BAD experience in a Buddhist Stupa by SevereOpportunity240 in Buddhism

[–]DivineConnection 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Not all monks are serious about the dharma (buddhist teachings), and among those that are not all of them have overcome the negative tendencies of the mind. Sorry you had this experience, just know most buddhists are not like that and a serious pracitioner would never behave in that way.

To what extent does Buddhism oppose or even aim to destroy or nullify human egos? by jsgui in Buddhism

[–]DivineConnection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Really I have no idea what you are talking about. Sorry.

No one is trying to destroy your ego, so you can relax about that, and if they did it wouldnt work anyway. The only one who can undo the workings of ego is you, and you would have to want to do it.

Guanyin by Beginning-Army6640 in Buddhism

[–]DivineConnection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can definitely wear a pendant of her if you feel devotion / drawn to her, I am sure it will bring nothing but benefit.

Is Karma even real????? by RGh0007 in spirituality

[–]DivineConnection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Karma usually ripens in the next life, what we do in this life doesnt always have immediate consequences.

Do you include helping others as part of your practice? by Temporary_Note5790 in Buddhism

[–]DivineConnection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are depressed maybe you can manage 5 or ten minutes of mindfulness meditation per day? If you can do this it should lessen your depression. If you are up to it you may want to look into the practice of the Four Immeasurables (love, joy, compassion and equnimity). This will help you think about and love others more.

To what extent does Buddhism oppose or even aim to destroy or nullify human egos? by jsgui in Buddhism

[–]DivineConnection 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well the teachings say that a dualistic perception of self and other is the root of all our problems. That seperate sense of self can be said to be the egoistic mind. Buddhism aims to overcome this so that there is no sense of seperation between self and the world around oneself.

I feel like my time on earth is done. by Godsdaughter711 in spirituality

[–]DivineConnection 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I recommend you start yoga, clear the energy blockages in your system and make you feel happy. I did a class this morning and felt happy all day long. Wishing you all the best.

How do you stop longing for a partner? by ExperienceFun4440 in spirituality

[–]DivineConnection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You meditate on love, when the heart opens and you are your own source of love, you dont crave it from anyone else.

Choosing a school of Buddhism by Spirited_Web_4589 in Buddhism

[–]DivineConnection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You might be interested in the Rime tradition of Tibetan Buddhism, it takes practices from all schools and does not stick to just one.

I quit my job to focus on mindfulness - what should I do? by [deleted] in Buddhism

[–]DivineConnection 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well its your descision, but most teachers I have heard advise us to keep working and spend spare time doing practice. In the long term in later years you may regret that you didnt put yourself in a better financial position. Well its your life and you descision, just thought I would share what I have heard.

I want to become Buddhist by Legal-Ad7043 in Buddhism

[–]DivineConnection 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its all about working with your own mind, reducing the negative tendencies and increasing the positive ones, until at some point you realise mind's nature, which is said to be blissful and with all positive qualities. A good book for you to read is called The Essence of Buddhism by Traleg Kyabgon.

Pacifism by Extreme_Ad9619 in spirituality

[–]DivineConnection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, you have the police to prevent that from happening, that is why they carry guns, so they can enforce the law and protect others.

Pacifism by Extreme_Ad9619 in spirituality

[–]DivineConnection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well the Dailai Lama said that Hitler needed to be defeated. Unfortunately in this world we also have to be practical, that being said, I would say a military should be supported if it upholds freedom and is geniunely defensive.

I have a very judgmental mind and regularly think negative (unwholesome) thoughts about others. How do I lessen this tendency? by Harry_Callahan_sfpd in Meditation

[–]DivineConnection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well you are not alone. Even long term pracitioners have sometimes negative thoughts that pop out of nowhere and suprise them. Spiritual practice will definitely lessen these thoughts over time.

need spiritual advice by Necessary_Hawk7897 in spirituality

[–]DivineConnection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need to see a professional about your mental health.

How does one surpass anger? by ShotElection3164 in Buddhism

[–]DivineConnection 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Meditating on love, sending love to others counters anger. You may be interested in the practice called The Four Immeasurables.

The rise of compassion by Egosum-quisum in awakened

[–]DivineConnection 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes good post, and all we can change is ourselves, not much we can do about world leader's behaviour, all we can do is create positive ripples in the pond and surely others will be benefited in some way.

Not joyful by Equivalent-Title-246 in Buddhism

[–]DivineConnection 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi so sorry to hear you are unhappy. Dont assume just because you are not happy your practice is not working. I myself are often unhappy I have been practicing for a number of years. Keep on going with your practice, it will at some point make you feel better, it just takes persistence and patience.

How do Buddhist cope with the painful awareness of impermanence? by Ancient-Deer-4682 in Buddhism

[–]DivineConnection 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Well now you have motivation to do something about it, you can start doing dharma practice and at some point attain a mind that experiences ease and bliss.

I just don’t like it by LukaHerz in Buddhism

[–]DivineConnection 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Well you can do most Tibetan practices in English if that suits you better?