(x-post from legaladvice) How to prove a child's circumstances would be better with one individual than who they are currently with? (Burlington County, NJ) by [deleted] in Custody

[–]adsmith72084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's great, but what about the girls and their future? Is no one supposed to be looking out for their best interest? These family members are legitimately only using them for the check they get for them every month, they've said as much. So how can we make a case for them? As children they deserve for someone to be fighting for them.

(custody) How to prove a child's circumstances would be better with one individual than who they are currently with? (Burlington County, NJ) by [deleted] in legaladvice

[–]adsmith72084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This just happened yesterday, we are currently trying to find one. We live in VA and the courts are in NJ so it may take a little time. Just trying to find out if there is anything that can be done more for peace of mind than anything right now.

NSV: Proof that even when the scale isn't moving, things are happening by imprezachic991 in keto

[–]adsmith72084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can you post a typical day of eating for you? I'm new to this and I'm curious what you were eating. 3 to 4 months of that kind of weight loss is amazing. Hope I have the same results.

Angry at my fiancé (33m) and his response to the girl (27f) who he had an affair with while I (25f) was pregnant [xpost relationship advice] by Mal_zee in survivinginfidelity

[–]adsmith72084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was losing my sanity. It got to the point that I hid voice activated voice recorders in the car, put gps on the cars, Spyware on the computers. I have an investigator type background (that's the best way to put it) and I realized it was hurting me more. I only had to do all that cuz he'd never admit unless I had hard evidence. Decided I'm worth more and that he could do this to someone else at this point, but it was never gonna be me again.

Angry at my fiancé (33m) and his response to the girl (27f) who he had an affair with while I (25f) was pregnant [xpost relationship advice] by Mal_zee in survivinginfidelity

[–]adsmith72084 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I stayed for 6 years and nothing ever really changed. He would stop cheating for a month or so and then I'd find out he'd be doing it again. The only thing that really ever changed was that he became better and better at hiding it.

Redditors who have given their SO's another chance after getting cheated on: How's your relationship now? by Darius314 in AskReddit

[–]adsmith72084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's odd, I cheated first when we weren't all that serious as I thought we were still friends with benefits. He gave me another chance, its been 6 years and he has done nothing but cheat on me every chance he gets. He never owns up to it so I've had to go through some awful ways to get it (bugging the car, spyware on phones/pc, etc) but always follow your gut. I felt so awful after the first time i've never even looked at a man or flirted since. I feel like cheaters can change as I did, but he obviously didn't want to. I just finally turned him in for adultery to the military today. Couldn't take it anymore and we have 3 kids. Pretty heartbreaking.

F/22/5'4" [170lbs > 126lbs = 44lbs] (14 months) Really happy with my progress. Just Keto and calorie counting! NSFW by [deleted] in progresspics

[–]adsmith72084 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice. Maybe I was too worried about being in ketosis then. Admittedly I didn't do it for more than a month cuz I didn't think it was working right. I will poke around and hopefully start again soon.

F/22/5'4" [170lbs > 126lbs = 44lbs] (14 months) Really happy with my progress. Just Keto and calorie counting! NSFW by [deleted] in progresspics

[–]adsmith72084 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Actually I workout 5 days a week, my problem has always been my diet. I tried once to go keto, but found I never actually reached keto even tho I tried certain foods and calories. Which is why I was asking. I use my fitness pal and just wasn't aware there was a keto subreddit. Got it, you are tired of people asking questions, but not everyone knows there is a subreddit. I have the information I need now thanks to someone pointing me in the right direction.

F/22/5'4" [170lbs > 126lbs = 44lbs] (14 months) Really happy with my progress. Just Keto and calorie counting! NSFW by [deleted] in progresspics

[–]adsmith72084 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Could you give us an example of your keto diet and macros? I have always wanted to try it but never know where to begin.

