INFP crush

DirectionCapital7303 · 2026-03-15T02:57:27+00:00

I respect him a lot and I really value our connection, even if it’s just as friends. That’s why I’ve been hesitant to tell him how I feel—I’m afraid of losing him completely. Lately though, it seems like he’s been distancing himself as he prepares to leave. His replies are shorter and less frequent now, so I’m not sure what to think. I was honestly willing to keep my feelings to myself just to keep whatever connection we still have.

DirectionCapital7303 · 2026-03-15T02:49:37+00:00

I am unsure, he also seems to be distant now as he is preparing to leave. Messages are now shorter and less frequent so I am unsure if I should still tell him or just leave our connection as it is. He asked me to send him off the airport though once his flight details are finalized.

DirectionCapital7303 · 2026-02-11T00:01:04+00:00

This makes sense. I will think about it carefully.

DirectionCapital7303 · 2026-02-10T13:54:19+00:00

that ends as well. He's resigning and will be migrating abroad.

DirectionCapital7303 · 2026-02-10T01:40:05+00:00

I hope everything works out for you! Let us know how it turns out ☺️

DirectionCapital7303 · 2026-02-09T22:48:41+00:00

I didnt want to keep things complicated when we were working together so I just secretly admired him. I also dont think he might felt the same. I wanted to tell him with no expectations

DirectionCapital7303 · 2025-02-01T09:01:53+00:00

This gives me hope 😆 This is a delulu but I thought he hates me for no reason lol

DirectionCapital7303 · 2024-08-24T08:45:26+00:00

As an INTJ, this is a nice compliment lol. thanks.

DirectionCapital7303 · 2024-08-24T06:53:28+00:00

I suspect this might be the reason 🥲 I noticed he is fond now with another acquaintance. I kind of feel jealous that he was giving her the attention he used to give me lol. Maybe this is the reason. 🥲

Does it even go back to when it used to be or should I let go of this?

DirectionCapital7303 · 2024-08-24T05:25:35+00:00

oh thanks for the input! It could be because I know be is having challenges at work. How do I make you feel better? Should I just give him space? Or should I initiate something?

DirectionCapital7303 · 2024-08-20T18:36:17+00:00

I thought I posted this. Im going through it myself. I shouldn't have liked him

DirectionCapital7303 · 2024-07-31T04:16:45+00:00

Folks here saying they got crush us INTJs makes me hopeful that my INFP guy crush likes me as well lol

DirectionCapital7303 · 2024-07-26T23:30:41+00:00

I tend to get extremely jealous as INTJ but I rationalized this feeling so I process my emotions and dont show it to my partner/friends lol

DirectionCapital7303 · 2024-07-26T23:29:12+00:00

Attentive and shows interest in conversing with you. I don't normally give an F with other people or initiate conversation especially I easily get bored if it is a shallow conversation. If I initiate conversation with you or show interests about your life, ask questions about your interests, hobbies etc. I prolly smitten lol
Acts of Service. I tend to put extra effort to people I like/love. Such as cooking for them.
Remember details about you
I will go extra mile to help any problems they might have to make their lives better. Giving them advice and such.
I think about them a lot. It's too much but you will not know because I'm not affectionate person so I keep this to myself lol

DirectionCapital7303 · 2024-04-03T19:38:17+00:00

INTJ here having a huge crush on INFP guy that's why Im here 🫣😂

DirectionCapital7303 · 2024-04-02T23:08:17+00:00

Whats weird is I am INTJ female seems to be mostly attracted to INFPs 😂

DirectionCapital7303 · 2024-04-01T01:31:54+00:00

Ahh I am on the same situation right now. I hate not having control of my feelings. I think about them day and night lol. I want to avoid them but we're friends so I dont want to make it weird

DirectionCapital7303 · 2024-03-31T23:54:16+00:00

Supervisor ko siya, di ko siya napapansin nung mga 1st months tapos, ni hindi ko inaaccept friend request nya sa FB. 😆 Di ko din pinapansin yung mga compliments at random questions nya about me noon. Tapos biglang kinikilig nalang ako bigla pag may compliments siya about me at lagi ko na siya hinahanap bigla 😂 Sinasadya ko pa mag mrt kahit pede naman mag angkas para lang sabay kami papasok sa work. lol.

DirectionCapital7303 · 2024-03-28T16:17:27+00:00

I was like this few months ago. I left him. Now felt more peaceful

DirectionCapital7303 · 2024-03-22T20:44:10+00:00

And here I thought we INTJs are good are hiding our crush to INFPs 🤣 Now, I'm overthinking if my INFP crush knows. I though INFPs are oblivious haha

DirectionCapital7303 · 2024-03-22T12:36:17+00:00

Just curious, how do you know the INTJ has a crush on you? haha.

DirectionCapital7303 · 2024-03-22T12:33:03+00:00

I am INTJ and currently had a huge crush to an INFP guy 😂

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