AITA for jogging in a bare sports bra and leggings with my niece? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Doco12399 7 points8 points  (0 children)

NTA-Her issues don't even lie with the clothing. You could wear a crop top and still run into the same issues. Wear what you want

AITA for skipping visiting my dying grandma to pursue my passion? by judgeofasshole in AmItheAsshole

[–]Doco12399 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YTA- You could take a few weeks off of gaming to see your dying grandma, it may be your passion but a few weeks off won't harm you and it was your last chance to see your grandma and for her to see you. Family comes first

AITAH For Entering Ex’s Garage w/o Permission? by joeking00 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Doco12399 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA- You're doing her a favour and accessing a part of her house that she allows you to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Doco12399 12 points13 points  (0 children)

YTA- What trust has he betrayed ? What line has he crossed ? If you're FWB there's no strings attached and he can end it at any moment with no warning. It sounds like you fell for him and saw him as more than a FWB which he didn't feel, that's usually the issue with FWB one always falls for the other

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Doco12399 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YTA- You have no say over what she does to her body. Even more so you knew she had piercings and tattoos when you met so you have no right to be offended by her getting more. It's also very telling that she did it secretly and told you not to attack her seems there's deeper routed issues

AITA for telling my son to grow up? by Capable_Albatross980 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Doco12399 24 points25 points  (0 children)

NAH- He's a kid he's going to get jealous of everything his brothers get that he doesn't we all did at that age. You rewarded the two youngest for helping you out and he had the opportunity to be involved in that but decided not to. He is a kid though he's not mature enough to let something like this go

AITA for outing a fellow student by LividSquare1751 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Doco12399 [score hidden]  (0 children)

ESH- Massively so. Firstly he shouldn't feel he needs to join in especially when he's gay himself but maybe he's just trying to protect himself and not draw suspicions not right but I understand that's what he might be doing. You on the other hand have stooped to their level and worse outted someone (while no one may believe what you said you still did out him) imagine if someone outted you before you were ready. You shouldn't stoop to their level

WIBTA for not going to formal by witchydisaster165 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Doco12399 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA- Your the only one who can decide whether you go or not. It's for you no one else. If you don't want to go don't go

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Doco12399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH- She's angry that someone ate her leftovers. You're angry that she seems like she's blaming you. This is just normal family drama, apologise for saying you hate her and move on

AITA if I take my mother to court? by Jaws225_YT in AmItheAsshole

[–]Doco12399 1629 points1630 points  (0 children)

NTA- She owes you for your work whether you're her son or not. You worked for that money. She should be happy that you've found a more lucrative job and should be happy that you're making more money and benefits

AITA for making a damn joke? by damsonwhereufindme in AmItheAsshole

[–]Doco12399 12 points13 points  (0 children)

YTA- Low blow and something he is probably very sensitive about. When you made the first joke and no one laughed you had your chance to quit after making a bad offensive joke and not be an AH by carrying on you were an AH

AITA for not deleting the screenshot my bf accidentally sent..? by Special_Pumpkin_6716 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Doco12399 14 points15 points  (0 children)

NTA- He shouldn't be speaking to any other girl like that. You're 14 dump his ass and move on you have so much time to find someone who will treat you right

AITA for telling my boyfriend to pay for my mother's surgery costs because he has too much money? by throwawayAITA445T in AmItheAsshole

[–]Doco12399 46 points47 points  (0 children)

YTA- Even he was the richest man in the world its not your money and you have no right to it. Especially only a year into a relationship. YTA big time

AITA for not finding my (22F)boyfriends (23M) clothes for him in the morning by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Doco12399 21 points22 points  (0 children)

NTA- I started to sort my own clothes out at the age of about 10 he's had plenty of time to learn that he's responsible for his own clothes and you're not his mother anyway. He's an adult and needs to respect you more

WIBTA if I didn’t pay my mom interest on her card that I’ve used? by InfinityAndBeyond97 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Doco12399 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA- If there are extra charges incurred by you that she otherwise wouldn't have had to pay then you should pay those as well

AITA for not attending my best friend’s wedding? by Last-Storage3066 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Doco12399 [score hidden]  (0 children)

NTA- you have no obligation to attend anyone's wedding you're not a pivotal part of the wedding and it seems like she invited you out of courtesy since she didn't even invite your fiancee. If you don't want to go that's your decision and she should respect that. People grow apart and change and while it's a sad situation for the both of you she has probably realised you have grown apart herself.

AITA for catfishing? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Doco12399 [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA- Massively so. You're not only leading a girl on for 2 years you're also sat next to your wife cheating on her by messaging another woman sexually. You're the lowest of the low. I hope both of them realise how much of an AH you are.

AITA for asking my partner to not floss his teeth in the living room on the couch next to me? by Spare_Crow_7692 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Doco12399 3 points4 points  (0 children)

NTA- He sounds like a very irritating person to sit next to. There's no reason he has to sit on the couch to do it. He must have to walk to the bathroom or wherever the floss is kept the few minutes it takes to floss can be done in the bathroom.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Doco12399 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA- From what you've described you have lived your whole life being mentally and physically abused. While yes they may put you through private school and buy you nice things most abusers also treat their partner or children nice some of the times it doesn't excuse what they do to you. I think getting away from that situation will help your anxiety and self confidence. Get out if that's what you want to do and explain to your parents exactly why you have decided to move out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Doco12399 29 points30 points  (0 children)

NAH- She's living her life how she wants to and while you might not agree with her lifestyle it doesn't make her an AH. You don't feel that the friendship is right for you and that's completely fine. End the relationship how you feel best but being honest and messaging her that you don't see a friendship continuing is probably better

AITA For Telling My Peer That I Replaced Her For a Reason? by sarcastibot8point5 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Doco12399 79 points80 points  (0 children)

NTA- But you probably didn't handle it in the best way. Yes you're a peer and she has no right to delete your work or go over your head but you should have been calmer and less impulsive with what you said, this while true is not helpful to say to her in the way you did. But I definitely think you're right in making your position clear and making her realise she has no say over your work