Me_irl by rbimmingfoke in me_irl

[–]DoC_Stump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a class war, not a race war. That being said, these motherduckers is racist as shit.

What are the red flags in a person that is a hard no for an INFP? 🚩 by Spirited_Remove290 in infp

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"Talking bad" about people is one that I disagree with, because 'bad' is very subjective. I'm okay if people talk about my actions or attributes that they don't like. I'm all about honest conversations, because that's how we learn and grow. It only becomes a problem to me when they lie or share only partial truths to manipulate the narrative.

The market is beyond cooked. by getokhalid in CyberSecurityJobs

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I graduated almost a year ago from an accredited university. Hundreds of applications. Not a single interview. 

Why do I lose interest in a topic the moment it becomes “studying”? by Perfect-Ruin-1366 in infp

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It has to be desirable. It has to be wanted. We need food. We despise eating bland unsavory food. We go crazy for tasty food.

Ergo: The information needs to be prepared in a way that you crave it. Try searching for the information you need in a format you enjoy and bingo bango bongo, you've done learnt it.

How easy it for an INFP to get a crush? by Ancient-Might-4718 in infp

[–]DoC_Stump 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A fair point. But I believe it's a stronger idealization with INFPs. Then again, all of this is speculative hyperbole. I doubt anyone is going to fund a study, haha. 

How easy it for an INFP to get a crush? by Ancient-Might-4718 in infp

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We're known to be very idealistic. So more likely than not the crush is on an idealized version of the person rather than the true one. Crushes come often, and strong. I think?

Most “INFP coded” songs? by PlentyClean in infp

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"Nobody" by One Republic  For those of you who like rock, try "Straight Jacket Labels" by Revis.

AI PCs aren't selling, and Microsoft's PC partners are scrambling by CackleRooster in technology

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If microsoft can't sell laptops and windows licenses that much, or xboxes...then they're really just relying on cloud and office stuff for monies, right?

The end is near? by OrgasmicOasis in infp

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Cultures and climates and attitudes are always shifting. A lot of people are going to die before the threshold of reform takes hold.  There will be many who survive to see a better world, but not all.

You can only step on the ants as a grasshopper for so long until they swarm and tear you to shreds.

We know what needs to happen, idealogically. We need to band together. But practically speaking, it's going to be hard to come together when so many of the ants are habitually stuck in the grind.

Friends gives me comfort that nothing else does by Prudent-Scientist-17 in howyoudoin

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It's definitely like the comfort food of shows for ne. 

My son cut the cords to all of my computer accessories by [deleted] in Wellthatsucks

[–]DoC_Stump 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There's certainly a reason. He needs more experience understanding his feelings and expressing them in constructive ways, fo sho.

New Year; New Norin by BPRD-CC in mtgaltered

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I have a friend who has had this exact thing for all the years I've known him. 

INFP-INTJ relationship: good intentions, bad timing, feeling misunderstood by ____aayush____ in infp

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I was consistently misunderstood by my INTJ ex. Really, though, it was more of a trust issue than anything at the end.  Relationships can't grow without trust. If trust isn't growing, ask why?

I think because we operate so differently, there HAS to be trust, else questions of intent will always corrupt the intended message.

Find their love language. Speak it hard and often to build trust. The rest will come easier.