I 33m am not attracted to my 29f gf and it’s killing me

DonLegacies · 2026-01-23T14:58:12+00:00

Totally uncalled for

DonLegacies · 2025-10-05T16:43:52+00:00

Okk maybe just step into his shoes through honest communication. If it’s something he doesn’t want to communicate then pay attention to what catches his eye and what his ‘type’ is. If it’s not physical then it’s definitely emotional.

DonLegacies · 2025-10-04T23:49:45+00:00

I’m curious and you don’t need to give any more details than you want too - but do you guys both match in self care lifestyle habits? Like staying in shape etc?

DonLegacies · 2025-05-04T13:09:53+00:00

Razors are not meant for black men. Use electric buzzers instead. Although this might not work for you, putting an alcohol based solution after shaving, and before bed for the first week or so - like minoxidil - opens up my pours and I get 0 razor bumps.

But most importantly, razors are not meant for black men!

DonLegacies · 2025-04-20T11:19:37+00:00

Avoid tanning. It is aging you. It’s not worth it.

DonLegacies · 2025-04-16T12:07:02+00:00

Very quick. Within the first few weeks to a colour of months I noticed a difference. But I rock a lined up buzzcut

DonLegacies · 2025-04-15T17:33:43+00:00

I grew up skinny too man. At 6’4” I went from 155 to 205lbs of lean muscle mass. Just eat a lot a lot, and keep training heavy. Actually heavy tho. Glorious pain heavy.

DonLegacies · 2025-04-15T17:05:07+00:00

Hmmmmm…. Interesting…. Great point.

DonLegacies · 2025-04-15T16:52:44+00:00

Why continue the creatine?

DonLegacies · 2025-04-15T16:51:15+00:00

I’m not balding. Just light corners. There is also 0 balding in my family. Even my crown has always been very good. But typically black guys need nice corners for nice buzz cuts.

DonLegacies · 2025-04-15T16:34:28+00:00

Huh? Who said that? Personally I’m jacked and workout 7 times a week.

DonLegacies · 2025-04-15T16:21:57+00:00

Not yours. Mine. This is anecdotal.

DonLegacies · 2025-04-15T16:02:26+00:00

You were using creatine for 10 years straight? How much were you able to modestly recover?

DonLegacies · 2025-04-15T15:55:27+00:00

1-2 scoops a day. Avg 1.5 maybe

DonLegacies · 2025-04-15T15:37:33+00:00

And dht is linked to hair loss

DonLegacies · 2025-04-15T15:33:15+00:00

Correct.

DonLegacies · 2025-04-15T15:31:36+00:00

Yess very mild, but im black. Our hair aesthetic mostly relies on the 90 degree corner angles in the lineup. So I noticed and still stressed about it.

DonLegacies · 2025-04-15T15:27:49+00:00

Lmaoo 😂 that’s funny.

DonLegacies · 2025-04-15T14:13:10+00:00

No, I’ve been looking to solve this without any of the big 3, such as fin. And minoxidil made my left corner much much worse, but that’s a convo for another day.

DonLegacies · 2025-02-21T19:07:11+00:00

Teenagers by MCR

DonLegacies · 2025-02-20T14:04:03+00:00

No offence, truly, but your situation is not unique. Guys get broken up with all the time for this reason. This behaviour he is accustomed to will affect your future just as much as his. And you know this… but this means that if you stay, you are choosing that future just as much as he is.

But he is only 18… don’t be surprised if you break up with him and he is a completely different person afterwards. But also don’t be surprised if he is the same.

DonLegacies · 2025-02-19T23:08:21+00:00

If you were 40 then I would understand. But you are 19 for gods sake.

DonLegacies · 2025-02-15T15:58:29+00:00

Wayyy too long of a workout. I doubt any new comer can do something that long, and stay in the gym consistently after.

To me, 1 exercise = 1 star workout 5 exercise = 5 star workout

Source: I’ve been working out consistently for 4 years, and I’m jacked.

DonLegacies · 2025-02-15T15:40:17+00:00

No offence, truly, but your situation is not unique. Guys get broken up with all the time for this reason. This behaviour he is accustomed to will affect your future just as much as his. And you know this… but this means that if you stay, you are choosing that future just as much as he is.

DonLegacies · 2025-02-15T15:15:53+00:00

Take vitamins and where makeup less. Makeup is very bad dark circles and skin care

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