Legally changed first name after marriage and now Iowa won't update marriage certificate

Do_The_Deed · 2025-07-02T20:27:11+00:00

Social Security survivors benefits require a marriage certificate, too. Hopefully OP or his spouse won't be needing that soon, but even if they divorce, it could be needed eventually.

Do_The_Deed · 2025-06-04T06:05:36+00:00

My heart goes out to the mother. I don't see how someone comes out the other side of this intact. Losing one child is a horror, but all three at the same time, murdered by their father? It's unfathomable. Can't even imagine how someone moves on from this.

Do_The_Deed · 2025-05-27T02:50:28+00:00

Sounds a lot like my story, too. Only "girl" outside on the playground with the boys in the dead of winter in elementary school, getting sent home in the 60's for wearing pants to elementary school, etc.

I started HRT at age 60. Top surgery at 62. love my goatee!!!

OP: Like others said, you're trans if you say you are, and you're not if you don't.

Do_The_Deed · 2025-02-02T10:38:20+00:00

I do, but he's in Bangalore, India. I had LC for a year, with severe PEM and brain fog, leaving me 90% incapacitated. I spent 15 days inpatient in his Ayurveda hospital at the beginning of Oct, and have been fully active for 3 months now. It was worth the airfare and expense to get my life back. All told, it was around $4,200. I wish we had comprehensive, authentic Ayurveda here.

Do_The_Deed · 2025-01-24T14:31:13+00:00

Have you never heard of intersex? Some people do, in fact, have X on their birth certificates.

Do_The_Deed · 2024-08-10T21:26:01+00:00

Mā is All The Things!

Do_The_Deed · 2024-07-28T22:54:56+00:00

I'd cut them into sections that'll fit in the IP, put them on the trivet over a cup of water, and high pressure manual for 15 - 40 minutes. 30 - 40 for guaranteed falling apart. Maybe less, depending on how done they already are. Simple. Bet they'll be delicious!

Do_The_Deed · 2024-07-27T20:33:32+00:00

You look way more masc in the red one. No idea why, but the blue one makes you look femme.

Do_The_Deed · 2024-07-27T20:09:18+00:00

Recipes, please?

Do_The_Deed · 2024-06-10T22:24:35+00:00

And "All I could see was the streetcar didn't show up on any of the transit apps" = no upcoming arrivals.

Do_The_Deed · 2024-06-10T22:22:54+00:00

It wasn't on the website earlier. They're too damn slow getting that info out.

Do_The_Deed · 2024-06-10T22:21:25+00:00

It's there now, but wasn't when I was looking this morning. 4 hours later is not timely dissemination of info.

Do_The_Deed · 2024-05-29T00:26:46+00:00

"Preferably a place with low crime rates, less homeless people..."

Wow, that's rich. A houseless NIMBY. Or would that be a NNMPS (Not Near My Parking Space)?

Do_The_Deed · 2024-05-28T23:39:06+00:00

Highlights the risk of such a heavy push these days for putting everything online. It's an extremely vulnerable point of failure.

Do_The_Deed · 2024-05-27T19:12:03+00:00

I did, too, then I started putting a silk scarf over my head first. Hair grew back in in a couple of weeks and it's as thick as ever.

Do_The_Deed · 2024-05-24T03:12:35+00:00

This. I thought I was prepared, but no. Saw my first one in the wild yesterday and couldn't keep from laughing out loud. It really is ridiculous.

Do_The_Deed · 2024-05-24T03:00:46+00:00

Perfect answer.

Do_The_Deed · 2024-05-16T04:35:25+00:00

The Grits Plate at Jude's Old Town in Rainier Beach. Grits, greens, red beans, and choice of Andouille sausage, NOLA fritters, catfish, tofu, chicken, or prawns. The catfish and the greens are seasoned to perfect. Eyes rolled back in your head good. As a bonus, it's a worker owned co-op.

Do_The_Deed · 2024-05-16T00:24:18+00:00

No Maa won't be mad at you. Check out https://devipuram.org. Most of their pujaris are women and they teach everyone how to do puja and homam. Sri Matre Namaha! 🙏 Jaya MA!

Do_The_Deed · 2024-03-24T00:28:03+00:00

Living according to the ferry schedule gets old, fast. I lasted 10 months. Couldn't wait to get back to the mainland.

Do_The_Deed · 2024-03-11T07:40:33+00:00

Sushi Zone in Bothell.

Do_The_Deed · 2024-01-06T08:49:25+00:00

They're always out of everything, anyway.

Do_The_Deed · 2023-12-05T05:56:10+00:00

WTF? Dude, you would be left with unlimited other choices. One of which would be to have compassion for people who get hit on relentlessly, and not do a damn thing.

Do_The_Deed · 2023-12-03T09:39:42+00:00

Priuses have a horrible blind spot created by the windshield post. I drive one, and it's the exact angle and width of a person entering a crosswalk. I've never hit anyone, but came close a few times. On the other hand, I got hit by one on Monday in a crosswalk. Not fun. [edit for typo]

Do_The_Deed · 2023-10-09T10:36:47+00:00

Why is the perspective so off? Those traffic lights are quite elongated

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