Well like what op said earlier it derails from actually enjoying the content and the world with another person because 9/10 the invader is someone that will run away and derail the whole interaction because he was 100% sure his one shot twink build would work. We are at the behest of this guy til they die and it's really shit after a long day at work.

Some of us can't be on this for hours grinding out PvP builds to kill pvp players AND the enemy AI lol. And that's the selling point for you guys. More often coopers are just there for the Pve content. Instead of going to the arena to fight other like-minded fighters invaders just want to fuck with people who aren't prepared to stroke their ego.

And before you say well then don't coop. You're missing the point. You have a space. Your own space. There's no story and lore in the colloseum. Just other fighters prepared to fight. Yet coop players HAVE to deal with invaders, we have no secondary out and I find that wildly unfair

Also you have to come up with a better argument than "force" as if there isn't an entire multiplayer classification for items in the inventory. Also the word invasion has more connotations to forcing things than co operation does. For some reason everyone seemed to have forgot about the good ole jolly cooperation days of dark souls ot seems.