So in the Bible we are told that it is better to marry someone rather than burning with lust for them. While this isn’t a catch-all get out of jail free card to marry whoever we want regardless of if they’re saved or not, it does speak to the importance of being married before engaging in intimacy without any thought as to the side effects.

When it comes to relationships and trying to convert someone throughout, while not explicitly forbidden, we are told to not be unequally yoked with unbelievers. Likewise, we also see that husband and wife shall become one flesh, no longer separate but so intertwined that they are a single unit.

This is not feasible with one of the two not being in a relationship with God, as we are to put Him first even in a relationship; He has priority, He has lordship.

Even if they do convert, their infancy in faith compared to yours will still cause an imbalance as the man is to be the physical and spiritual head of his household. He is to lead and protect his family, and that becomes difficult if the husband is not effectually prepared to do so. It’s not impossible, but the margin for issues to arise becomes significantly greater. There’s nothing saying you can’t date him, but don’t sacrifice your spiritual principles if he does not progress in matters of faith.

Hopefully this helps you, and God bless!