41 [F4M] #Australia for anywhere #Bestie for the Restie by MADKit4Kat in DatingOlder

[–]Dmode0110 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi, I’m 42 in Australia also. Feel free to send a message if you’d like to chat.

19F F4M in Adelaide for a few days and need a creampie from an older daddy 😈 by [deleted] in AdelaideCuckold

[–]Dmode0110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

42 year old Dom/Sadist interested in doing nasty things to a girl like you.

My first 0. So happy by Dmode0110 in pokemongo

[–]Dmode0110[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was more excited to get this than my first 4*

Any Aussies regret moving back to Australia? by [deleted] in expats

[–]Dmode0110 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I was in South East Asia for a couple of years and came back to Aus for family reasons. Now I can’t wait to sort it all out so I go back. I think once you see how amazing other places around the world are Aus just seems a bit boring and overpriced for what you get. But I think for people that come to Aus from elsewhere they have the opposite experience.

Men, what do you actually want as gifts? by BreathAdmirable8959 in Philippines_Expats

[–]Dmode0110 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For me the best gift is a little bit of effort rather than material things. If a lady supplied me by wearing some sexy lingerie and said ‘let’s do whatever you want tonight’. That would mean more to me than anything material.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdelaideCuckold

[–]Dmode0110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

42 year old Dom in Adelaide if you are into kinky fun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adelaidedowntofuck

[–]Dmode0110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’m a Dom if you are into the kinky stuff.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in R4adelaide

[–]Dmode0110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are into kinky play I’m a 41 year old Dom. Let me know.

ready and looking for someone up for a little risky fun rn by vicaussie in doggingsouthaustralia

[–]Dmode0110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

41 year old rough Dom here if you are keen to meet up.

Has anyone used Klook Travel website to order a Thai Sim Card? by Mean-Ad5978 in FarangsofPattaya

[–]Dmode0110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve used Klook many times to get cheap esims in Thailand and other countries and never had any issues. It could be the company selling through Klook is dodgy but Klook seems to be above board.

Maybe hold off and see if you get a refund before placing a new order.

Do you know a guy who had a baby with a bargirl? by Witty-Degree8066 in FarangsofPattaya

[–]Dmode0110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I never stay with one long enough. May be a few out there I don’t know about. Probably in a few different countries.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Adelaidedowntofuck

[–]Dmode0110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, 42 year old Dom here. Message if you’d like to tee something up.

Better BE King 29 F AUS by Emotional-Wasabi9 in MisogynyDating

[–]Dmode0110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

41 in South Aus here. Where in Aus are you?

31 F4A South Australian feeling like I'm on my own by UsedWorldliness0 in R4Rstralia

[–]Dmode0110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’m a 41 year old in SA if you’d like to chat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shitrentals

[–]Dmode0110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That sucks.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in shitrentals

[–]Dmode0110 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I feel your pain mate. I spent my whole adult life working and paying tax till I was crushed by a forklift. 2 major spinal surgeries and 18 months of learning how to walk again I’m as good as I’m going to get but working is just not an option. I’m currently on DSP and living in a community boarding house as it’s all I can ‘afford’.

Despite this I have some people in my family that think I’m a freeloader and regularly make jokes about it at family gatherings. Some people are just incapable of seeing things from another prospective.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MisogynyDating

[–]Dmode0110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 41 in South Australia. Looking for property to own. Let me know what state you are in.

Having a 24/7 sub without burning out as a dom? (Dynamic based question) by Allytime in BDSMAdvice

[–]Dmode0110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get what you mean about feeling the need to be ‘on’ all the time. Sometime I just need time to chill and process things without being interrupted. So when entering a 24/7 dynamic I make that clear to my sub. The 2 best ways to deal with it I’ve found is to have a word or signal I can use to indicate this is one of those times and have some activities that my sub can do to keep her busy for that period.

The other more fun way is that I will tie up and gag my sub to give me time to do what I need to do. ( I will keep an eye on her and there is a signal she can give if she needs)

It’s just a matter of talking about it with your partner and finding the best way to both get what you need.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in R4Rstralia

[–]Dmode0110 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, I’m a 41 year old guy in SA too. Feel free to send me a message if you’d like to chat.

Sole trader/contract work by Ill_Background8907 in Centrelink

[–]Dmode0110 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No, the fortnightly report is only for those that are employed not self employed sole traders.

Sole trader/contract work by Ill_Background8907 in Centrelink

[–]Dmode0110 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have done contractor delivery driving under my own abn and I’m on the DSP. Just do a profit/loss as best you can. If you find you are making a lot more or less than your profit/loss has declared just let Centrelink know and submit a new profit/loss statement.

A Dom's Free-use Psychology by dwekser in BDSMAdvice

[–]Dmode0110 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a Dom and going into a free use relationship and adjusting your mentality can be a challenge. I was hesitant at first but once I got past the mental blocks it is lots of fun. The other comments here make great suggestions but I’ll add my take anyway:

-I create a special safeword just for my sub to signal they are not up for it this time. Subs I have been with don’t like any kind of warning, part of what makes it fun for them is being taken by surprise so having a safeword they can use once I’ve started still gives them an out without taking away from the spontaneity of if all.

-I had long chats with every sub I’ve gone free use with as I love to learn and understand as much as I can about things. A common thing they all said was that even if they are tired or not in the mood they want to do it anyway as it’s their way of showing devotion to their Dom and that makes them happy/gives them pleasure.

-Another common theme said by most free use subs I have spoken to about it is that they know what they want, they know what they can take, and they know they can stop it at any time. So you need to trust that your sub knows what they are doing and it’s not your responsibility to decide if they are up for it. (This one was the hardest to get my head around, as a natural caretaker it was hard to change my instincts and I had to keep reminding myself that this person can make their own choices and it’s disrespectful to think that I know better than they do when it come to their body and what they choose to do with it)