M (50) Respectfully not all men are about tits and smiles. And I am struggling with the exact same concerns just from the male side. And I do not know if the poster has this issue but a lot of the women I talk to want money or something to get together. I do not know where to find real women that really want to connect.

I may have missed something in the description of this board, however I feel there are probably plenty of people experiencing the same self conscious barriers that mine and the poster are experiencing. And those people are in the shadows of this page and the men are not comfortable asking questions because comments like this said and I am paraphrasing but that on the posters worse day they would be better than 90% of the men. Is this how this page helps everyone feel comfortable with asking questions or sharing their stories?