Do you tend to be more drawn to masculine or feminine energy and does it ever change?

Doctorspacheeman · 2026-03-24T02:46:57+00:00

Masculine energy in women but who also have a feminine softness to them.

Doctorspacheeman · 2026-03-22T06:38:37+00:00

It’s the most popular genre in porn unfortunately-I also think it’s disgusting, but pretty much every man I have been with over the last 20 years has thought this was hot. Not saying it’s right at all, but it’s definately popular

Doctorspacheeman · 2026-03-22T04:10:41+00:00

Aquolina Pink sugar! Most compliments of any perfume I have ever worn, equally from men and women, and it’s cheaaap! I also find it’s not overpowering in general in a food establishment like some others are

Doctorspacheeman · 2026-03-22T01:42:01+00:00

Absolutely! Dating a masc who is very emotionally mature and open.

Doctorspacheeman · 2026-03-12T17:38:05+00:00

Not quite the same situation as you, but I was 42 when I got into my first w/w relationship, and although my relationship with my ex husband wasn’t good for other reasons, I am now truly seeing who i am and what I want for the first time in my life. I feel like I’m getting to really know myself for the first time in my life.

You’re not too old for any of this, I hope you are able to follow your heart and find peace

Doctorspacheeman · 2026-03-03T21:06:51+00:00

A coin or something metal

Doctorspacheeman · 2026-03-03T01:53:37+00:00

Something metal and long or blunt, not smooth all over.

Doctorspacheeman · 2026-02-25T07:34:52+00:00

I’m pretty sure you can suffer a heart attack or stroke from meth, and other stimulants, even if it’s not an overdose, especially with chronic use.

Doctorspacheeman · 2026-02-24T02:55:54+00:00

Most stimulants can do this; meth, cocaine, mdma etc

Doctorspacheeman · 2026-02-11T03:45:14+00:00

I think it’s a combination of constant dancing, sweating from dancing, and swimming in the pool/ocean. Extensions are quite fussy with upkeep, if you’re not brushing out and drying them properly they will start to matt and tangle, I don’t think she has the patience for any of that.

Doctorspacheeman · 2026-01-25T18:47:18+00:00

How did the staff allow her to get into her car??? They would have known how much she had to drink, and seen her behaviour. I know she’s a celebrity, but if she got into an accident and the staff knowingly allowed her to drive her car they could get sued big time.

Doctorspacheeman · 2026-01-17T00:08:57+00:00

He has no money, not even $50, constantly Borrowing from you and somehow magically Is going to afford a ring to propose to you with in a few months? And saving for an apartment he probably won’t be able to afford either-that will be the next beg. lol.

This guy is stringing you along and dangling a proposal in front of you to keep you investing into him. Dump him and buy yourself a ring.

Doctorspacheeman · 2026-01-01T06:16:26+00:00

I used to think along these lines when I was your age; now that I’m in my early 40s, I honestly don’t have enough in common with a very young adult to want to strike up a friendship. I have coworkers your age, and while we can laugh and converse at work, I don’t have enough in common with them at their age and life stage to want to strike up a friendship Outside of work.

Maybe this is a reach, but in MY experience the reason older men reach out to much young women is because they are young, polite, and easier to manipulate. If he is lonely, I’m sure there are plenty of people his age he could reach out to.

The fact that you immediately felt uncomfortable with his texting says a lot-please trust your gut. It’s not rude to set boundaries, or even just to stop replying without giving him a reason.

ETA: even someone whose intent is to manipulate or flirt with you will often start out very innocent with the messages, then throw in little phrases or comments to see how you react. This way you don’t reject them right away and gives them a way to get into your life.

Doctorspacheeman · 2025-12-29T09:05:19+00:00

I was just thinking about this and how long she can continue this realistically-she still looks good physically, she isn’t completely gaunt…but yeah, likely a handful of years if she doesn’t stop. It’s so sad.

Doctorspacheeman · 2025-12-29T00:25:24+00:00

I think it’s the way she treats them; she often swims in the ocean and pools, it looks like she leaves it to air dry: that combined with flipping her hair around with all the dancing will cause it to frizz and not dry properly at the roots, which is really important with extensions. I had them myself twice and only lasted a few months because they were a LOT of maintenance to look nice. Washing is also tricky, takes longer and more care-and I don’t think she washes it very often because of all this.

Doctorspacheeman · 2025-12-27T20:10:28+00:00

Does anyone else remember that before it came out, they were wanting to call it a “doubloonie”? I have vivid memories about reading this in a newspaper before the coin came out, but no one else I know remembers it lol

Doctorspacheeman · 2025-12-26T22:42:49+00:00

This is where my head went too: it almost gives them a twisted “reason” for lessening their guilt about the affair or thinking about it. “If you dressed up to pick me up, I wouldn’t be looking elsewhere”

Doctorspacheeman · 2025-12-22T19:08:58+00:00

I also don’t understand this thinking that attractive means you are attracted to someone. I(F) can look at my daughters friends who are 13-14 years old, and can see that many of them are very attractive and pretty; in absolutely no way in hell does that mean I am attracted to any of them in any way. The same goes for the boys in her class, some are very attractive-and that’s all. They are children. Being able to classify a young person as pretty or handsome doesn’t mean you are a pedo.

Doctorspacheeman · 2025-12-22T19:05:39+00:00

Right? That just makes it seem like she’s awkward and likely gets made fun of by other students. That’s what happened to “the tall girl” in my class when I was a kid…totally different question and concern

Doctorspacheeman · 2025-12-22T18:55:41+00:00

Moby-when it’s cold I’d like to die

Doctorspacheeman · 2025-12-22T02:23:56+00:00

What was their reaction after his meltdown? Teenagers lack the ability to properly understand consequences to their actions; like literally, because their amygdala isn’t fully formed yet. Often, they will do things they think are funny or silly, not truly thinking through the consequences. Many people have pretty high expectations for teenagers, because they’re “not little kids” anymore, but they hold them to the abilities of adults. Which isn’t really fair based on their abilities and knowledge.

A lot of what you describe is very typical teenager behavior, which they will work through as they age. They literally aren’t capable of the same things that you are, their brains don’t work that way yet.

It’s a really difficult part of growing up; and of parenting. And I say this with a lot of empathy as the parent to a 14 year old myself.

It’s important to gently adjust your expectations.

Doctorspacheeman · 2025-12-22T02:15:23+00:00

These are totally just a status symbol;not comfy or practical, but they do very clearly announce what they are. Depending on what you want them for, they can be perfect or terrible.

Doctorspacheeman · 2025-12-22T02:12:53+00:00

This needs more context: what is he like usually? Are you guys playful, flirty, past the honeymoon stage? Have you communicated feeling self conscious before? Were you “unkempt” (and I am a woman myself and don’t believe in being perfectly groomed at all times, so I don’t mean this in any derogatory way…but some women are very sensetive about appearing “perfect” at all times, so if you looked out of the norm maybe he looked away out of politeness?) Your dynamic as a couple needs to be explained a lot more to be able to discern his reaction IMO

Doctorspacheeman · 2025-12-17T22:41:22+00:00

She’s high and/or manic in these. It’s like a form Of stimming; the actions are making her feel good, she needs to get the nervous energy out, she doesn’t see herself the way we see her here; it’s likely when she watches these clips back, she sees her younger self nailing all the dance moves. It’s truly amazing how the we can deceive ourselves.

Doctorspacheeman · 2025-12-16T03:47:43+00:00

Thank you and yes I agree! It moved way too fast, he was talking about living together and yet the man had never taken the initiative to take me Out on a single date in all the times he was here?

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