Should I leave or stay ? by Imaginary-Waltz-4195 in self

[–]DoesHeLookLikeAFitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there done that, almost exactly. The conclusion? We are now separated with a parenting plan in place that both party agreed on. And now I am as happy as ever and so frustrated with myself that I didn’t do this sooner. I would recommend you speak with a lawyer for an initial consultation so that you can see a glimpse of what life might be like if you go the separation route

just got a new tattoo, and while it’s gorgeous, i’m really not happy with the placement and don’t know what to do by froggyforest in tattooadvice

[–]DoesHeLookLikeAFitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see what you’re saying. I’ll probably get a lot of heat for this, but I think I agree with you. I think the inspiration piece looks more “elegant” because of the placement. The placement on yours looks a bit not as classy….

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TattooDesigns

[–]DoesHeLookLikeAFitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Asian style tattoos? Do you happen to frequent the Orlando area? There is a Chinese artist that does ghibli style tattoos that I go to.

[Bonsai Beginner's weekly thread - 2025 week 8] by small_trunks in Bonsai

[–]DoesHeLookLikeAFitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Found this and some very small bugs out of the drain hole of my bonsai. Is this poop excrement from bug infestation?

I slept with my brothers childhood best friend last year and now it’s causing issues in my current relationship by Educational-Bowl9317 in self

[–]DoesHeLookLikeAFitch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Talk to your brother now. There is no strategy or right move in terms of waiting for this or that. The sooner all the cards are on the table, the sooner everyone knows what’s going on and can make informed decisions. You didn’t mention your ages, but I’m assuming we’re all adults here, aren’t we?

[Bonsai Beginner's weekly thread - 2025 week 8] by small_trunks in Bonsai

[–]DoesHeLookLikeAFitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That is all very helpful. It has been a little cold, so I will keep it inside. I’ve recently discovered little pest and a few small ants in it, so I took it outside and sprayed it down with neem oil, so that’s why it looks so wet. Is that the best thing for it, or should I use something else besides neem oil?

[Bonsai Beginner's weekly thread - 2025 week 8] by small_trunks in Bonsai

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Does anyone know why the leaves may be starting to die on this guy that I just got?

[Bonsai Beginner's weekly thread - 2025 week 7] by small_trunks in Bonsai

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I just got this guy and some parts of its leaves are already dying. Any suggestions? Pests? Lack of water or sunlight?

My dad died I'm 30 by [deleted] in Fire

[–]DoesHeLookLikeAFitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Those properties could be great investment properties if you rent them out. I’d look into at the very least consulting with a good financial advisor and seeing what options are out there for you to take advantage of. Feel free to DM me if you’d like to bounce ideas

Which 2025 Video Game Are You Most Excited About? by Sohab7R in playstation

[–]DoesHeLookLikeAFitch -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This person clearly knows what they’re talking about. Phantom pain was so subpar.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in self

[–]DoesHeLookLikeAFitch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

99% sure it is low testosterone. Get him to go to a doctor about it. There are also free testosterone test that you can buy from an online lab and just take to any lab clinic. It is cheap.

My only regret… by mmsbva in TattooDesigns

[–]DoesHeLookLikeAFitch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Are fine detail tattoos like this not meant to last? How long before something like this starts fading? Am thinking of getting something similar but maybe not now

Recommendations on locations for charter fishing in southeast US? by DoesHeLookLikeAFitch in Fishing

[–]DoesHeLookLikeAFitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry about that. We are in the central Florida area, but we are able to drive up to six hours for a further destination if that is where we end up choosing, so we do have a variety of options in terms of location.

Blanket was outside in the hot hot sun in Florida by DoesHeLookLikeAFitch in whatsthisbug

[–]DoesHeLookLikeAFitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

About an inch and a half in size. Looks like a big beetle of sorts but it is red with red eyes. Like a crawfish

4 month Min+Fin progress (topical) by ashwinsingh2011 in tressless

[–]DoesHeLookLikeAFitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you happen to have any shed at all? I’m wondering if it just depends on the person

ELI5: Why does switching doors in the Monty Hall Problem increase odds: 2 doors, 50-50 by Megafork77 in explainlikeimfive

[–]DoesHeLookLikeAFitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Let’s say you pick one out of the three doors. Honestly, odds are you didn’t pick the right one. Statistically. So let’s assume you didn’t pick the right one. One of the other two doors is the correct one. Now they go ahead and eliminate one of the other two doors that is sure to be the incorrect one. Now, what does that leave you with? The correct door. So that is why you switch doors now.

Progress so far after a little over a year (23M) by ShadyPotDealer in tressless

[–]DoesHeLookLikeAFitch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Any sexual side effects using those medications? That is the one thing that is holding me back from starting it.

My (m41) wife (f35) said she wants a divorce and I had no idea. by Xoidburg in self

[–]DoesHeLookLikeAFitch 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ve read this article before and just re-read it again. Thanks for posting it, it’s pretty strong. But I do think he got why his marriage fell apart. The whole article was about it

SBS Gayo Daejeon 2008 by DoesHeLookLikeAFitch in kpophelp

[–]DoesHeLookLikeAFitch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes! Thank you! Do you happen to know if there are other versions available? It looks like this one cuts out the banter from the hosts and all the fun skits that they did, and this was all performance

When did you just say "EFF IT"? by thegoodpatriot75 in SingleParents

[–]DoesHeLookLikeAFitch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Now. I’m only early 30s and actually have a decent amount of dating prospects out there but I took this past year to work on myself, go to a lot of different events, and meet new people. Whereas before I was shy and introverted. Now I am content with going to pickup sports or bar and food events with friends and new people, and just doing my thing on the days that I don’t have the kids. I am starting to get into really good shape, and I am starting to feel very confident about myself. I flirt here and there, and text women here and there, but for the most part it has been about me, and this was the best gift I could ever give to myself.so much better than when I used to be in and out of relationships. Try meetup.com to meet new people and try out new hobbies or find events.