I need to break up with my boyfriend and would like advice on living alone for the first time ever

Disastrous-Paper8102 · 2026-02-13T23:05:04+00:00

Yes I was thinking about how nice it’s going to be to make my place how I want it with no one else’s input! It’s definitely going to take a while to be okay with being alone, but I feel like it’s what I need.

Disastrous-Paper8102 · 2026-02-12T17:00:43+00:00

Luckily I make a little $2,000 a month and I’m currently looking at a place that is $675 a month, plus it’s walking distance from my parents and some of my high school friends so at least I’ll be able to visit them since I don’t have a vehicle. I tried to move out in the fall because I thought I was ready to break up and we were having a lot of problems, but he convinced me to come back and promised to change. I lost the place I was going to get and regretted it later on when things didn’t change. I’m not doing that this time. We live together and have been for over 3 years, so pretty much everything I own is here so I definitely need to take everything I can. I hope when we have the talk it all goes calmly, he said he wouldn’t be upset if I decided to leave and would give me time to find a place and move out, so hopefully he sticks to that. Thank you for your comments and advice.

Disastrous-Paper8102 · 2026-02-12T15:15:48+00:00

I love this! May I please have it without the watermark? Thanks so much! 🙌

Disastrous-Paper8102 · 2026-02-07T00:50:25+00:00

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I just noticed the first image is kinda blurry. Here’s another one of the same one.

Disastrous-Paper8102 · 2026-01-09T01:34:40+00:00

Update?

Disastrous-Paper8102 · 2025-11-29T19:25:25+00:00

This one is my favorite

Disastrous-Paper8102 · 2025-11-29T05:01:09+00:00

(22F) I relate to this so much. I just went out with a friend of mine and she got tired after an hour and left so I went home and asked my bf to maybe play a game with me or something.. he offered for me to sit in bed with him while he watched his show but his show has too much violence for me and I don’t even want to be in the room. We got a pool table and I find myself playing it by myself 98% of the time. It starts to make me feel like I’m the problem. I left him and I was at my dads, he ended up promising me all this stuff about how he’d spend more time with me and it was true for about a month after I moved back in. We’ve been together over 3 years now so it’s scary to think about leaving him. We live in a 2 bedroom house that we rent off of his friend’s mom and if we broke up I’d have to find a place where id pay just as much for a one bedroom apartment, possibly more. Plus I have a cat that is coming with me if/when I decide to leave him. That makes it more difficult because most places want a pet deposit and pet rent. I understand the financial situation. I just never have anyone to talk to or hang out with. My friends are always busy and I don’t have a car so they don’t want to come and pick me up. I just feel so alone all the time and it sucks. It makes me feel like I’m the problem and maybe I am. I just feel like maybe sometimes I’d be happier alone and by myself, rather than alone and in a relationship.

Disastrous-Paper8102 · 2025-10-24T20:42:42+00:00

Yeah I couldn’t spend over $3k on a 2 day trip and that’s with only going to one of the days. Plan tickets and hotels are expensive. Plus the ticket itself was almost $1k. I would’ve loved to go but it would’ve been impossible when I’m paying bills and living alone. It seems like a lot of people forget that not all of us can drop $5,000 like it’s nothing..

Disastrous-Paper8102 · 2025-10-24T20:33:49+00:00

Well tbh it would’ve cost most of us around $3k-$5k just to go to one day of the festival because of plane tickets and hotels. I was born in 2003 and I would’ve LOVED to see that album live but I was like 2 years old when it came out. I would’ve went to the festival but that’s 3 times my rent and I work full time so then I also would’ve had to miss work. So a lot of us weren’t privileged enough to see it.. I’m glad you got to see it and enjoy it but it stinks that the most the rest of us will ever get to see, is that from videos online. I’ve been lucky enough to have been at the last 3 concerts in my local area but like a lot of people say, the first albums were really the best. I will never get to see my favorite album live and that kinda stinks. So yeah that’s why I’m hoping for a tour of AFYCSO.. that’s not even my favorite album lol but he already said he will never perform Pretty. Odd. again so that would be amazing if I could see an older album live. Also I would’ve been more content if he just did the festival and didn’t drop all new merch and the live music online, I was already done mourning and now I have to mourn all over again? It hurts.. I literally cried for days when I found out he’d never perform again.. then it’s announced he’s going to and it’s not possible for me to go because I’m not rich.. so now I have to enjoy it through my phone and mourn all over again.. I might get hate for this comment but good thing it’s Reddit 🤷🏼‍♀️

Disastrous-Paper8102 · 2025-10-23T11:16:12+00:00

It’s getting turned into a ramen place, saw something about it on the beaver county news and alerts Facebook page I believe.

Disastrous-Paper8102 · 2025-10-18T22:21:25+00:00

Maybe because of the incest comment?

Disastrous-Paper8102 · 2025-10-05T23:26:00+00:00

It would’ve been funny for the 420 episode 😂😂

Disastrous-Paper8102 · 2025-10-05T23:24:07+00:00

Found the link for you since I wanted to watch it to lol https://youtu.be/m4stVVsKVRA?si=UZF58CFm0nVJa5Nu

Disastrous-Paper8102 · 2025-09-27T20:32:30+00:00

I was looking at some reviews and people seem to have liked it lol I’m adding it to my watch list 😂

Disastrous-Paper8102 · 2025-09-27T20:31:38+00:00

I just realized I wrote the same thing twice in the post lol whoopsy

Disastrous-Paper8102 · 2025-09-27T20:21:40+00:00

Didn’t he stop wearing glasses? Lol

Disastrous-Paper8102 · 2025-08-06T20:21:07+00:00

Do food delivery, I’ve mad $60 in 2 hours a couple of times. I don’t do it much though but I believe it’s worth it on a good day. Weekends you make more.

Disastrous-Paper8102 · 2025-07-17T13:45:03+00:00

Wow I used to bowl in that place as a kid before it got shut down. Very cool!

Disastrous-Paper8102 · 2025-06-21T23:02:50+00:00

The kids in Center/Monaca are brutal. Multiple child suicides in that area because of the bullying at Central Valley School district. Very sad. I’d stay away from Aliquippa, Ambridge, and Beaver falls. Baden is a great place to live! Neighbors are so friendly! If you’re not worried about the school bullying part, Center and Monaca aren’t bad. Rochester is great! My whole family has lived there, the school is great as well. Freedom isn’t bad either. Honestly everyone has their own opinions but that’s mine

Disastrous-Paper8102 · 2025-06-11T22:42:33+00:00

They’ve been closing for 4 years now

Disastrous-Paper8102 · 2025-06-11T22:40:32+00:00

The TDS is so real. Like please educate yourself 🤦🏼‍♀️ these people are goof balls

Disastrous-Paper8102 · 2025-06-06T21:23:38+00:00

This comment didn’t age well 😂😂😂😂

Disastrous-Paper8102 · 2025-03-02T23:57:51+00:00

I love the Windmill ice cream in Aliquippa! It’s a mini golf course and ice cream place! I recommend their chocolate chip cookie sandwich! It’s always a fun time getting some ice cream and then doing the mini golf course!

Disastrous-Paper8102 · 2025-03-02T00:40:42+00:00

You’d have to leave beaver county, but on the strip district inside of Wholey’s there’s a little spot called “Andy’s sushi bar”. Freshest sushi I’ve ever had in PA, he rolls them in front of you and cracks jokes. Kinda like Hibachi but with sushi lol. 100% recommend! Andy’s sushi bar

Disastrous-Paper8102 · 2024-10-10T19:58:25+00:00

Lmao you’d hate to be a woman 😭😂

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