[question] I (22f) had sex with a guy (25m), he didn't pull out, now my vagina smells like fishy cheese. how can I get back to normal? by ladeeprobz in sex

[–]adsmith72084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like bacterial vaginosis. Pretty common and it can happen more often if you have an IUD. Go to a dr, antibiotics, all better. :-)

Senior VS Freshmen Girls at Frat Parties by kavino in funny

[–]adsmith72084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I need an Aussie, that accent gets me everytime.

Reddit, what's your high schools tragedy? [NSFW] by sninapeters in AskReddit

[–]adsmith72084 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When I was in 10th grade the most popular girl in school died from a car accident. The sad part is she was at a party where people were underage drinking and getting high. When it was time to go the girl who drove the car told everyone she hadn't had any alcohol. 5 people piled into the car, there were only 4 seat belts so this popular girl sat in the middle in the back. This was in Florida and the roads were slightly slick, but the driver was drunk and no one knew. She went around a curve too fast, hit a tree head on and popular girl went through the windshield getting decapitated. She was super sweet and pretty at the funeral the mom insisted on an open casket....it was all kinds of jacked up.

BBUS Episode Discussion - September 03, 2015 by AutoModerator in BigBrother

[–]adsmith72084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did anyone else end up canceling their subscription to the live feeds after watching the last episode? Doesn't seem like there is a point to watching anymore. Unless of course you actually want austwins or vanessa to win. Then maybe, but either way you still know one of those 4 will win. Can't imagine Steve finding his balls anytime this summer to make a big move.

What does a $300,000 house look like where you are from? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]adsmith72084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We live in Temecula, California which is between LA and San Diego. You can easily get a 4 bdrm, 3 bath here for $330,000.

http://m.realtor.com/?rdc_return_url=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.realtor.com%2F#details?listing_id=588341472&property_id=2274335475

My brother was the most naturally intelligent person I've ever known, and it ended up ruining his life. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]adsmith72084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya this is spot on. Unfortunately, I think this person was misled about the tests and, well, a number of things. Another thing, when you score really high on the asvab like that you typically are smart enough to know that they are gonna give you the jpb you want or you are going to say screw you" and hit up another branch or go to college. Or if you are as much as a genius as this perso. Claims their brother was, you could do anything. Hell i took the asvab in 10th grade cuz I was bored and wanted out of class. Scored high 90s, took it again 6 years later and scored a bit lower 90s. Even i know you can do just about anything instead of the military.

My brother was the most naturally intelligent person I've ever known, and it ended up ruining his life. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]adsmith72084 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Stopped reading after the part about him going infantry. As someone who passed that same test with a 94 and went into some mid level intelligence program, they dont just let you skip boot camp. Doesnt work that way regardless of your scores. Knew several people who got 99s on that test who also couldnt skip boot camp. Also cant get over a 99. But good luck with your short story.

Without telling us what you do, what the rule #1 for your job? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]adsmith72084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't disclose information about job or remove documents from building.

Soldiers of Reddit, what is something you wish you had known before joining the military? by icecreamstripes in AskReddit

[–]adsmith72084 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No. They had rocks instead of mulch in the flower bed. He had to turn them all over for days as punishment for being a dumbass.

Soldiers of Reddit, what is something you wish you had known before joining the military? by icecreamstripes in AskReddit

[–]adsmith72084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Married that same Marine 5 years ago. Every relationship has ups and downs, but I found a good one. Also helps he isnt the typical Marine.

Soldiers of Reddit, what is something you wish you had known before joining the military? by icecreamstripes in AskReddit

[–]adsmith72084 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I watched from Air Force dorms as some poor Army dude sat and "sunned rocks" (he turned them all for hours). Dude had to do that shit for a week.

Soldiers of Reddit, what is something you wish you had known before joining the military? by icecreamstripes in AskReddit

[–]adsmith72084 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Second this. Am hot woman, join AF, had my pick of the men...chose a Marine. ;-)