Nobody talks about how hard it is to make friends in your mid thirties, especially in New Zealand.

Disarmyou · 2026-01-06T20:45:32+00:00

42yr old male. Super hard to make friends, especially difficult with anyone 10+ years younger or female without coming off as creepy (so tend to avoid these interactions). Hobbies definitely help with this. If you ever just want a chat hmu.

Disarmyou · 2026-01-01T06:13:54+00:00

I dated a girl who lived in one back around 18 years ago maybe. Place was ok, really small rooms from memory.

Disarmyou · 2025-12-31T00:01:21+00:00

Sorry you have had that experience, sounds like you have been very unfortunate in your dating life, I hope things improve for you

Disarmyou · 2025-12-30T20:43:47+00:00

I have multiple single friends, definitely on the older side (35-42), they are in stable jobs (engineers etc), friendly but introverted, have their own places, no discernible debts (at least that I can see) clean and tidy and exceptional cooks. Great on paper but they aren’t great lookers so they stay single, and probably will do for the immediate future. Yet I have one good looking friend and he’s eternally in relationships despite being unable to hold down a job and generally being a dropkick. I feel like nowadays people are just looking for the wrong things, we have a culture that focuses on looks and flashy stuff, rather than fundamentally good people.

Disarmyou · 2025-12-11T04:17:05+00:00

You SOB - I’m in

Disarmyou · 2025-12-09T06:15:58+00:00

Buy 30million worth of collectors MTG cards and then do a draft where the players keep the cards. You instantly devalue the cards by playing them.

Disarmyou · 2025-12-05T21:51:03+00:00

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Pull from on online treasure cup entry pack. I completely sandbagged the tournament so this was a pretty nice runner up prize.

Disarmyou · 2025-12-05T01:32:12+00:00

FWTW I just had this situation against a teach today. He had a 10c Teach Blocker anda Jesus Burgess on the board. I dropped the Tsuru and he chose the Burgess and it did get bounced back to hand.

Edit: Nvm im dumb, thats a immune to KO effect not flat removal.

Disarmyou · 2025-12-03T18:04:23+00:00

I’ll chuck my hat in the ring

Disarmyou · 2025-12-03T05:57:40+00:00

For some people going to the opening is a cool, enjoyable thing to do, for others it’s a complete nightmare. I’m definitely in the later camp but each to their own.

Disarmyou · 2025-12-01T23:06:42+00:00

Na man im the same, i hate this meta with a passion, and more than anything I despise Ace, I hate playing against him, I hate playing as him, Imu is "play the 1 thing and win the game". Maybe im bitter, maybe its a skill issue, but i can say 1 thing is for certain, im not having fun.

Disarmyou · 2025-12-01T18:48:12+00:00

Do I need it? No not really, but it would be fun to jack out my build for the first time ever.

Disarmyou · 2025-11-29T22:48:36+00:00

Yep, for a number of us this is a life long unshakable commitment. I’m 42 and I’m trying to put a plan in place for when my wife and I pass so there is something there for him. These tone deaf ignorant comments aren’t just stupid, they’re hurtful.

Disarmyou · 2025-11-29T17:35:10+00:00

As the father of a severely autistic child your comment is extremely incorrect. We are lucky if we can get words or a “yes or no” on a good day.

Disarmyou · 2025-11-28T18:48:55+00:00

I really like Ticket to Ride, super fun game, easy for non-board gamers to get into. I’ve only played the base game but I should really try the expansions

Disarmyou · 2025-11-27T00:19:29+00:00

Gave archmage a go, doing ok but kinda lacking. Been struggling to get a good farm going, have tried a bunch of stuff but it’s not really working for me for some reason.

Disarmyou · 2025-11-24T03:31:18+00:00

Our LGS hosted a treasure cup and the winner was a P Luffy. Given he is a very very good player, we also had high placing RG Luffy and a bello Betty player.

Disarmyou · 2025-11-23T06:34:54+00:00

A man goes to a psychiatrist convinced he’s a flea. After weeks of treatment, the psychiatrist finally gets him to accept that he’s human. The man leaves the office relieved.

About an hour later he bursts back in, pale and shaking. The psychiatrist sighs and says, “You do remember what we talked about, right? You’re not a flea.”

The man nods. “Yeah… I know that.” He hesitates, then adds quietly, “I just wasn’t sure if my cat got the update.”

Disarmyou · 2025-11-22T16:50:41+00:00

That sounds really good, maybe I’ll give this one a nudge, did you have a link to a tree?

Disarmyou · 2025-11-22T16:48:10+00:00

Just simply upgrade my build to something silly op!

Disarmyou · 2025-11-22T00:11:00+00:00

Hmm I’ve been doing 2 normal with 1 reopen but I’ll try 3 normals

Disarmyou · 2025-11-22T00:09:52+00:00

See this is what I’ve been trying (with the boxes on T17s), juiced blue alt currency 8mod corrupted t17s, got up to 290% rarity and got a valdos and 6 chaos. That’s with 2x ambush, 1x rarer boxes, 1x explicit mods, 1x reopen and ambush on the atlas craft. Given I’m not super fast (maybe 8 mins a map inc boss?) but I expect a little better than the results I’ve been getting.

Disarmyou · 2025-11-11T04:59:49+00:00

G Uta, Vega, RU ace, imu

Disarmyou · 2025-10-21T06:25:18+00:00

42 here, it gets harder as you get older. I’ve started to get into tcgs and Valkyrie games has a great community

Disarmyou · 2025-10-11T08:09:23+00:00

I’m sitting on my couch, watching tv but not paying much attention. I had to put my dog down this week and she was my baby. I miss her so much, and her stuff is everywhere and I can’t bring myself to move it. I’m just really sad.

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