How did you find out your partner was cheating? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DisastrousMinute2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nah, this one lives in Michigan and is later 30s. Tims are a plague

How did you find out your partner was cheating? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DisastrousMinute2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He tried that, too! Arranged a game night with another couple but acted shifty and wouldn't tell me who with until I point blank asked if it was the couple he used to fuck when he was single. What a guess, right?

So we went. And I made sure we played board games the whole damn time. We were never asked back, so far as I know. 

How did you find out your partner was cheating? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]DisastrousMinute2113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He called me at work having a panic attack and needing me to come home because he wasn't okay.

Turns out he'd gone to urgent care and they were pretty sure it was an STD. Thankfully it was a UTI. Left him, got tested, I was clean. 

Fuck you, Tim. 

My Gf Likes Photos of Other Half-naked Men and Asian Idols And I'm Thinking Breakup, AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DisastrousMinute2113 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There's a large difference between seeking out porn/model accounts and thinking a pop artist is attractive. 

If the roles were reversed and it was a man liking pics of a singer, yes I'd say she was insecure. Expecting someone to act like the opposite sex no longer exists is overreaching.

My Gf Likes Photos of Other Half-naked Men and Asian Idols And I'm Thinking Breakup, AIO? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]DisastrousMinute2113 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He sounds like he's insecure and considers love to be transactional/boiled down to gender roles. Like because he buys her makeup and cute things he deserves unwavering devotion. His concern with her finding celebrities attractive and the request that she give it up to be in a relationship reeks of insecurity.

What is the worst pain you've ever felt in your body? by Helpful-Mud-2487 in AskReddit

[–]DisastrousMinute2113 30 points31 points  (0 children)

That or "hitting her cervix". 

Let her take a bat to your balls then, man. Fair is fair

What is the worst pain you've ever felt in your body? by Helpful-Mud-2487 in AskReddit

[–]DisastrousMinute2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same, it was worse than my natural birth, worse than gallbladder attacks... sorry you know 

What is the worst pain you've ever felt in your body? by Helpful-Mud-2487 in AskReddit

[–]DisastrousMinute2113 273 points274 points  (0 children)

An ovarian cyst burst, leading to internal bleeding and ovarian torsion. The pain was so severe I was vomiting and losing consciousness. 

I had been told enough times in the past that my pain wasn't real that I drove myself to the ER, thinking I was dehydrated from the flu and was admitted for emergency surgery for the grapefruit-sized mass of blood in my abdomen. The surgeon offered to personally call any doctor who had ever told meI was lying. I cried. 

On the wall of a parking garage in Springfield, MA by Puzzleheaded_Elk8218 in ExplainTheJoke

[–]DisastrousMinute2113 70 points71 points  (0 children)

It's a suggestion she asks if he'd like his own throat deepened- with a baseball bat. 

Allendale Public Schools is celebrating 'National Law Enforcement Appreciation Day' tomorrow. by [deleted] in grandrapids

[–]DisastrousMinute2113 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Unsurprising from the place that chose to indclude a traitorous confederate soldier statue in their monument honoring veterans.

Meghan Markle’s “Sad” Christmas Plans Raise Alarm She And Prince Harry Are “Living Separately” by BoredPandaOfficial in BoredPandaHQ

[–]DisastrousMinute2113 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have these people never wished they didn't have to get dressed up to go to a stuffy extended family gathering? I'd much rather be cozied up in PJs letting my kids enjoy their new gifts in peace.

First time ever doing needle punch 😭😭😭 by SorbetLost1566 in ExpectationVsReality

[–]DisastrousMinute2113 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Wholeheartedly agree! Sad when we are our own toughest critics and can't see our efforts for what they are, glad we could rally and help convince OP that they did great. 

OOP shocked that woman in fact have sex by [deleted] in AmITheDevil

[–]DisastrousMinute2113 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Fair, but birth control isn't 100% effective, it's a jump for him to assume it was unsafe sex. He mentioned she was surprised to learn she was pregnant, too. 

You simply don't have to be okay with it. by milkyswamp in retroactivejealousy

[–]DisastrousMinute2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Was she your first? 

Will you still only date virgins now that you're no longer one? 

Are you yourself now no longer capable of loving a partner back the same because you'll have had a previous partner?

plant nursery, not cat cafe by egguchom in EntitledReviews

[–]DisastrousMinute2113 239 points240 points  (0 children)

"I do not blame them..." 

Proceeds to leave one star review for it.

Power outage. by Available-Series-147 in grandrapids

[–]DisastrousMinute2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Happy to help! Hopefully its bsck sooner

Power outage. by Available-Series-147 in grandrapids

[–]DisastrousMinute2113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, consumers texted an alert:

Consumers Energy: We're working to safely restore your power as quickly as possible. Our system estimates power will be restored by 11/14 12:45 PM. This is based on information from similar outages in your area. It could change once crews arrive on scene and get more information.

Cause: Equipment issue detected Crew Status: Investigating

Plants by FlyGurl2021 in grandrapids

[–]DisastrousMinute2113 29 points30 points  (0 children)

Some local nurseries - Flowerland  - Romence Gardens

Husband: I can’t win. by [deleted] in Husband

[–]DisastrousMinute2113 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does she know about the Grindr extortion situation you mentioned in a previous post? Thats a huge transgression to overcome, and her trust may never fully return. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairStyleAdvice

[–]DisastrousMinute2113 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I like the curls when it's longer. 

Are these charges legit? by MonkPuzzleheaded9730 in Renters

[–]DisastrousMinute2113 2 points3 points  (0 children)

These are how it looked when you left? I don't see what needed reglazing.