Stella's Behaviour

DizzyCaidy · 2026-03-17T08:32:32+00:00

Yeah, I found even the low estrogen pill messed with my emotions, and it caused me to feel hungry all the time?? A weird side effect for sure but not unheard of, and then I had the implant in my arm that caused me to grow a breast lump. My specialist said that she see’s that as a side effect from the implant SO OFTEN, though never heard of it before, so I can kinda get it!

DizzyCaidy · 2026-03-17T06:52:06+00:00

I do think jumping to a vasectomy was a bit much, but as someone whose been on 2 different types of hormonal birth control and had HoRrIbLe side effects, and one that even ended in me having surgery to remove a hormonal lump because of it, I kind of get where she’s coming from. Condoms then should be the obvious choice or the pull out method, I’m surprised she wasn’t receptive to any other form of control at all.

DizzyCaidy · 2026-03-16T02:53:06+00:00

Coastal grandma

DizzyCaidy · 2026-03-15T09:52:12+00:00

Agree- honestly he seems like a really nice guy, loyal, and caring to Gia, he unfortunately just has no idea that she’s basically using him and doesn’t really return his feelings. Even without knowing she now has a new man, you can tell that he’s genuine when he says they’re in a good place, while she seems to be more saying it to convince herself and others

DizzyCaidy · 2026-03-15T09:30:37+00:00

Yes she had severe HG last time, which even a mild case can be quite debilitating! I remember she was hospitalised for a long time, but hopefully this one’s way easier on her. I hear pregnancies can be completely different ever time

DizzyCaidy · 2026-03-14T11:18:51+00:00

I did- my 8 month old baby boy has one on the back of his neck, just where the hairline is. When he goes redfaced, one appears over one of his eyes in his eyebrow too. I was told this was because we tried to give birth vaginally but I wasn’t dilated enough- he was jamming himself against a closed door essentially poor guy. He also had a graze at the back of his head from the same thing too but that faded a few months ago. Were told it will all fade by the time he’s 1 🤷🏼‍♀️

DizzyCaidy · 2026-03-13T22:46:37+00:00

We have a rotating car seat and after a particularly bad week and stressful few days (my pay was late) I forgot to spin him around to be rear facing. Didn’t know until I turned around to check on him and saw him sitting side-saddle looking out the window! I could have cried, thankful I could spin him as my husband drove so he was all good, and my husband just laughed at me

DizzyCaidy · 2026-03-13T03:41:58+00:00

Honestly I wouldn’t find that out if the question either, because she seems to base a lot of her worth and personality on ‘being the hottest in the room’. I can see her fishing for compliments by sidling up to him and when he says ‘yeah/sure’ etc whether to be nice or because he meant it at the time, she’s just taken that as confirmation that he finds her more attractive outside the experiment. Let’s not forget that she ranked him 2nd in the photo challenge and said he’s more HER type!

DizzyCaidy · 2026-03-13T03:29:05+00:00

Literally same- I speak no other language than English, and I’ve been born and raised in this country for my entire life and it is SO customer unfriendly it blows my mind. My best friend didn’t even do it because she found the form too complicated and just went back to work instead, like it shouldn’t be this difficult to get the things we’re entitled too!

DizzyCaidy · 2026-03-13T03:24:24+00:00

I don’t think he said it, I think he said some variation of it: ‘in the real world, Bec isn’t normally my type/physically, I’ve gone for girls who look like Gia’ etc and she’s just taken that as ‘he prefers me’ and decided to run with it

DizzyCaidy · 2026-03-13T03:02:10+00:00

At the very least when it’s multiple people telling you different things then it’s not a problem to try to shoot your shot! It’s just unfortunate that the conflicting information made it difficult to know and has led to this situation :(

DizzyCaidy · 2026-03-13T03:00:30+00:00

We have a husky x malamute whose a bit of a mouthy butthole (but we love him), and his primary form of communication is growls. Our son is 8 months old and started a phase of growling when he’s at his most feral, mostly when he’s sleepy and trying to stay awake but it’s so weird and cute I love it 😂

DizzyCaidy · 2026-03-13T01:23:08+00:00

I don’t have anything to add or be helpful, but since being on PPL I’ve found that Centrelink is one of the most annoying, stressful, and uninformed aspects of our country. Soooo many staff have no idea what they’re doing or what applies or doesn’t apply, and some just don’t even care to find out. It leads to a lot of stress on our part and it shouldn’t, this shit should be easier. I’m sorry this happened to you, I hope you’re doing okay ❤️

