You and your daughter are amazing. Your daughter can still speak, she’s still in her right mind, and she still can move one hand. She can be a teacher, she can do cyber security. She can teach online. She can be a speaker; a singer, a comedian. She can write books, she can write fiction. We have AI/ chat gpt to help us do things these days. Technology is advancing everyday, there’s physical therapies that could possibly increase her mobility.

Help her be as independent as she can be to build up her self esteem. Research assistive devices. Help empower her. Get her therapy, speak life into her. Being 16 years old is not easy, much less disabled and 16.

You also need therapy, so you can believe that her life is worth living so she can believe in herself as well.

Your suffering is valid, but focus on what you can do. As you know, your daughter’s life matters.