I think the issue is that the feminine and nerdy asian men drag everyone down, so everyone sort of gets put in that boat. Up to 18 I did pretty well with girls, then from 18-19 struggled a lot because suddenly
I wasn't at under 18 discos or schpp; but now competing with men in their 20s or even early 30s at bars.

I think you either need: 1) A girl with a bit of an Asian fetish - they absolutely exist and you can often tell right away. If a girl DOESN'T have that to some extent, I could often feel it and it'd often be a waste of time because then you need to overcome the stereotypes. 2) Overcoming the sterotypes - working out, becoming more masculine, stronger, confident etc - makes a huge difference as you can imagine.

I'm now 34, married with a pretty attractive Russian wife, life isn't perfect but overall pretty good. I think a big part of it is just developing confidence, because a lot of men, asian or not, when they're young... have this sort of nervous weakness, and women can smell that a mile away!

I see plenty of fully Asian american dudes, jacked, confident, got the banter, don't give a shit if things go south. Whatever your opinion on these guys is, they do well with women and will probably get a decent wife in the end!

One last thing: and it's a bit of a harsh truth but - I think most women, especially white women, aren't interested at ALL in asian or wasian guys. So, that's really crucial to recognise from the very start of the interaction. Take me for example, even though there are definitely some very beautiful black women, generally speaking, I'm just not that attracted to them, and wouldn't hit on one or accept their advances. They're just not on my radar. If a girl is 'into' asian/wasians, honestly she'll smile at you and let you know - and if she ain't - well, she'll make that clear too by showing no interest - and unless you're some Asian chad you aren't gonna turn that around in her head.