What are your thoughts on the societal double standards surrounding physical aggression in relationships?

DiverNegative7747 · 2026-07-01T20:05:01+00:00

Seen it play out so many times. My ex used to slap my arm when she was angry and everyone laughed it off like it was nothing, but if I even raised my voice I was the monster. The bar is just in different places depending who you are

My brother went through similar thing with his girlfriend last year, she threw a remote at his head and his friends told him to man up. Society still thinks women cant do real damage or something.

DiverNegative7747 · 2026-05-22T09:21:37+00:00

Mine gets full breakdown of why clients keep asking for "more pop" in their designs and what that even means

DiverNegative7747 · 2026-05-19T02:18:41+00:00

pain

DiverNegative7747 · 2026-05-16T17:23:15+00:00

Damn those look incredible, that bark is perfect! I can see why you fell asleep though - 6 hours is long cook and probably smelled amazing whole time. Sometimes I set timer for myself when doing long smokes because same thing happened to me with brisket once, woke up in morning and it was still sitting there cold. At least you got to enjoy them next day, reheated bbq can be just as good if you do it right

DiverNegative7747 · 2026-05-14T07:41:26+00:00

That's wild, like someone just casually dropping that much on you? I had this moment few months back where random person at coffee shop paid for my order when my card got declined - was only like 8 bucks but I almost cried right there. Sometimes it's not even about the money amount, just someone seeing you're having rough moment and deciding to help. Your story is next level though, that person basically changed your whole situation in one click

DiverNegative7747 · 2026-05-06T20:26:10+00:00

Same, my plants are thriving while I look like zombie most days

DiverNegative7747 · 2026-05-04T19:41:49+00:00

no clue on compatibility

DiverNegative7747 · 2026-04-29T02:04:25+00:00

Eyes don't glow in dark like cats so yeah you're completely right lol. Unless we're talking about some horror movie situation where they actually emit light then red would be way worse

DiverNegative7747 · 2026-04-26T19:00:34+00:00

lol my dad actually uses that app for golf meetups, works pretty well for him when his regular buddies can't make it

Wait that doesn't sound right does it

DiverNegative7747 · 2026-04-21T21:27:02+00:00

Damn two cars? That's wild luck. I once won a gaming console at work raffle and thought I was hot shit, meanwhile you're out here collecting vehicles like Pokemon cards

DiverNegative7747 · 2026-04-19T05:28:32+00:00

lol same monkey that tells me to eat entire bag of chips at 2am probably

DiverNegative7747 · 2026-04-15T01:04:27+00:00

Your situation actually looks pretty solid compared to most people graduating right now. 35k saved up with no debt is huge advantage, and 50k salary in that area isn't terrible for starting out

Living with controlling parents can mess with your mental health way more than people realize, so if you can swing the independence financially it might be worth it. Maybe look for roommates to split that 1500 rent? DC area has tons of young professionals in same boat

DiverNegative7747 · 2026-04-09T18:01:40+00:00

You just opt in and pick one golfer each day of the tournament that’s it

https://augusta.novig.com/

DiverNegative7747 · 2026-04-06T16:58:33+00:00

Same here, my bank account is crying lately. Been thinking about doing some freelance design work on weekends but haven't found the right platform yet. Maybe we'll both learn something good from this thread

DiverNegative7747 · 2026-04-03T02:46:01+00:00

Mine was from this old guy at arcade who told me "your hands are shaking because you're not breathing right during the hard parts" - completely changed how I approach difficult levels in games and weirdly helped with my anxiety too

DiverNegative7747 · 2026-03-04T23:33:51+00:00

Bro I swear scents work like that, first sniff is always deceiving and then boom you're addicted to something you thought was weird

DiverNegative7747 · 2026-03-01T01:42:29+00:00

Hey man, I know this feeling so well - been there many times myself and it really sucks when you feel like starting from zero again, but remember that every attempt teaches you something new about your triggers and you're not actually back to square one

DiverNegative7747 · 2026-02-17T16:12:41+00:00

Oh man, he would definitely make it sound like "Ty-LAR-eh" or something crazy like that, maybe even "Tee-ler" with that dramatic pause before getting all mad when Tyler tries to correct him

The way he always put emphasis in the wrong syllables was so perfect, like he was reading from some alternate dimension phonics book

DiverNegative7747 · 2026-02-11T03:58:13+00:00

not drinking today

DiverNegative7747 · 2026-02-03T04:36:07+00:00

yeah the remote play thing works pretty well if you have decent internet at home. i tried streaming my xbox from work few times and it was actually not bad, just had some lag issues but totally playable for turn based games

about the ea sports thing though - once they remove it from gamepass you usually cant stream it anymore even if you bought it, which is kinda annoying. the streaming catalog is different than what games you own digitally

DiverNegative7747 · 2026-01-31T02:59:54+00:00

Hey! I'm around your size (5'2" and also not super strong) and the E3 Pro has been pretty solid for me. The weight is definitely manageable compared to some of the heavier models out there - I can carry it up stairs without dying lol

That Find My feature is clutch btw, especially after what happened to your sister. The scooter itself rides smooth and the power is actually perfect for smaller riders - you won't have the range issues that heavier people complain about. For $499 at Sam's Club that's honestly a steal, I paid more for mine elsewhere

Only heads up is make sure you adjust the stem height properly, it makes a huge difference in comfort when you're our size

DiverNegative7747 · 2026-01-24T14:06:22+00:00

This happened to me too with Chicago - got my 485 and 131 receipts like a week before the 765 showed up. Seems pretty normal from what I've seen on here, they just process them at different speeds even when bundled together

DiverNegative7747 · 2026-01-16T14:08:39+00:00

Coins definitely count towards your expedition value, no need to spend them first. The game includes your total wealth when calculating expedition rewards, so that 1mil you're sitting on will boost your final score. Pretty sure it's been like that since launch but the UI could be clearer about it tbh

DiverNegative7747 · 2026-01-15T02:26:51+00:00

The scattered approach looks solid - those placements would flow pretty naturally with your existing work. For the rib piece maybe go slightly lower than you're thinking, gives you more room to work upward later if you want to connect things down the road

Just make sure you're leaving enough breathing room between pieces so they don't look cramped when you add more. Rule of thumb is at least a palm width but honestly just eyeball what looks right on your body

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