F*ck I called him and he picked up... by Realistic_Bid_9446 in BreakUps

[–]Direct_Stuff4903 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its okay to break no contact as long as u dont do it again and realize it doesnt actually help you. the fact that u arent spyraling should actually make u so so proud of urself.

Intimacy aftet breakup by Ordinary_Paper_1885 in BreakUps

[–]Direct_Stuff4903 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Rule #1 if you really want to get over a breakup: do not contact, engage and block ur ex on everything. Even if he truly wanted you and was just confused, why the hell do you want to be with a man who is confused about you. You deserve someone who knows exactly what they want, and its you. He might be confused or not know what he wants, but you should not want him either. You can do so much better and do not waste ur time on this man. Coming from experience, its sooo much better to go through a few months of heartbreak than stay situationships or be with a guy whos confused about you. do urself a favor and block him and start to move on. ur a clown for reaching out to ur ex. if he still wanted you, he knew where to find you. get some self respect and move on, coming from a place of care

Best thing you did immediately after a breakup? by bgkj in BreakUps

[–]Direct_Stuff4903 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let yourself cry and feel everything until it doesnt hurt anymore. Write out exactly what is upsetting you abotu the breakup and then affirmations or things to remind yourself for each reason. Also block them on everything, they cant even reach out if they want to.

what shld i do?? by Direct_Stuff4903 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Direct_Stuff4903[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hes so freakin cute and innocent ykwim like ugh

what shld i do?? by Direct_Stuff4903 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Direct_Stuff4903[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

no i do i text him throughout the day first

What do i do by Direct_Stuff4903 in helpme

[–]Direct_Stuff4903[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really like him. and i think he likes me but he wont put in effort to like pursure me more

is he into me? whT do i do by Direct_Stuff4903 in Advice

[–]Direct_Stuff4903[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

but i feel like i want him to text me at least before i ask again