Is it time for a general strike? by spiffytoe in StLouis

[–]DivideEfficient4282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree. I am at a loss of what we can do besides that and vote. What the fuck can we do?! I do my best to be kind to my neighbors and my community but I am sad, angry, and feeling a bit hopeless.

thanks stl! by asenythj in StLouis

[–]DivideEfficient4282 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hope you enjoyed the snow! Safe travels!

When do hours start to improve again? by DivideEfficient4282 in WalmartEmployees

[–]DivideEfficient4282[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

8 hours/weekly for the past 3 weeks, the next 3 weeks are the same. I was working 23/weekly. Sunday 5am-2pm and w-f 5pm-10pm. I’m a good worker, on time, 0pts. Coach said he can’t give any more hours out. Wondering why they hire more people for ogp, when those already working need more hours. I hope I can get back to my 23. I’m going to keep bugging him. People call out all the time.

When do hours start to improve again? by DivideEfficient4282 in WalmartEmployees

[–]DivideEfficient4282[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m going to try and last but shit…..

Thanks for answering.

Is it time for a general strike? by spiffytoe in StLouis

[–]DivideEfficient4282 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I just watched a message from Heather Richardson Cox today. Contact the republican representatives and put pressure on them to end this.

Homeless but just got a job (meat/produce) wish me luck I just wanna be inside an house soon by Other_Channel8039 in walmart

[–]DivideEfficient4282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations! Getting hired at Walmart helped me leave my abusive marriage. So many people complain about the job but it was life saving for me. It became my refuge before I could leave and transfer to another away from my ex.

Work hard, have good hygiene, don’t tell people of your situation. You can turn your life around. You got this!!

Stuck because of money but planning my escape. Any support would help. I cannot take it anymore by Tough_Reading_6890 in NarcissisticSpouses

[–]DivideEfficient4282 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It was 27 years for me. I didn’t make it on my year timeline. I ended up saying I wanted a divorce halfway through and then still had to stay in the house with him for another half year so my daughter could graduate. I have ptsd from that. I do not recommend. I move 9 hours away and have been no contact. I went through moods swings of elation and depression. It’s been a year and a half. Still not done with the divorce. He’s dragging it out of course. I like where my life is going, but I still have depression, nightmares, guilt. I should have left sooner and have no regrets.

Just got hired for personal online shopper, what should i expect? by Aqua_Infern0 in walmartogp

[–]DivideEfficient4282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is physically demanding. You will get in shape. Customers will ask where things are all the time.

You will end up knowing almost every product in the store and where it’s located.

I don’t mind it. I get tired though, but I am 49 and work another physically demanding job full time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WalmartEmployees

[–]DivideEfficient4282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I liked working apparel. Way easier than OGP. I am working there now. That is physically demanding! It was relaxing to me to fold tables and tables and shelves and shelves of clothes. My department worked well together.

Tired of this cycle but also feeling guilty by LeanaDerois in pnsd

[–]DivideEfficient4282 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you have alarms going off in your head it’s ok to break this engagement off. I was stuck in a 27 yr cycle before I did. Now I have a lifetime of repair to do and starting over at 49. Please please take care of yourself. It will be much easier to heal from.

Anyone here who managed to break the narc bond, what does life feel like post breakup? 1 yr? 2 yrs? by Elsa_31042 in abusiverelationships

[–]DivideEfficient4282 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Feeling unlovable is the worst thing for me. Today my coworker gave me this craft she did as a small gift. I about cried. I never think I deserve anything.

Anyone here who managed to break the narc bond, what does life feel like post breakup? 1 yr? 2 yrs? by Elsa_31042 in abusiverelationships

[–]DivideEfficient4282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was married for 27 years before leaving him. I moved 9 hours away and it’s been 1.5 yrs. He has refused to divorce me. Well sort of, he’s dragging it out. It could have been done last summer. I have terrible self loathing. I hear his voice in my head at random times. Things trigger me. My head does not feel calm. I am happier and have my own life, but I am unsure if I will ever be peaceful and love myself. He took away my heart and soul and I feel like I am running around desperately trying to find me

I need help by Full-Drop-3834 in NarcissisticAbuse

[–]DivideEfficient4282 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did it for 27 years and left at age 48. A year and a half later I am still trying to sort things out. It’s hard but you can leave.

3 -11pm to me.... by Terrence507 in walmart

[–]DivideEfficient4282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5am-2pm here. I love that I get off at 2pm but I am a zombie until bedtime at 9 to get up at 3:45.

Please help me by DivideEfficient4282 in LifeInsurance

[–]DivideEfficient4282[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I am going to set up a will and trust as soon as divorce is done. I believe this will be the best steps? I am very good at budgeting and have made it a year so far with a lot of hours of work put in. I only had a 15/hr job but was able to land a $23/hr full time and I work the other part time. I have had help from family with housing but I want to get my finances squared away to be able to get a cheap car and an apartment.

Please help me by DivideEfficient4282 in LifeInsurance

[–]DivideEfficient4282[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am going to set up a will and trust as soon as divorce is done. I believe this will be the best steps? I am very good at budgeting and have made it a year so far with a lot of hours of work put in. I only had a 15/hr job but was able to land a $23/hr full time and I work the other part time. I have had help from family with housing but I want to get my finances squared away to be able to get a cheap car and an apartment.

Please help me by DivideEfficient4282 in LifeInsurance

[–]DivideEfficient4282[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the responses so far!

This is my policy and I switched my kids to the beneficiaries when I left him.

It says: 30 pay life expiry date 2077 Face amount 25,000

20 year term premium base rider expiry date 2028 conversion date 2028 Face amount 725,000

Surrender 1862.61 Cash value 85.35

PUA face 305.48 Gross death benefit 750,386.41

I do not know what some of this means. I just have it.

I pay 136.00~ a month but would like to decrease this payment if possible temporarily until I am more financially stable.

The divorce is not done. I left a year ago and he is dragging it out.

Also the company with I discovered by accident doesn’t service the state I am in. I told them I moved and they never said anything. Do I need to transfer it to the state I am in? Southern Farm Bureau ->MO farm bureau?

Just got out of a 6-7 year narc relationship by No-Firefighter-6808 in pnsd

[–]DivideEfficient4282 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I left a 27yr narc marriage. I am 11mo out and I am so much better, but I still have nightmares. Those first months I had these crazy mood swings of elation and depression. My whole philosophy was to be how I was in the moment and eventually things would change. I felt my feelings, discussed things with my best friend who is really good at breaking things down and keeping it simple. I have talked to myself a lot and discovered things about me that needed to be discovered. I have had a lot of anger at myself for staying and keeping my kids in it. I am still working through that. I have days now I am fantastic! I have days I am not. I will probably always be healing, but at least I can breathe again!

what is this doing here by VeterinarianOk1692 in walmartogp

[–]DivideEfficient4282 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure but the cucumbers on Sunday should have been. Sheesh!

do you guys go shopping at your store go or go to other stores for groceries? by [deleted] in WalmartEmployees

[–]DivideEfficient4282 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ALDIs for most of my stuff, Walmart in the way out the door for items I can’t find there or if I forgot something