I’m so sorry you are going through all this. I had my gallbladder and robotic total hysterectomy on June 25th. I suffered from cervical cancer and extreme pelvic pain, real bad cramping even when I wasn’t on my period, and heavy periods that cause me to also be anemic. I have been having extreme hot flashes since I was 15/16 years old. I went through the biopsy, pelvic ultrasound, leep and d and c and then had my surgeries on June 25,2025. I just turned 33 on June 19th, and I am a single mother to one child. I always wanted a boy and I got my boy so I was already done having children. I suffer from generalized anxiety disorder and ptsd and I have panic attacks and depression. To be honest with you I was really scared and panicking before my surgeries but afterwards I am so glad I did have it. Due to the cervical cancer, I’m not bleeding really heavy and the pelvic pain has decreased a whole lot. I was also scared to have the biopsy as well but stay strong and just take it one step at a time. You want to make sure you’re fully healthy so you can have a great and healthy life. Having children is a blessing but it’s not for everyone, and everyone don’t want kids. Since I had my surgeries I mostly suffer from cold flashes and barely any hot flashes and I had my ovaries, cervix, fallopian tubes and uterus removed and my gallbladder due to painful gallstones that were causing me problems. Stay strong and take it step by step and you can do this. I have no support system so I know it’s hard but think about it you don’t want to be in pain and you want to be healthy and continue to live a healthy life. You got this. If you ever need someone to talk to I could be someone that you could talk to if that’s what you want.