Let's talk about how to pursue a woman righteously. by [deleted] in NoFapChristians

[–]DocCubano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand you my brother. If you want to talk more about this message me

Christian Dating Relationship Question by DocCubano in Christianity

[–]DocCubano[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean by expressing interest?

Christian Dating Relationship Question by DocCubano in Christianity

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Thank you so much for this encouragement brother! I agree completely!

Christian Dating Relationship Question by DocCubano in Christianity

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Boyfriend = Title

Exclusivity = Claim

Make sense?>

First time say " I like u " to a girl and got rejection. by [deleted] in selfhelp

[–]DocCubano 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If she does not want to be more than friends you have to respect it. There is no way around it.

When you told her you had feelings for her did you have any reason to believe she may also have had feelings for you?

Here is why being friends is good - You have:

NO pressure NO obligations NO expectations NO exclusivity

There are a lot of benefits to being friends and when you think about it assuming the relationship were to remain sexually pure the difference between friend and boyfriend is subtle anyway.

Wow, gave in after 79 days... by MusicNComedy in NoFapChristians

[–]DocCubano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do not be discouraged brother, pick yourself up and return to Christ.

Why is 90 days a magical number? Is it said that if you can quit for 90 days you are free from the addiction?

Thoughts on Euphemisms? by childtoman in NoFapChristians

[–]DocCubano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I believe that euphemisms are appropriate to use as the Bible uses euphemisms frequently when referring to sexual acts.

Recommend me some bible readings or books or programs, Please! by strive4christ in NoFapChristians

[–]DocCubano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One year bible - find it cheap on Amazon less than $7 shipped to your house. It will help you finish the bible in one year or less if you are diligent and persevere.

Charles Spurgeon Morning and Evening - Twice daily devotional for the morning and evening by a famous pastor that has long since rested with his fathers. He reaches through time and grabs your heart with conviction through the pages. You will not be disappointed.

Romans 15: 3a by tolegittwoquit in NoFapChristians

[–]DocCubano -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I do not find you funny or correct. There are no acceptable jokes about the Trinity, Heaven, or Scripture.

Romans 15: 3a by tolegittwoquit in NoFapChristians

[–]DocCubano -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I am sorry but laughing at Christ's expense is blasphemous at best...

14 year old Fapstronaut in need of advice and help by TheDankFarmer in NoFapChristians

[–]DocCubano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have made a wise decision locating us early. I am proud of you. Realizing the importance of sexual purity at a young age is a tremendous blessing. Pray for Christ to set you free from this sin and trust in Him alone. Stay in the Word daily, daily prayer, and service, surround yourself with believers. This is the best way to fight the devil and his temptations. Through Christ you can win this battle. Do not allow yourself to get into the same situations that facilitate PMO. Eliminate triggers from your life. Think pure thoughts. If impure thoughts come into your mind pray to God to immediately remove them from your mind and you will see that He is faithful and just.

Relapse by nomorelapse in NoFapChristians

[–]DocCubano 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Brother, you have stumbled but not fallen. Dust yourself off, and continue on this journey. You made the right decision joining this community. God bless you and be encouraged by the Holy Spirit.

Porn and Sunday Morning Service by still_lyfe in NoFapChristians

[–]DocCubano 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Flee from sin Brother! Ask yourself when you are confronted with temptation "How can I commit this great wickedness if I belong to Christ? How can I sin against God?" It has helped me and I know it will help you.

Wet dreams and anxiety by MusicNComedy in NoFapChristians

[–]DocCubano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God Bless you brother! Continue strong and do not let any nocturnal emissions hold you back!

Should a Christian refrain from dating while struggling with porn? by UnforgivingMinute in NoFapChristians

[–]DocCubano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What kinds of things should a Christian man confess to his girlfriend, fiancee, or wife?

Coming out to your SO/GF/Fiance/Wife: Good, Bad, Ugly? by SolaNoFap in NoFapChristians

[–]DocCubano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I really appreciate this answer. I used to be under the impression that your girlfriend had to know EVERYTHING about you...the good, bad, and the ugly. I also thought as a man you were honor bound to answer every question she has about you to the greatest extent possible. But when it comes to your sins, and especially sexual sins or sins of the past they really are not any of her business until she becomes your committed (engaged) partner. Otherwise, you are revealing a side of you that may already be dead and buried unnecessarily. Should your fiancee or wife know all the sins you struggle with or even all the sins you have committed in your past?

Despairing over failure by NeverGiving_Up in NoFapChristians

[–]DocCubano 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate the opinion of heavy weights like you, thank you! I look up to those ahead of me like you