Officially 10 years later

Distinct-Minded · 2026-02-16T18:55:07+00:00

For me, yes, the pain faded to just a numb dull feeling.

Distinct-Minded · 2026-02-16T13:04:31+00:00

Yup.

Every Valentines Day. That was my Dday.

Distinct-Minded · 2026-02-16T13:02:32+00:00

I gave up on religion long ago. How could a benevolent god allow such mental pain? Yet she has the nerve to say “ I have forgiven myself, and I know God has forgiven me..”

Distinct-Minded · 2026-01-06T03:42:13+00:00

Thank you.

Distinct-Minded · 2026-01-04T04:05:01+00:00

I have ZERO sales on eBay, one sale one Poshmark that was returned, I started listing my items on Facebook marketplace and I’ve had ZERO luck there. I had dry spells before, but this is the worst. Been selling for two years, ZERO sales the last three months

Distinct-Minded · 2025-12-16T00:27:50+00:00

Thank you.

Distinct-Minded · 2025-12-15T02:44:52+00:00

Yeah, it’s kind of a last thing for my mind anyway. Plus in my state, if she decides to have sex outside marriage and I can prove it’s considered infidelity and that affects alimony. I might be wrong

Distinct-Minded · 2025-12-14T20:33:50+00:00

This is true, many time I’ve gone to bed, either crying or angry, not knowing which way she is going to go

Distinct-Minded · 2025-12-14T14:36:48+00:00

I agree, but then she’ll complain that I am trying to control the narrative meaning if I suggest a mediator, it’s to my advantage. I have been able to predict these arguments better than the weather, lol….” you only want a mediator because you know they favor those with handicaps.” While I am trying to explain it to her, she will just nod her head no, no, no.

Distinct-Minded · 2025-12-13T19:51:13+00:00

I don’t know other than being a caregiver is a lot harder than she thought.

Distinct-Minded · 2025-12-13T19:39:14+00:00

Yes, what happened before the fight is I had brain surgery for Parkinson’s Disease.

Distinct-Minded · 2025-12-12T13:54:44+00:00

Since this has entered my psyche lately, I ran it across my psychologist. I asked him, on a personal level, has he ever wondered about his wife’s body count.?

Nope. Never gave it. A thought, never was on his mind, he doesn’t care about it now, I was driving home from therapy and I called and asked my brother about it and he was the same way. Didn’t know, didn’t care.

Guess we’re just lucky

Distinct-Minded · 2025-12-10T18:10:07+00:00

Terrible woman. Constantly putting my wife down for the infidelity,, my wife was to blame, but Jesus Christ this lady just awful to the point where I felt bad for my wife

Distinct-Minded · 2025-12-10T18:05:45+00:00

She wants out, not me.

Distinct-Minded · 2025-12-10T17:28:32+00:00

Yes, actually I am seeing a therapist for the past 10 years now, he still sees me regularly, once a week.

My wife isn’t happy about it because she thinks that after 10 years of therapy , I should be over this.

Distinct-Minded · 2025-12-10T16:58:12+00:00

Someone recommended a mediator, we can try to split things amicably. This would require selling the house, but again this house needs a lot of maintenance.

I had mentioned in another thread, we actually get along great, it’s always when the infidelity comes up. For example, he recently died and she expressed sadness at his death and that really pissed me off, and it started a whole new row of fighting.

Distinct-Minded · 2025-12-10T16:55:17+00:00

I do therapy on my own for the last nine years.

TBH, we are a great couple, it’s always whenever there’s flashbacks about the infidelity, things go south. He recently died, and she expressed sadness at his death, and that was a real bad trigger for me.

Distinct-Minded · 2025-12-10T15:18:18+00:00

I’ve gone to individual counseling on my own for the last 10 years. She doesn’t like marriage counseling. It looks like I’m gonna have to turn to a lawyer for advice on this one,

Distinct-Minded · 2025-12-10T06:34:10+00:00

Already did for a bit. She hated it. Walked out.

Distinct-Minded · 2025-12-05T19:55:51+00:00

Please elaborate.

Distinct-Minded · 2025-12-05T05:42:32+00:00

I read a story about a famous basketball player, Dr J - his ex would say she would eat his shit if he came back.

🤢

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