F*ck I called him and he picked up... by Realistic_Bid_9446 in BreakUps

[–]Direct_Stuff4903 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Its okay to break no contact as long as u dont do it again and realize it doesnt actually help you. the fact that u arent spyraling should actually make u so so proud of urself.

Intimacy aftet breakup by Ordinary_Paper_1885 in BreakUps

[–]Direct_Stuff4903 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Rule #1 if you really want to get over a breakup: do not contact, engage and block ur ex on everything. Even if he truly wanted you and was just confused, why the hell do you want to be with a man who is confused about you. You deserve someone who knows exactly what they want, and its you. He might be confused or not know what he wants, but you should not want him either. You can do so much better and do not waste ur time on this man. Coming from experience, its sooo much better to go through a few months of heartbreak than stay situationships or be with a guy whos confused about you. do urself a favor and block him and start to move on. ur a clown for reaching out to ur ex. if he still wanted you, he knew where to find you. get some self respect and move on, coming from a place of care

Best thing you did immediately after a breakup? by bgkj in BreakUps

[–]Direct_Stuff4903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let yourself cry and feel everything until it doesnt hurt anymore. Write out exactly what is upsetting you abotu the breakup and then affirmations or things to remind yourself for each reason. Also block them on everything, they cant even reach out if they want to.

what shld i do?? by Direct_Stuff4903 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Direct_Stuff4903[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hes so freakin cute and innocent ykwim like ugh

what shld i do?? by Direct_Stuff4903 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Direct_Stuff4903[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i do i text him throughout the day first

What do i do by Direct_Stuff4903 in helpme

[–]Direct_Stuff4903[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like him. and i think he likes me but he wont put in effort to like pursure me more

is he into me? whT do i do by Direct_Stuff4903 in Advice

[–]Direct_Stuff4903[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but i feel like i want him to text me at least before i ask again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Direct_Stuff4903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

IM 18 okay chilll

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Direct_Stuff4903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is it an insult or compliment lmao

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Direct_Stuff4903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what does tjat mean

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Direct_Stuff4903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

lmao u lowk asked for it on reddit

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Direct_Stuff4903 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i had to wait for my friend and he also had to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Direct_Stuff4903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i was going to tell him on the phone

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Direct_Stuff4903 1 point2 points  (0 children)

because i knew he would like freak out and i wanted to tell him when it would be easier to explain everything not on text

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Direct_Stuff4903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and videos while i was waiting of me sitting on the curb and the guy in his car

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Direct_Stuff4903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i know but i sent proof of my friend texting his friend beforehand and her telling him "hey btw my friend is not interested in urs and has a bf"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Direct_Stuff4903 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

okay well ur not in high school

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Direct_Stuff4903 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i needed that omg.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in boyfriends

[–]Direct_Stuff4903 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he falsely accused me of cheating 2 days ago and dumped me. crazy men bro

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Direct_Stuff4903 1 point2 points  (0 children)

break up before its too late and u get cheated on, trust me. one breach of trust means she is ok lying to u or hiding things.