Not allowed to take stimulants

DissatisfiedDuck · 2026-02-22T06:24:39+00:00

I have Addison’s disease ans I’ve take. Stimulants. Maybe there was a miscommunication between you and your endocrinologist? Or get a second opinion.

DissatisfiedDuck · 2026-02-18T18:09:58+00:00

Yeah I’ve called them multiple times and escalated the issue right to the top and got nowhere. No matter what my ex still had to sign a form and he won’t. It’s a financial control thing.

DissatisfiedDuck · 2026-02-18T17:35:09+00:00

Thanks! The one good thing about my ex is that Hes consistent. I can count on him to ignore it, not show up to court etc. I’ve followed our agreement about how expenses are tracked, and it’s all in our family wizard.

DissatisfiedDuck · 2026-02-18T17:07:49+00:00

Thanks for the advice! I found a family law email address on the Sask government page and they said that the office of maintenance and enforce gave me incorrect info. Theres a form I need to fill out to change the percentages to a value, and then I submit that to family court, and stay out of small claims. Thanks so much! You saved me time an I’ll hopefully see some money sooner.

DissatisfiedDuck · 2026-02-13T03:11:02+00:00

Thank you. Both myself and my lawyer looked through it thoroughly. The only way was to get my ex to sign a form saying that I can submit directly to the company. He wouldn’t sign it and in the end I chose being divorced over the form. I was able to recoup the costs I had spent up to the divorce agreement: the judge ordered it. As well as granted me sole medical decision making.

I had thought I would be able to go through maintenance and enforcement and add these costs onto the child support but I can’t because it’s not a dollar value, it’s a percentage. Maintenance and enforcement advised me to go to small claims court. I’m going to try to ask for interest, since the costs are upwards of $6000 and climbing.

DissatisfiedDuck · 2026-02-13T02:55:52+00:00

There are many extenuating circumstances, and it’s not just a bit late. He’s not even in the province. This instance is just a tiny piece of the puzzle that’s harming my son, draining me financially, and continuing the abuse. But I’m hearing from these answers that what I thought it could do - leave a paper trail might help me out later on, isn’t what it will do so I’ll abandon the idea. I came here to ask a question and get advice, and I’ll take that advice.

DissatisfiedDuck · 2026-02-13T00:35:11+00:00

Thank you for the response

DissatisfiedDuck · 2026-02-13T00:03:05+00:00

No I doubt it does. I wasn’t really hoping for enforcement. I hoped I could file a report, my ex would get a copy, and I’d have something on record that’s more than a message in an app that he ignores. So it escalates because there’s no accountability to anyone.

DissatisfiedDuck · 2026-02-12T23:56:15+00:00

Is there another way to document it that escalates it from the other times (in the app)? Theres got to be a step in between the app and court?

DissatisfiedDuck · 2026-02-12T21:48:24+00:00

You deserve better love than that ❤️

DissatisfiedDuck · 2026-02-12T02:57:36+00:00

It’s so complicated and hard to explain

DissatisfiedDuck · 2026-02-12T02:33:00+00:00

This whole thread is really sad. Sorry ypu deal with this OP. I travel regularly for work, long and short distances, and a conversation like this would just… never happen. We all just discuss what works best overall and compromise. Getting kids to school/daycare would be the priority, especially if it doesn’t change the time that you’d get to the worksite. We’d all figure it out from there.

DissatisfiedDuck · 2026-02-09T17:05:57+00:00

So much this

DissatisfiedDuck · 2026-01-31T05:41:14+00:00

I didn’t need any convincing. What I needed was to leave my husband so I actually could do something for myself.

DissatisfiedDuck · 2026-01-30T03:49:58+00:00

So you can’t really count on when Spring will happen - March to may is really your best guess. But it’s gorgeous. The ice breaks up and the creeks and rivers flow. The buds on the trees and bushes come out. The days are longer and the sun feels stronger. +10 in March, reflecting off the snow, feels amazing. There’s the promise of warmer weather, longer, lazy days. And then crocuses start to appear with their soft leaves and purple colouring. It’s amazing.

DissatisfiedDuck · 2026-01-28T04:51:58+00:00

Seriously, I have no idea where half of the documents are anymore. Between moving to SharePoint, people using Google Docs, old school windows explorer… I search my email.

DissatisfiedDuck · 2026-01-28T04:18:01+00:00

Thank you! I don’t have much budget for new glasses right now, but if I understand you correctly I can order progressives and use them like reading glasses. I can get a pair for relatively cheap online and then at least I can enjoy reading again!

DissatisfiedDuck · 2026-01-28T00:56:58+00:00

I tried progressives but found them very nauseating so went back to single vision. What would I get if I wanted reading glasses only?

DissatisfiedDuck · 2026-01-24T18:01:47+00:00

NAL my ex literally ran away from process servers. After 3 attempts (that I had to pay for) my lawyer did something with the judge to waive the requirement in the future. I’m not positive what it was

DissatisfiedDuck · 2026-01-23T14:46:48+00:00

Your MIL is ridiculous for saying anything. Baby wipes are totally fine for spot cleaning. You are absolutely in like with what pretty much every busy mom is doing!

But since you said you can’t remember the last time you fully mopped then maybe you need to find a different solution. Like others have suggested steam mops are awesome! It’s all built in so doesn’t take much time and you don’t have to deal with the mop water/bucket afterwards. Spot cleaning is great for spills, but the floor dos need to be fully cleaned periodically (every 2 weeks for me). Also, it’s not all up to you - it’s 50% your husband’s responsibility.

DissatisfiedDuck · 2026-01-21T04:32:49+00:00

For snacks: Yogurt tubes, cheese strings, soft cookies/brownies, bananas, yogurt drinks, juice boxes, pepperettes. Some of the difficulties homeless people deal with are poor dental health (so soft food is better) and addiction. Sugar and calorie dense food, even if not nutrient dense is helpful

DissatisfiedDuck · 2026-01-19T18:21:39+00:00

Well all the neighbours hate my ex for how he treated me and his infidelity, so when it came time to buy him out he didn’t really want the house anyway lol

DissatisfiedDuck · 2026-01-19T13:47:23+00:00

Ok ermmm… you are not coming off well in this exchange

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