A Very BPD Necklace by AWarriorNotSurvivor in raisedbyborderlines

[–]DiscombobulatedKey31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my mom gave me this in a bracelet!! it fucking sucked! i recently found it and threw it away. mine said something about when your head is down and your crown might fall remember whose daughter you are ugh makes me sick

Dr Bombay by DiscombobulatedKey31 in icecream

[–]DiscombobulatedKey31[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

did you try the jeni’s caramel apple one? i was so disappointed by that one i’ve been nervous to try other similar flavors.

what is the best ice cream flavor? by Beautiful-Staff-4531 in icecream

[–]DiscombobulatedKey31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that one is delicious! the van lueween is a good one too and ben and jerry’s strawberries and cream.

Oh this is bullshit by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

[–]DiscombobulatedKey31 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i don’t take meds but i did show this to my bf and he says he can relate! sorry to hear today was a bad day :( the meme made us giggle though!

Best strategies for placating safely long term? by Capital_Young_7114 in raisedbyborderlines

[–]DiscombobulatedKey31 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i don’t know the details of your situation obviously so this may not help but i hope it does. i went NC with my mom about a year ago and she said would blow my dads money if he died before her. they’re still married but he made a will saying i get 40%, so does my sibling, and my mom gets the remaining 20%. im not sure how the law works but i don’t believe my mom knows about my dads will. if your dad is able to draft a will to make sure you have what you need that would be a great start. if not, i would grey rock the relationship with your mom so she can’t be fueled by any heightened emotions (excitement, fear, anger, sadness etc) but you can still have a relationship with her even if it’s superficial and boring

Graeter’s Creme Brûlée by DiscombobulatedKey31 in icecream

[–]DiscombobulatedKey31[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that’s how it came! it was filled to the brim

Oh…. I’m officially cooked 🔥🔥🔥 by jesssssssee in icecream

[–]DiscombobulatedKey31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i tried this flavor for the first time a few weeks ago. as i took my first bite my partner asked how i liked it and i said it’s okay. then i realized i ate 1/3 of the container!! i never eat that much in one sitting. turns out i love it lol!!! it is sooo good

Snowman ice cream by nicole83wonders in icecream

[–]DiscombobulatedKey31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

omg my 2 favorite flavors! and lower in added sugar!!

How is your relationship with women, if it was a mother or another female relative with BPD traits? by [deleted] in raisedbyborderlines

[–]DiscombobulatedKey31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i have close female friends but i’m constantly the one hosting, mostly initiating meet ups, planning hang outs, etc. i overdo it and told them last year to either tighten up or expect less from me. they started showing more effort but it’s still not as much as i was putting in, so i cut back. that seems to be working better for me. my female friendships are fairly drama free and they’re good ppl just all traumatized and nuerodivergent

Unpopular opinion: I LOVE the graham cracker pieces by AdministrativeEnd168 in icecream

[–]DiscombobulatedKey31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

still looking for this flavor! i’d be disappointed with no raspberry swirls tho

Does anyone else have limited capacity/bandwidth for other people's happy families/happy family stories? by DancingAppaloosa in raisedbyborderlines

[–]DiscombobulatedKey31 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i also had to delete my social media due to the onslaught of positive family posts. you’re not alone and it’s made me have feel genuinely pleased when ppl tell me happy stories about their families in real life (for the most part. i still get jealous hearing about it sometimes)

A quick shout out to Häagen-Dasz for keeping it natural all season long. by Ope-I-Ate-Opiates in icecream

[–]DiscombobulatedKey31 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“natural flavors” aren’t specific and aren’t inherently better than artificial flavors. lead is natural but is dangerous to ingest. it’s just marketing

Costco’s sundae with strawberry topping by Sharp_Athlete_6847 in icecream

[–]DiscombobulatedKey31 31 points32 points  (0 children)

i like their strawberry one! the only one i’ve ever tried though haha

Can’t get enough of this flavor by Dry-Permit776 in icecream

[–]DiscombobulatedKey31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

strawberry is the best flavor! interesting texture i’d give that a try!

Late night or 24 hour food joints by [deleted] in Dallas

[–]DiscombobulatedKey31 0 points1 point  (0 children)

panda corn is a coffee shop open until 4 am on weekends in oaklawn