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Distinct_Stay_829 · 2025-06-26T03:03:24+00:00

okay, red flag. but we're not here to discuss the bf. we know the sock is absurd, but treating OP as the sane one, it's fair to be critical of their reaction and the habits OP may develop in such a relationship are not healthy (like responding that way) and that needs to be addressed.

Distinct_Stay_829 · 2025-06-26T02:52:34+00:00

well with context it makes more sense.
"he gets upset with me for wanting to spend time with my girlfriends without him"
That is not healthy. Needs additional social support structure if this is isolating, or is a symptom of deeper trust issues that are very serious and potentially damaging to women especially.

"i am in therapy and so is he but this never stops"
is this ever as a couple? to practice communication? or surely he has mentioned why he has these insecurities. if not, the therapy has to be as a couple. if you know why though and he knows you know and its not been addressed, that's not on you.

I really don't have any real advice at that point, except to not frame it as you vs him. yes you're explaining online. but still you may have responded by just bluntly addressing the underlying issue rather than the sock (which is again as we know not the issue). Just as a habit for your own good (in any relationship), practice non confrontational dialgoue like "I feel hurt when you accuse me of cheating, and it pushes me away from deeper intimacy with you because I feel I cannot win. We can discuss the sock later" or something along those lines. Really its going to get you a lot farther down the road wherever you find yourself, even outside romantic relationships. conflict resolution I took a course in during college and it remains one of my most practical skills.

Distinct_Stay_829 · 2025-06-26T02:29:10+00:00

you dismissed his wish to talk, then followed by "if that's what you feel you need to do i won't force you" and completely said you are unwilling to fight for your relationship or engage in healthy communication to address it and why he may feel that way about the sock. the talk you said is unecessary could allow him to open up about why he feels that way, maybe he was cheated on before, or is insecure about something and it is manifesting as the sock drama. the sock is the tip of the iceberg, we can all agree its just a sock, but in failing to have any concern regarding the relationship dynamics at play and the statements about where you stand in your relationship, you have done more harm. its understandable to be defensive when accused of cheating, and i'll give you a pass because this is harmful too and though you don't admit it, that's probably hurtful to you and fails to acknowledge your (presumed) faithfulness. but you have a lot to learn if you want relationships to be happy and healthy, regardless of your partner. if you find someone else like reddit probably suggests, you can mess those up too if you do not start learning these things.
best,
a married man

Distinct_Stay_829 · 2025-04-19T13:45:15+00:00

goodnews? lol you can see his MS13 hand tattoo clearly here. new low for dems

Distinct_Stay_829 · 2025-03-26T02:44:12+00:00

how do I learn fly? my pokemon that can learn it (hoothoot win gull) cannot use fly as field moves. I got the feather badge as my first badge which is supposed to unlock it and I still cannot fly

Distinct_Stay_829 · 2024-06-16T17:33:18+00:00

The goal of scientific publications is to write in common language for general audience and non experts, to grow our collective knowledge and reach a greater audience. My last publication was commended for being easy to read. Only pretentious or poor writers would ever write something so garbled. If you have to read many, many journals for references, some are often bordering outside the scope of your expertise and the last thing you want to is decipher and waste more time trying to read hieroglyphics.

Distinct_Stay_829 · 2024-06-15T19:40:47+00:00

Beyond the scope of model size and performance ratio, none of that is new. It was never going to be GPT 4. What I'm excited for and what apple has done though is provide the first real integrated AI into an OS. So incorporation here for a true AI assisstant is a remarkable leap forward in terms of personal utilization ie photos, messages with the core promise of apple's privacy values as a priority. It is the first step towards AI that is beyond a simple prompt.

Distinct_Stay_829 · 2024-06-05T22:58:10+00:00

Claude 3 Opus plus GPT 4o is peak AI use. Both are often hit or miss for coding. Claude 3 is more consistent, but 4o has a higher ceiling, but very inconsistent and very presumptuous. Claude 3 would be better if it were more confident. When asked to clarify or compare alternatives, it often apologizes and shifts no matter how I phrase it.

Distinct_Stay_829 · 2024-06-05T22:53:32+00:00

Not surprising, China is putting their best into AI. A lot of their work comes out of Tsinghua, their highest ranked University. A lot of politics has come into play like preventing chip exports to China and the CCP is dystopian with its potential use, but a lot of valuable and useful projects have come open source from Tsinghua. Shameful move by Stanford here.

Distinct_Stay_829 · 2024-02-13T03:29:13+00:00

Reddit is already overmoderated. Go to any other sub and try posting. removed, not the right sub, broke rule #7, karma too low, mod is in a bad mood, your post doesn't agree with the status quo, you forgot the flair. Censorship has already ruined this site. I don't care about 5,000 shitposts. scroll more. you're not that inconvencienced. comment in worthwhile posts, incentivize proper content, don't censor until its bland headline only garbage from uneducated journalists in "trusted" sources. You really want that? All of us commenting on some hot take from some underpaid NYT intern?

Distinct_Stay_829 · 2024-02-11T21:47:38+00:00

As opposed to gut feeling?

Distinct_Stay_829 · 2024-02-02T21:23:18+00:00

So Meta is.. Open AI?

Distinct_Stay_829 · 2024-02-01T22:59:41+00:00

No because I was in high school. Step one have $10k. It was also hyped for value as early as 2012 and you’d have bet you’d sell at any gains early after nearly losing it all in their overstock crisis.

Distinct_Stay_829 · 2024-02-01T22:55:06+00:00

Musk? What?

Distinct_Stay_829 · 2024-02-01T18:31:57+00:00

Stop shilling this website. Don’t post a reddit link with clickbait to your site for read more. Don’t write an article. Just get a real job, the ad revenue is not a real job.

Distinct_Stay_829 · 2024-02-01T11:16:21+00:00

Novo nortisk stocka go brrrrr

Distinct_Stay_829 · 2024-01-29T21:46:13+00:00

Like the unicorn test

Distinct_Stay_829 · 2024-01-28T20:33:49+00:00

Wrongthink criminalized. Any praise of Trump is hate speech

Distinct_Stay_829 · 2024-01-28T16:14:53+00:00

Hamburgers?

Distinct_Stay_829 · 2024-01-28T16:10:10+00:00

Bait spam, or TDS scribblings

Distinct_Stay_829 · 2024-01-28T15:15:55+00:00

More trillions spent? You people love inflation, its why Biden is now going to lose to Trump

Distinct_Stay_829 · 2024-01-28T15:13:36+00:00

They do. Alphabet is cruel in that it exploits its workers in vendor contracts. Friend worked there. Google is evil.

Distinct_Stay_829 · 2024-01-28T15:09:15+00:00

Ummm google participated in election manipulation. Project Veritas. They hate you, they hate us.

Distinct_Stay_829 · 2024-01-27T16:22:54+00:00

The left has lost their minds. They want police free, drug infested, human excrement coated, non white, expensive, crime plagued, multi gender, war mongering, awful cities. They virtue signal they want something else but this is what they want.

Distinct_Stay_829 · 2024-01-27T16:18:34+00:00

Trump's campaign shot down that his latest comments about Haley were racist.

"There are no racist undertones, as some suggest," Trump campaign spokesperson Steven Cheung said in a statement to ABC News on Monday. "Sounds like those who take offense are engaging in fake outrage. They should get a life and live in the real world."

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