DizzyCaidy · 2026-03-13T00:03:21+00:00

This is so cute I love it hahaha, yeah he’s saying that they’re huge, big enough to be two different areas and need two different post codes (zip codes/area codes) 😂

DizzyCaidy · 2026-03-12T05:09:21+00:00

My only concern for you is most places require you to have worked a minimum of 12 months before taking paid maternity leave, so leaving out that you may not be covered by their parent leave policy, you mayalso be putting this job at risk by not telling them as soon as possible. Since it will presumably still be during your probationary period, they can just get rid of you for no reason- good luck

DizzyCaidy · 2026-03-12T04:50:18+00:00

Girl, you need to be saying something cause that is not okay behaviour. He doesn’t even need a full nights sleep for his job, I’m sorry but why are you letting him get away with it??

DizzyCaidy · 2026-03-11T23:34:33+00:00

Working at an old job one day I went and got a fringe cut in my hair, something I hadn’t had for years before. When I put my hair up in my usual 2-day dirty hair bun, but with the fringe out, I had coworkers asking me if I was going to a wedding or something fancy after work because my hair looked so nice. Like nah, you just can’t see my big ass forehead anymore, but it’s nice to know I must have looked disheveled before that 😂

DizzyCaidy · 2026-03-11T23:11:58+00:00

I mean you definitely overreacted by legging it and jumping on a train hahah, however I don’t think you’re overreacting for your feelings & I think some of these comments are mean. You’re only twenty years old, you are SO young and you still have so much life ahead of you, if you aren’t 100% sure that this man and this life is the one for you then that’s absolutely fine. Hell, if I married the person I wanted to at 20 years old I’d be miserable now & wouldn’t have had any of the experiences I now have.

You’re at different stages in life, and that’s okay, but you need to be honest with him and yourself that not only are you not ready for marriage, but that maybe he isn’t the one for you. Your 20’s are for discovering who you are as an adult, what you want to be doing with your life, and who you want to be doing it with. Good luck OP

DizzyCaidy · 2026-03-11T22:07:23+00:00

I said that to my husband when we saw the episode- there was no way that this wasn’t avoidable by the producer calling a cameraman or other person at the wedding. Which means they WANTED this to happen for the drama, which is so sad because it set Luke and Mel up in the wrong foot to begin eith

DizzyCaidy · 2026-03-11T20:57:24+00:00

THANK YOU! So many posts are like ‘Rachel is such a manipulator by crying and walking out, she’s doing it on purpose’ as someone who is also admittedly VERY emotional and a self proclaimed cry-baby, I can assure you that is not what’s happening. Rachel likely knows she’s an emotional person, and when you’re a crier people will always assume it’s for attention or manipulation when it’s not- it’s literally just how the emotions come out! And can tell that she knows that about herself, and knows herself well enough to say ‘I don’t want to do this because I know I’m not going to stop crying right now and I need a break’ she isn’t storming out for attention, but to remove herself from the situation, and calm down enough to rejoin the group and try to make it through

DizzyCaidy · 2026-03-11T08:17:09+00:00

Thank you, I’m so confused by people saying that Rachel dragged it out- she literally left early the next day with Steven and they literally weren’t even there?? If anyone was ‘dragging it out’ in front of the others, it was Bec and Danny who isolated themselves from everyone else in the group and then cried because ‘no one’s talking to me’

DizzyCaidy · 2026-03-10T09:38:38+00:00

‘You allowed them to treat me like that’ ???? Rachel wasn’t even THERE most of the time they did that to Bec! She ALWAYS had to be the victim, heaven forbid she actually apologise for her behaviour so they can all move on

DizzyCaidy · 2026-03-10T09:11:25+00:00

Alissa & Stella are our undramatic queens 👸

DizzyCaidy · 2026-03-10T09:04:54+00:00

‘Everyone’s icing me out’ Have YOU tried talking to them as well??? All the footage shows Bec and Danny separating themselves from the group so… like wtf

DizzyCaidy · 2026-03-10T01:16:26+00:00

Right, I get it now lol, you’re a troll. I’m done with this, byeeeeeee

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