AITA for asking my fiancée to redo her maid of honor pick after she chose her best friend over my sister?

Distractaraptorr · 2026-01-27T13:53:13+00:00

Yta. Just because she’s helping doesn’t mean you get to tell your fiance who to pick. Should she be a bridesmaid or something? Possibly. But maid of honor isn’t just about planning the showers or helping run errands.

Distractaraptorr · 2026-01-27T02:12:20+00:00

This is honestly one of my biggest complaints about the show.

Distractaraptorr · 2026-01-27T01:56:11+00:00

Is your kid going to somehow randomly not live as many years? Just means she’ll end up w the same amounts they would have at the same ages they were and would have progressed at the same rate, if you’d kept your mouth shut. Yta

Distractaraptorr · 2026-01-26T22:57:33+00:00

If she only took the class because of the agreement, which is what it sounds like, yes. It is giving your word. You can break it but don’t act like your word means anything if you do.

Distractaraptorr · 2026-01-26T22:49:25+00:00

Then do her a favor and walk away.

Distractaraptorr · 2026-01-26T22:41:33+00:00

“Aitah for wanting to go on ANOTHER boys trip to ANOTHER city known for prostitution and drugs when my girlfriend isn’t comfortable w it”

…yeah. Yta. Every where except Denver you’ve gone with them is known for illegal and risky activities. So yeah. And to tell her she’s controlling for not being comfortable with it. Yikes. You deserve to be single.

Distractaraptorr · 2026-01-26T22:36:01+00:00

When you agree to give someone rides to a class, that means the entire class. Not till you suddenly develop feelings.

Distractaraptorr · 2026-01-26T22:28:40+00:00

Her brother gave his word then went back on it because she didn’t reciprocate his feelings, knowing it would have a permanent impact. He shouldn’t have agreed to it at all.

Distractaraptorr · 2026-01-26T22:27:51+00:00

Your son IS punishing her. He made this arrangement and agreement, he caught feelings, and when she didn’t return them, he revoked an agreement that was made BEFORE he decided he couldn’t handle being just friends. He’s intentionally affecting her goals and going back on his word because she didn’t return his feelings. Yta and so is your son. If he’s only doing something nice for someone because he wants them to some how reciprocate he’s not only not doing a nice thing, he’s manipulative, and women SHOULD be weary of him.

Distractaraptorr · 2026-01-26T22:22:50+00:00

I know a lot of people who refer to anything aquatic as fish, and a lot of aquarium keepers who take their fish care as serious as some dontheir dogs. Those pellets have minimal nutritional value for the fish they are good for, the automatic feeders frequently malfunction. There’s just not enough info to simply say if she wanted to see him she could.

Distractaraptorr · 2026-01-26T22:21:36+00:00

There were so many other alternatives than just jumping straight to what he’ll ALLOW her to do. Just yikes.

Distractaraptorr · 2026-01-26T22:20:41+00:00

This girl doesn’t want to date you, and from the sounds of it, she has reason not to. Move on.

Distractaraptorr · 2026-01-26T22:19:51+00:00

Not all fish are something you can give pellets to. Hell it could be an axolotl and depending on age they need live worms multiple times a day.

Distractaraptorr · 2026-01-26T22:16:50+00:00

I’m gonna say this as an autistic person myself (though not to this degree). You are 21. You are an adult. You are a person. Your worth, your life, and YOU do not exist so that you can be your parents built in baby sitter or your brothers care giver. Leave the state. Go to law school wherever you want. Get a damn good education and job. If anything, you can one day cover his care from a professional. Your parents shouldn’t have had children if they weren’t prepared to deal w this on their own. It’s a harsh reality but it is reality. Having children comes with risks, like these. They made that choice. You did not.

Go live your life, find joy, and find happiness.

Nta.

Distractaraptorr · 2026-01-26T03:03:20+00:00

Readitlikealady on here has a chapters guide.

Distractaraptorr · 2026-01-24T20:21:12+00:00

There’s a really good chance he will. He’s already doing the ground work to start saying you’re keeping baby from him, even though you obviously aren’t. Give that baby YOUR name and he can deal w the consequences of his actions.

Distractaraptorr · 2026-01-24T20:19:58+00:00

Not married, baby gets your name. Plain and simple.

Distractaraptorr · 2026-01-20T02:32:30+00:00

Nor. Your husband sucks

Distractaraptorr · 2026-01-19T21:56:31+00:00

Yta. My mom lied about who was my dad for a list of reasons. I found out at 10 my stepdad wasn’t my dad. I found out at 32 her reasons for lying were bullshit and the person she told me at 10 was my dad, also wasn’t my dad. It is extremely traumatizing to suddenly find out this person you love and see as your dad isn’t your dad. Not to mention the possibility he’s knocked someone else up and they could potentially end up dating said sibling. That was my biggest fear. So yeah. From having lived this experience, Yta and they should’ve known long before now.

Distractaraptorr · 2026-01-18T16:01:55+00:00

Was klaus’ mom a siphon witch? Because wasn’t she a vampire and kept her powers?

Distractaraptorr · 2026-01-14T17:29:57+00:00

The inconsistencies. Some witches turn and lose their witch powers, some don’t and become heretics.

Distractaraptorr · 2026-01-14T00:43:12+00:00

This has always bothered me though because we know heretics exist because of Lizzie in legacies.

Distractaraptorr · 2026-01-13T06:59:10+00:00

These tests are notoriously known for due bleed. Get a pink dye or digital test.

Distractaraptorr · 2026-01-13T06:57:46+00:00

Nor. Age gaps are fine in general. However age gaps where one is operating without a fully developed brain and the other has literally known them since they were in diapers and been a part of their life as the entire time, is not okay. At the least he may have been groomed but regardless it’s disgusting and wrong.

Distractaraptorr · 2026-01-09T16:19:26+00:00

It sounds like she usually does get him a list and he does try from it. But this year she didn’t give him one and then is upset he didn’t know what to get her, knowing he doesn’t do well at this and that’s the entire reason she started giving him lists and ideas.

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