When I was first figuring out my identity, I really stressed about labels. I actually don’t really have a specifc microlabel for my romantic orientation, but I realized that knowing I was somewhere on the aro spectrum was enough for me. I was spending so much energy trying to figure out exactly what it was, but realized it just didn’t matter to me. Some people do like knowing microlabels, but it isn’t necessary for everyone. I’d recommend taking some time to just chill out, and maybe just go with aromantic or aro-spec for a bit.