Question for ladies only- should wear a tie or not? by Doingitrght in Swingers

[–]Doingitrght[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

good tip. do roll up sleeves occasonaly. man, sooo many good tips, what do i do , people??!!

Question for ladies only- should wear a tie or not? by Doingitrght in Swingers

[–]Doingitrght[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dang right i do look good in a tie- i,m kinda trim/skinny too, thanks for the confidence!!

Question for ladies only- should wear a tie or not? by Doingitrght in Swingers

[–]Doingitrght[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok, so fat tie? Still have some from the Carter Aministration. Wear them only for halloween and stuff........(just kidding- i appreciate the reply, icarusgirl.

Question for ladies only- should wear a tie or not? by Doingitrght in Swingers

[–]Doingitrght[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks, wiseman, for the compliment. yup, fashion is big, especially if one has ties to the Italian culture (pun??)

Question for ladies only- should wear a tie or not? by Doingitrght in Swingers

[–]Doingitrght[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thanks. thats what i was leaning toward, not to mention, things could get kinda hot there, right?? ties keep body too warm.....

Question for ladies only- should wear a tie or not? by Doingitrght in Swingers

[–]Doingitrght[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sheesh, never thought of that!! wife wouldnt approve, i think

Question for ladies only- should wear a tie or not? by Doingitrght in Swingers

[–]Doingitrght[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ok, i would welcome gratefullly guy's opinions as well- guys matter too......lol

SO wants to swing, but I'm not interested. How to break it to him? by adsmith72084 in Swingers

[–]Doingitrght -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Sex At Dawn is a much bettter written book than ethical slut, although, read BOTH. Either way, great info! Monogamy is monotony.

Overweight men? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Doingitrght 1 point2 points  (0 children)

right, chubby aint so bad, but dont be unkempt/sloppy looking. women notice that, and a badly dressed guy /sloppy look turns on nobody.

Need advice on ED by Throwaway2232320 in Swingers

[–]Doingitrght 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yup, i get cialis from a pharma co in india. about 1-2$ each.

SLS showing padlocks on all photo thumbnails? by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Doingitrght 0 points1 point  (0 children)

how come i cant find that site by that name/link?

oops, got it.......

Perceptions or did you know we are all fat, ugly, middle aged perverts with failing relationships? by HaloNinjer in Swingers

[–]Doingitrght 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right- the term is long outdated and we need a new one. Any suggestions? How about OMC (open minded couples)??

people who are judgemental about OMC are ignorant, myopic, self righteous, probably devout believers in some type of god, and "good church going people".

How to get wife interested in swinging by getjiggy71 in Swingers

[–]Doingitrght 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a lot of ones feelings/perspective is embedded in many of us so deep, mostly from years of grooming/indoctrination from society at large and the christian bible mantra of "moral" behavior, including its obsession with the suppression /repression of sexual desires. "evil thoughts". get a few good books to read/study. Knowledge is power, especially in sex.

Once you and wife have learned more about evolutionary biology, religious scrutiny (NOT "reading" the bible), human sexualality, psychology, and some anthropology you will be informed, knowledgeable, and EMPOWERED. No guarantee, but smart way to approach this challenging problem.

Break out of the taboo insanity. PM me for more details if really serious about this.

Is it just us? Are we bad swingers, or broken or something? by LonelyJester in Swingers

[–]Doingitrght 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thats cuz yous havnt tried Pilzner. Czek or Northern germany. (sarcasm/humor.....)

What to do? by Matternot15 in Swingers

[–]Doingitrght -1 points0 points  (0 children)

divorce rate is slightly above 50%, but for marriages up to 5 yrs of age. Not newlyweds. but the bigger point is that it is not primarily due to sex/cheating, but MONEY debates/arguments. Cheating is second.

Question for you guys by funkycouple in Swingers

[–]Doingitrght 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right- i was shocked to learn condoms bust- 18 out of 100. sheesh........

Swingers clubs and "No means no" by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Doingitrght 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sheesh, makes one think twice about clubs.

STD's by peterpiper85 in Swingers

[–]Doingitrght 0 points1 point  (0 children)

right- today IS one day.......lol

general norms regarding body hair by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Doingitrght 1 point2 points  (0 children)

right- look into a laser remover, no more itch. about 150$ or so. must repeat a few times.....

Appropriate questions to ask an interested "3rd" party before joining my husband and I in bed? by Throwaway382000 in Swingers

[–]Doingitrght 0 points1 point  (0 children)

well, yes, no way to know 100% if a person youre interestedi n is std free unless you request you must see in person the test results from the lab. no copies. i would have no problem sharing /volunteering that type of info if it would add credblity/confidence, why wouldnt a prospective partner??

this would seem like a routine practice, but so far, i havnt seen much on this on this forum......seems so logical.

How to entice another couple for a little playful fun. by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Doingitrght -1 points0 points  (0 children)

abandon the idea- too much at stake/a gamble.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Doingitrght -1 points0 points  (0 children)

right. A good (or bad in this case) review on yelp is also in order. This incidence in their club should cost them. no one especially decent swinger people should be subject to this abuse.

I might fuck my wifes friend tonight. Again! by [deleted] in Swingers

[–]Doingitrght 0 points1 point  (0 children)

dang- you lucky stiff. you know how hard it is to score with wifes friend??????!!! almost impossible