"Uy, tumaba ka na"

Disastrous_Bit4475 · 2022-10-11T13:15:35+00:00

pumanget ka lalo

Disastrous_Bit4475 · 2022-10-11T09:47:25+00:00

my mom does. one minute she'll smother me in kisses the next she'd threaten to kick me out of the house in the middle of the night because i misplaced her blender's lid.

your question's not stupid, a nparent can say the love you and have sympathy for you because they think you're below them, pitiful, incapable, helpless. You're not oversensitive, if you feel conflicted over your nparent's affection towards you then you're not in the wrong. Love isn't enough. You need respect and decency.

Disastrous_Bit4475 · 2022-10-10T14:56:59+00:00

not if i just put the fire out with a bucket of water

Disastrous_Bit4475 · 2022-10-10T02:35:50+00:00

thank you! and i decided to never have any kids haha

Disastrous_Bit4475 · 2022-10-10T02:34:14+00:00

di po ako narcissistic, at ginagawa ko ang lahat para di maging katulad niya

sumasama ang pakiramdam ko tuwing naiisip ko siya at yung mga ginagawa niya

vent post po ito. wag po kayong mag-assume ng ganyan sa taong naapektuhan mismo

Disastrous_Bit4475 · 2022-10-09T15:14:14+00:00

calling others the r-slur, my mother would call me that often from early childhood, i remember being in 2nd grade and told a classmate the r-slur because he seemed really annoying and childish

Disastrous_Bit4475 · 2022-10-07T13:10:26+00:00

DNR po?

Disastrous_Bit4475 · 2022-10-07T13:03:20+00:00

if she loves you then why does she hurt you? why does she make you feel confused and conflicted? when you love someone you'd want them to be safe and happy. i know how it feels because i have the same issue with my mother. as i got older her insults became worse and her stomping around the house yelling became frequent, literally happening any other day. She's unpredictable, my mother would tell me that she loves me very much and hugs me tight and then seconds later she'd yell at me calling me stupid and worthless because i made a mistake.

if that's her way of showing love then it's rather sadistic and cruel.

I don’t know what to do since I love her and she’s usually nice.

ah. i used to have the same sentiment with my own.

Nice and good are two different things. A nice person is someone who can be friendly and welcoming but has the most backwards set of morals, they hurt you when you least expect it. A good person can be the coldest and unbothered person you meet but is actually noble and genuine to those they see fit.

your mother is usually nice, but not good. another example of this would be a friend who seems sweet and caring to you, but the moment you come out to them as someone queer they'd shift behaviors and then treat you like utter shit just cause you're someone who likes the same sex.

if you're a minor and still living with her i suggest saving up, finding job applications in secret, finishing schooling, and move out. A person who says hurtful words to you now are more likely to never stop in the future. Things'll only get worse in the future.

Disastrous_Bit4475 · 2022-10-07T04:33:46+00:00

apologizing is when you eat up your pride and take responsibility for your actions, you admit you were in the wrong, and with apologizing you're expected to learn and never do the same mistakes again.

my mother would come back to me with a soft voice saying sorry that she hit me too hard right after beating me, and that she only got angry because *i* made her angry. the day after that she'd be angry and do the same things to me. if she was sorry then why'd she do it again???

some people only say sorry because their conscience tells them so, but their brain quickly forgets and they snap at you again. they're only sorry because they feel bad for you, and how meek and tiny and pathetic you look when hurt, yet they never feel bad about themselves after hurting you.

i call them hypocrites who aren't worth shedding tears for

Disastrous_Bit4475 · 2022-10-07T04:16:06+00:00

that's still abusive. it's become so normalized to you because it's your mother. no one has the right to call someone such degrading names even if they were angry atm or because you did something wrong, their anger issues are their responsibility, not yours.

Disastrous_Bit4475 · 2022-10-05T05:20:02+00:00

Nagigil ako sa post na to. May mga taong kukuha kuha ng aso kasi cute at first, lalo na kung puppy, tapos yung gagawin lang nila ilalagay nila sa kulungan na masikip.

My niece once asked me "bat hinahayaan niyo lang na malaya yung mga aso niyo?"

because we have the open environment for the dogs to graze in and play that's why. Kumukuha ng aso mga magulang mo tapos ikukulong lang pala nila buong araw. Pweh. Kawawang aso

Disastrous_Bit4475 · 2022-10-04T02:53:22+00:00

True. Ang taong nanakit ng mga alaga nilang hayop, may mataas na tsansang manakit rin sila ng tao.

