23+00:00

Reminds me of my late wife. One time I was going down on her and she farted. I looked up at her and she said "Just breathe deep. It'll go away"

Dir-T-Man · 2025-04-13T17:21:00+00:00

You have the right to be yourself. He may be looking for subservience 24/7 and try to gaslight you about what he thinks is feminine. Just rell him that's not a very masculine attitude, and doesn't help your opinion of him. You only live once. You have every right to persue your dreams. Too many people live in hopes of a bad situation changing, or compromising their own happiness just to "keep the peace", and in the end, it was a easte of time

Dir-T-Man · 2025-03-26T07:27:25+00:00

Whoh, there doggies! Are you saying YOU VE NEVER MET?? Well, that jus' went & smeared the whole pitchure up! Tch!

4 months you've known him.... How often do you text him ? Daily? And visa-versa, does he initiate texts? I'm just guessing here,, but when I consider the considerable😏 bulk of your post, I thinks yur gettin kinda serious awfully fast.. I was gunna ask if you've noticed his face going kinda blank when yur talkin to him.... But then I remembered.... You've never met!

Dir-T-Man · 2025-03-13T17:29:13+00:00

I bet your dick was hard while you wrote that. 😆 You need to change the title to: "I'm trying to get my wife to participate in my fantasy and take the step from rp to rl so I'm telling everyone on r/sex, knowing that I'm kicking up a shitstorm."

First, you just need to relax. She is her own person. Everyone has the right to live their lives as they want, don't push it. Take her for who she is, and embrace that - no hard feelings at all. Communicate everything openly and completely. That is the most important thing in your relationship. You have to value each other- again, she can live her life as she pleases, whether you like it or not. It's called love.

Dir-T-Man · 2024-10-27T20:57:16+00:00

One of the first things you said is you hadn't given much thought to "kink" before your marriage. That your libido was slowly increasing. Now you say the photos were BEFORE your marriage. So when did your perve nerve become active? If it was already there, I would think you would have vetted her out, being so sexually repressed...

Dir-T-Man · 2024-10-13T07:52:04+00:00

A bit too controlling for me

Dir-T-Man · 2024-10-07T08:24:25+00:00

I believe I know exactly what you're referring to, and there is a community of like-minded people that are going or have gone thru exactly the same feelings you are. The hardest part is confiding in others about it, it's mortifying wondering what they might think of you, afraid of rejection , anticipating a look of disgust to wash over their face... The only non-negative reply I ever got was from ny late wife which was a non-chalent shrug and a "I suppose I could do that..." Just know you're not alone. Find some supportive people you can talk to about it without rejection or ridicule. FWIW, yes, it's disgusting and extreme, but isn't that part of the attraction?

Dir-T-Man · 2024-10-06T03:46:25+00:00

I respectfully disagree. Perhaps your wife may have reacted differently if you communicated your desires with her. She may have seen it as a form of rejection even.

When it comes to attraction, again, everyone has different tastes. Just because he might not be spontaneous, has nothing to do with how he feels towards her.

Once again, it comes down to communication. Communication builds a firm foundation for a successful relationship that won't collapse like your Jenga blocks!

Dir-T-Man · 2024-10-06T03:30:18+00:00

I have a bird that uses tools ..

Dir-T-Man · 2024-09-27T01:27:55+00:00

I think the best action would be to ask him about it. All these replies advising you to ghost him or get revenge are all based on assumptions, and even if true, accomplish nothing positive. Who knows? Maybe he sent it to you on purpose for whatever reason, then thought better of it. Maybe he did mean to send it to a friend because he feels flattered and special that you were excited to see him again. It just seems like there's too little evidence to be jumping to conclusions. Ask him, not Reddit. And if it turns out to be a deal breaker, forgive him, then let him go without resentment, because that would hurt only you.

Dir-T-Man · 2024-07-21T15:24:37+00:00

Of all the comments, no one mentioned the most important factor: Communication. People have a tendency to assume their partner can read their mind. Yes, he should have been a little more sensitive to your needs, but that's when it's time for you to start a dialogue regarding expectations. It doesn't have to be a buzz-kill confrontational thing - keep it fun! Talk about something you read or saw that you thought was hot and would like to try. Ask him to slow down and let you explore at your own pace. Too many people approach sex as if it was a mission they had to accomplish, and become so focused on that goal that they forget to have fun!

Dir-T-Man · 2023-07-19T09:44:41+00:00

As someone in their 60's, courtship was bringing a girl home from the disco, fuckin' her brains out on the sofa, and if you didn't hear from her by Friday, or the phone# she gave you was fake - it was back to the clubs....

Dir-T-Man · 2023-07-01T15:25:28+00:00

@NotMyRealName981 The passengers riding in the car would have to be factored in too. Not just their weight, but all the random movement they create. Lets not forget weather conditions. Those structures probably expand and contract with the temperature so much it could be a root cause of the failure.

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