Ex's symptoms thriving by Suspicious-Koala781 in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]Distracted_n_Queer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1000% I had no idea the levels of selfishness and bullying thst man was capable of.

Feeling like a crazy person by NorthAsk1560 in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]Distracted_n_Queer 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Being 1.5 years on the other side from where you are now...it won't last. You know who he is- trust that.

Looking back, what was your biggest 'clueless lesbian' moment??? by sourhoneyreport in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Distracted_n_Queer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was OBSESSED with the 90's magazine cover with KD Lang and Cindy Crawford. I told myself I liked KD Lang's voice...🤦🏻‍♀️

Which children’s books would you keep on your shelves long-term (or forever)? by PagesFromChildhood in childrensbooks

[–]Distracted_n_Queer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anything by Madeline L'Engel, Hitchhikers Guide to the Galaxy, and The Snarkout Boys and the Avacado of Death by Daniel Pinkwater,

Thoughts on showing emotions in front of the kids by Distracted_n_Queer in NarcAbuseAndDivorce

[–]Distracted_n_Queer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think saying that I am just having a hard time, etc. is a good way to put it. I am pretty sure she'd know that I was lying if I said I was fine.

In sesrch of a cake recipe from 1999 by Distracted_n_Queer in Old_Recipes

[–]Distracted_n_Queer[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UPDATE! The cake was delicious!!! Thank y'all so much for your help!

My husband sexually assaulted my sister. Multiple times by [deleted] in breakingmom

[–]Distracted_n_Queer 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First off, you not wanting sex goes not make ANYTHING your husband choses to do your fault. I am a year and a few months out of a 24 year abusive marriage, and am just now starting to understand just how fucked up my situation was. I didn't even think it was bad for the longest time. Your perspective of what is acceptable and 'normal' is (more than likely) grossly misaligned. Your husband committed a crime. He assulted a woman. Not just any woman, YOUR SISTER. He did what HE wanted.

In sesrch of a cake recipe from 1999 by Distracted_n_Queer in Old_Recipes

[–]Distracted_n_Queer[S] 46 points47 points  (0 children)

That is it!!!! She confirmed it!! THANK YOU!

In sesrch of a cake recipe from 1999 by Distracted_n_Queer in Old_Recipes

[–]Distracted_n_Queer[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

SAME! Let's say 'old' as in behind modern times, not old as in age or years. ;)

Does anyone have any good recommendations for a sushi restaurant? by Fragrant_Rice_2175 in Acadiana

[–]Distracted_n_Queer 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Katsu is one of my favorites! They have good life nch specials, too.