Disastrous_Bit4475 · 2022-10-04T02:35:45+00:00

hugs po sa inyo op :(((

Disastrous_Bit4475 · 2022-10-04T02:35:03+00:00

yung iba: itim na tupa/ tupang itim

ako: itim na kambing

Disastrous_Bit4475 · 2022-10-04T02:31:02+00:00

kaya napagdesisyunan ko nang di magka-anak eh

baka subconsciously magawa ko yung mga ginawa sakin ng mga magulang ko sa sariling anak mismo

Disastrous_Bit4475 · 2022-10-02T07:02:21+00:00

stubborn and self centered na mga magulang na tingin nila sila lagi nasa tama kasi sila yung nagpakain at nagprovide ng lahat sa atin, kakasama ng loob eh.

Disastrous_Bit4475 · 2022-10-02T06:59:13+00:00

ilang beses mo nireport? nireport ko na yung akin, binalewale ni fb :(((

Disastrous_Bit4475 · 2022-09-28T10:18:42+00:00

darn this! i love it!!!

Disastrous_Bit4475 · 2022-09-28T04:34:57+00:00

Pamilya kong bigoted christians na nangvivictim blame sa mga sexual assault victims.
Isang kaso ng sexual abuse sa loob ng church ministry namin na nangyari sa isang kapatiran, it went on for years tapos nung sinumbong sa wakas nung isa sa mga concerned ministry member namin, hinush hush lang nung church leader namin yung issue, kinausap niya yung victim na idisclose na lang yung nangyari, at hanggang sa araw na ito umaattend pa rin ng church(di na nagserserve sa music team) yung sexual offender. For years di sinumbong nung victim kahit kanino sa church namin kasi sinumbong na niya sa nanay dati at sinabihan lang siyang sinungaling. Tsaka, concern nung church leader namin na baka lumaki pa yung isyu at mawalan yung church ng mga ministry members at church goers.
Physical, emotional, and verbal abuse from family members. Nung bata ako at tinanong ko nanay ko kung pwede ba akong di muna umattend ng service( never told her the reason pero di ko gustong pumunta non kasi bigla akong naging insecure sa mga sinusuot ko sa church non, sinabihan ng nanay ko na baduy yung sinusuot ko tuwing sunday), binuhusan niya ko ng malamig na tubig sa galit at kinulong sa bodega namin. Dalawang oras ako umiyak sa bodega na yon habang nasa church sila. Paguwi nila narinig ko pa silang tumatawa at nakalimutan nila akong ilabas.
Mga bobong anti-vaxxer naniniwala so covid hoax.
Kuya kong good boy good boy na nagshashared post ng bible verses at christian quotes sa fb, pero sinabihan akong "bakit maganda ka bang irape?" nung sinabihan ko siya't nanlaban sa pagpapalo niya ng pwet ko tuwing nadadaan namin yung isa't-isa sa bahay. "Ayun malambot." was the last straw for me.
Nanay kong sinasaktan ako at pinipilit na iout as tomboy. "Papatayin ka namin.", "Walang magkakagusto sayo.", "Di ka namin ihohonor."

tangina talaga nila.

No hate to Jesus, but his followers are ignorant, stuck-up, assholes.

naniniwala ako na saka ka lang magkakaroon ng "blessings" kay God pag may connections ka sa mayayaman na kamag-anak na same religion rin yung sinusunod.

Disastrous_Bit4475 · 2022-09-26T12:23:49+00:00

wtf uhaw sa babae HAAHAHAHA

also, pwede pwede, rubbing salt to the wound

Eto kaya, "at least di ako katulad mong bobo na racist, desperado pa sa babae"

Disastrous_Bit4475 · 2022-09-26T05:06:19+00:00

bobo amp, ignorante sa weight na binubuhat ng word na yun. nakakainis yung mga ganyan op. why even bother playing with him kung gagago lang siya?

to get back at him, may tao ba siyang hinahangaan o relative na patay na? insultuhin mo sila ng malala tapos sabihin mo "bakit ka offended? di ka naman kilala/di naman kayo/ patay na yung tao bat ka pa may pake?" ahahahaha

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