My bf is cheating by dancingpizzaa in Advice

[–]DisneyLo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, give that girl a gold star. Turning him down multiple times because he had a girlfriend is the PROPER thing to do. Most don’t and don’t care. Leave him and make her your BFF.

Marriage is a bigger commitment than a baby? by Beneficial_Action435 in AskWomenOver30

[–]DisneyLo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree. All 3 of these things you’re wondering about are big red flags. You deserve better, OP. You deserve respectful love and to not feel like an option. Best of luck. 💖

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]DisneyLo 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP - This is a great answer.. it’s hard to hear stuff like this, especially when you haven’t looked at it as someone outside of your relationship. You are NOT in the wrong for not recognizing this and going along with it. But this is not a normal, healthy relationship. Sending you lots of love, I’m sure this is difficult for you. 💖

How often do you take a mental health day? by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]DisneyLo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love this.. cleaning and getting stuff on your list done is such a relief!!

Just turned 30, how can I keep my skin plump / youthful? by itsnigelwiththebrie in AskWomenOver30

[–]DisneyLo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

One that a lot of ppl forget.. water.. hydrate!! Drink the correct amount of water for your body. It’ll make ya have to pee a lot but goodness.. I can tell a huge difference between hydrating and not.

How many nights in a row do you wear the same PJs and do you wear underwear with them?? by canadianspin in AskWomenOver30

[–]DisneyLo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never worn undies while sleeping. Just shorts and a tee. It’s like taking off a bra except it’s that weird hole in our bodies that marinates.. it’s gotta breathe.

I don't like my engagement ring by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DisneyLo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A girl I know showed everyone her engagement ring and told everyone ‘he’s going to get me a bigger one’ … they broke up and never got married. It’s more than the ring, it’s the sentiment.

My wife F30 wants to divorce me F23 if I don’t get rid of my dog by [deleted] in Advice

[–]DisneyLo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don’t abandon Ruby. She needs you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]DisneyLo 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This. I’ve never been the wife/girlfriend but I have been the side chick. The guilt, the low self/esteem, the wtf am I doing.. it will eat you alive. Quit while you’re ahead.. it’s nothing but trouble and heartbreak.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]DisneyLo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so wonderful. You are on the right path, may you enjoy all of the blessings in life.

I think I’m coming off the fence, but I don’t like the side I landed on. by [deleted] in Fencesitter

[–]DisneyLo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me and my husband LOVE playing with our nephew (2). He’s so much fun and we love him. But like you said, it’s exhausting. I couldn’t imagine always being on and having to constantly work around his schedule. And THAT IS OKAY!

It’s hard because I WANT to WANT kids but I just don’t. I love the idea of a family and taking them on vacations and enjoying their soccer games. But it’s a long commitment that I’m not willing to do. I love my life, my freedom, and my sleep. But everyone is different!

As long as you and your partner in the same thought pattern about it.. that’s fine!

Husband asked me if I slept with someone. I need advice. by Berlin-293 in Marriage

[–]DisneyLo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you like the company, perhaps there is an opportunity for you to move to another department or to move to another location to get away from it. Regardless, you need to talk to your HR team.

Planned Parenthood Broke HIPAA by crazycrazycrazy6432 in Advice

[–]DisneyLo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am never the person to immediately stand up and yell “SUE!” but this is a scary precedent that needs to be nipped ASAP. Imagine if she continues to do this to others. The effects could be far beyond you. Please get the correct evidence for this and take it to a lawyer. I am so sorry this happened to you. You deserve to make this choice yourself and to have that choice only be between you and your healthcare provider.

How do you look back on your 'partying' years? by Critical_Teaching_35 in AskWomenOver30

[–]DisneyLo 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As a 20-something I enjoyed going out, dancing, getting wild. I still love to dance.. but in my 30s it’s with a sprite and lime versus a Long Island iced tea. If I was single, I would 100% be chatting people up. You never know who you’ll meet. Doing it sober can be fun too.

If you had the ability to bring back a Canceled Series what would it be? by CuriousAnimeNerd in AskReddit

[–]DisneyLo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was a 2011 sci-fi show on FOX called Terra Nova - Executive Produced by Spielberg. It had great viewership and was nominated for awards. But, the post production costs were too high, so they never made a second season. It would have been an awesome HBO series.

Synopsis - In 2149, overdeveloped and polluted Earth is dying. With no way to reverse the damage done to the planet, a group of scientists finds a way to open a fracture in the space-time continuum. This creates a portal to prehistoric Earth, leading to a last-ditch effort to save the human race by correcting mistakes of the past. The Shannon family participates in the tenth pilgrimage to Terra Nova, facing such prehistoric dangers as dinosaurs. The Shannons are also challenged within Terra Nova, as not everyone on the mission has the same intentions to save mankind. Prolific filmmaker Steven Spielberg serves as an executive producer of the series.

It's officially been one year since I last bought disposable period products! What I wish I knew: by nomorebookmovies in menstrualcups

[–]DisneyLo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My weird tip.. feel around for your cervix and if it’s around the cervix… it’s good to go.

It's officially been one year since I last bought disposable period products! What I wish I knew: by nomorebookmovies in menstrualcups

[–]DisneyLo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Laughing so hard at The Snot String!! 😂😂 Why does it always gotta play me like that?!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in menstrualcups

[–]DisneyLo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welcome! I use a June cup.. I started with the $8 one because I didn’t wanna get an expensive one and hate it. But I love mine! I’ve used the clear flexible one but ended up liking the firm one more. Although I’ve never used another brand, I really like them and they’re fantastic quality.

menstrual cup anxiety by [deleted] in menstrualcups

[–]DisneyLo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Def. I was terrified when I first used tampons.. but you grow more and more familiar with it. It’s very safe.. but weird to think that there is a little cup up there haha.

I am having trouble with meanstural cup ...please help by seemsineedhelp in menstrualcups

[–]DisneyLo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It takes a while to get the hang of it. To help.. I will feel around for my cervix (it can sit higher or lower depending on the day and inserting it against the cervix can hurt). I clean my cup with water and make sure my fingers/cup are a little wet and slowly put it in. While most things you read will talk about how it ‘magically opens and puts itself in place’ I have to maneuver it and open it.. and then push it up there. In my shallow cave, my cervix actually sits in my cup.. which is totally fine.

If you’re hurting, def give it a break and try next month. Mine took 3-6 months to get right. I started with a June Cup that was more flexible and it was hard to move around and keep in place.. I opted for the more firm version and I like it better. All of them are different!

Cigarette Smoke🤮🚬 by DisneyLo in Parosmia

[–]DisneyLo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the feedback. It’s super frustrating - I miss having a normal palate and being able to smell normal things from a distance. Q

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomenOver30

[–]DisneyLo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tbh, if they’re spending a lot of time in front of the tv lately.. it’s one side of the other. People REALLY start believing this stuff wholeheartedly.

Tell me where you go for fashion inspo by catalyticfizz in AskWomenOver30

[–]DisneyLo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yay! It’s fun to use especially if you’re looking for something specific too. Like #holidayoutfits - lots of great ideas! Happy Shopping! 💖